Watch Brad Pitt Pick Up A girl with Flawless Body Language
Yesterday I was doing a consult/coaching (shout out) and we were working on improving his body language. To help him understand we watched a Youtube clip together. This clip was from the movie “Meet Joe Black” and it was Brad Pitt picking up an attractive girl in a coffee shop. It is surprising how bad the dialogue is (written by a guy with no game no doubt) and how amazing the body language is (done naturally by Brad Pitt). I think it’s a clip that hammers home the point that if your body language is good enough, it doesn’t matter what you say… you will still get the girl.
It’s not what you say, but how you say it.
I’ve spent a ridiculous amount of time studying attractive body language in men (including reading tons of romance novels… very difficult, tons of body language books, studying the most attractive men in the world, etc.) and Brad Pitt is not the most famous sex icon on the planet because of his natural good looks (although it plays a part), it’s because he has world class body language.
Let’s watch the clip and break it down together.
0:00 – Take a look at how relaxed Brad Pitt looks. He just met this girl and he’s about as laid back as possible. He is also not being foreign and laughing (attractively at things that aren’t funny). On top of all of that he is using whatever excuse he can to use that smile that he has spent hundreds of hours in front of the mirror perfecting.
0:05 – Listen to the sound of his voice. It’s deep, but not try hard deep. His rate of speech is slow and completely relaxed.
0:14 – Brad Pitt uses the excuse “better car” to use a cocky smile in the interaction. Money.
0:25 – She comments on something Brad Pitt says and he doesn’t rush to respond to her. He takes his time, thinks it over and responds.
0:34 – Writers put in this shitty dialogue about Brad Pitt saying if he were married how he would treat her. Brad Pitt takes that terrible dialogue, mixes in perfect body language and knocks it out of the park. “Just an example” he uses that opportunity to show he is not even saying it for her, but to make himself laugh. He throws in his well practiced laughing smile at just the right time.
0:50 –Brad Pitt says “Shoot you think so.” and throws in the ultimate face… the model eyes. He finds the right point in the conversation to do it. That is a big part of body language… timing. You want to see that exact face he did in a photo? Just go to Google and type “male model” and look at the eyes of nearly every single picture you will see. They will look just like that. Why? Because it’s the most attractive a man can make himself.
From here on: Brad Pitt goes into more needy dialogue, written by a writer who is terrible with women no doubt, but continues his world class body language. Everything he does and says is slow and relaxed. His voice is deep. It’s money, he even makes the retarded mistake of not getting this girls number after she literally says “I like you so much.”
Keep watching the clip and see if you can pick out any of the other things yourself, because this clip is full of perfect body language. If you try to pick up a girl using body language like this, you can say anything you want and you will get the girl.
You can get this type of body language
As I have mentioned earlier, I have spent a ridiculous amount of time studying body language. If you want to improve your body language, you should check out my book: The 9 Laws of Attractive Body Language. Also keep in mind that I’m still selling all my books for 60% off, here.
Improving your attractive body language is something that can AT LEAST double the attraction that women feel towards you. More than anything else in game, it’s something that is worth the time and effort trying to improve.