A quote comes to mind from a movie I watched many times growing up;
“Don’t take life too seriously, you will never get out alive” – Tara Reid from American Pie
This is the kind of carefree outlook that you should have. It will make you more fun to be around, and reduce your stress by a huge amount. Whenever I find myself starting to act too seriously I will think back to this quote and make the right changes.
This should not just be a thought you come back to from time to time, it should be an outlook. You should see the world like this. Before you know it girls will start to see you as a fun guy.