The Most Fun Way to Learn a Language

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The Most Fun Way to Learn a Language

I’ve become quite fluent in Spanish and my Russian is progressing very quickly. People have asked me how I was able to learn so quickly. I have been telling them it’s not difficult, I just learn languages the fun way, the way where you use the ultimate motivator… women.



Women are the ultimate motivators for anything

I remember some old quote that went something like “without women, hard work wouldn’t exist.” I don’t know if it’s 100% true, but there is a ton of truth in it. Nothing can motivate you like your penis can. What I have done is to harness that power into learning languages.


How to use women to make language learning fun

1) Plan a trip

If you are really serious about learning a language, I suggest you plan a trip sometime in the future to a country where that language is spoken. How long you stay is not so important (of course longer will help you more), but the important thing is that you plan the trip.


2) Pipelining

Pipelining is where you use the internet to start dating the girls before you even arrive. If you are serious about learning a language, you should start this right away.

When you signup for the dating website, it’s time to start chatting. If she speaks English as well, this is not a bad thing because when you are at the beginning stages she can help you a ton by explaining things to you.

Chat with girl after girl. Use to be able to understand the girls you are talking to. Begin trying to seduce them. Don’t be afraid to build connections and relationships and get sexy photos and videos. I talk about how to do all of this pipelining (internet dating) effectively in my book Elite Online Dating.

You will have chances to send audio messages, webcam, but mostly you will be reading and writing and translating all the time. Your knowledge of the language will shoot up and it will be motivated by wanting to better communicate with those hot women.


2a) Chatting while watching movies and listening to music in the language

This is something I have done a ton of and it’s like immersion at home. Basically I downloaded a ton of Disney movies in the language I wanted to learn (most recently Russian). Then I got the English subtitles for those movies. I had a huge collection and I just started to watch them over and over.

While I was watching I was also chatting with girls online (pipelining) and using Google Translate to help me understand some of the specifics of words and sentences in the movie. This combination was very fun and VERY helpful in improving.

On top of that throw in youtube songs with subtitles and you will be golden.


3) Arriving in the country and dating

This is the part where you land in the country and you go on a ton of dates. You will have a ton of dates because you read my book and because you spent all that time pipelining/ practicing the language.

Now you will go on a bunch of dates. Some of these dates will be with girls who also speak English. You want to practice with them their language as much as possible.

Next you want to move onto the girls who don’t speak any English at all. This will be more challenging, but ultimately you will get more practice with them.

The next thing you know you will have mastered the first 30 minutes of a conversation.


4) Dating a local girl

You had a ton of dates and you found a girl you really like. The next thing to do is to make her your girlfriend. You will want to talk to her all the time and will be forced to practice the language. It is very preferrable that this girl is one of the girls who didn’t speak any English.
One you have dated this girl for a couple months (even if you have to go home and it’s long distance), you will be conversational in the language. Bam!

Pussy… mankinds greatest motivator.

You’ve just harnessed the power of pussy to find the most fun way to learn a language.


The other stuff you should still do

  • Get the basics of grammar by opening a book
  • Learn the 1000 most common words with a cell phone application
  • Use Michel Thomas Audio Books or something to help with speaking
  • Read basic books in the language while using a click translator


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  • NYC

    Outstanding advice. What’s your source for foreign language movies with English subtitles?

    • i get the actual movie, then i search for the subtitles online.

  • All great advice. This is how I started learning Japanese back in the day, and how I am trying to learn Chinese now. Too much work and too much sex. She keeps me laying up in bed late when I should be doing situps or reading. Enjoying every moment though.

    • The most pleasant hard work ever 😉

  • ale

    How do you fund your travels? Online work, have a job that allows travel, or do you save?

    • All online work. THC saves.

    • ale

      Freelance stuff or passive income from this site and other endeavors? If freelance what sort of stuff do you do?

    • I do a lot of coaching and travel consulting for this website. And I have some side stuff I would rather not say 😉

  • JBPoqueliche

    I could not agree more. Insist that the girls speaks to you in her native language 24/7. Express yourself in hers and only use English when you lack vocabulary.
    There are also great YouTube channels with foreign films and English subtitles, if you don’t have the possibility or the time to download.
    For the 1000 most common words, I don’t know if apps like Nemo could help. Do you have any good applications to recommend for that, 20.
    One of your best “practical advice” articles yet, 20. Good stuff.

    • Yeah the youtube advice is great. I’m not familiar with nemo. I just search for language apps and search for most common words apps.
      Thanks JB

  • Cody Martin

    Excellent Post 20! I have read your blog for quite a while now (although this is my first time commenting) and I am currently preparing to travel to Vietnam. My ex is Viet and she really opened my eyes to how amazing and feminine they are. I’m deeply envious of all that you have done, man! I’m hoping to try to replicate your style as I go on to date many different girls while in Vietnam. It will be very hard because I think we all know that Vietnamese girls really aren’t very easy but that is honestly part of the reason why I am so incredibly attracted to them. I will be putting all the advice in this post to practice immediately. Thanks for all the amazing info and please continue!

    • Thanks Cody. Hope you have a great trip. Follow my advice and for sure you will do well. GL

  • What was least proficient you where at a language and banged?

    • I would say speaking French in Haiti. Also when I first started learning Russian when I first got to Ukraine.

  • Thanks for these tips, 20 – I’ve been looking to learn Spanish in my spare time.

    • Learning languages is the best way to spend your spare time. And this way… you will be having a blast while doing it

  • I’mTooSexyForMyCar

    Thanks 20. Excellent post. It is all too common that as we date a foreign chic we teach them English and/or our own native language. By the time we split up / break up / get a divorce, they have mastered 1-2 languages. And we have nothing. It is way better to learn their language and by doing this show appreciation to her and to their culture. This also increases our own market or even professional value which in turn makes us a lot more valuable in her eyes, as well. Also, this way we have access to chicks w/ no English skills who have not yet had a foreign boyfriend.

    One addition to language materials. I have found that Pimsleur language programs might be the fastest way to conversational and spoken language.

    • Yeah it’s a good observation. Better to learn the language from the relationship. And eyah I’ve never tried Pimsleur myself but I have heard good things.

    • I’mTooSexyForMyCar

      Yep, go the extra mile, learn her language. And that language will always be yours, even if she isn’t.

      Yep, Pimsleur is probably the fastest and easiest way to learn spoken language very effectively. Pimsleur used to be really expensive but now you could buy just 5 new lessons, pay as you go, for a very reasonable price. I’ve noticed that you get the most out of Pimsleur if you write key phrases on a word document (in a question-answer format) and then quiz yourself using your notes, instead of listening the 30 minute lesson again (even though to listen to it again is also beneficial). Pay close attention to the intonation (melody) of the words and sentences and mimic that as closely as you possibly can.

  • Great article with excellent idea!

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