How to Seduce Filipino Girls (with Pictures)

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I have now slept with more than 80 Filipino girls (that I can remember) and am currently dating a Pinay girl who is famous just for her beauty; even wrote a book about my time in the Philippines. I think it is time that I share my strategies and secrets with SwoopTheWorld readers on how to seduce Filipino Girls.


What Do Filipino Girls Look Like?

Filipino girls are generally short and slim. More recently, I have noticed a bit of a belly on some of the girls, but overall they are slim (especially if you are coming from an Anglosaxon country). Their bodies are very tiny and fall into this well loved niche of body types. Filipina girls also almost always look younger than their age. It’s a nice benefit if you want something serious and want a girl who will look young for longer.

The girls in the video are over average looking Filipino girls, you can expect to find many girls like this.


The Easiest Way to Meet Filipino Girls for Sex is with Online Dating

By far the easiest way to meet girls in the Philippines is with online dating. I have used it a lot and gotten VERY GOOD results with some very beautiful girls. Here are my top 3 favorite ways to meet them:

  1. Filipino Cupid – This website is filled with girls who are serious about meeting somebody, especially a foreigner. You will have the lowest flake rates with these girls and you will have a lot of fun. Have to pay for it, but it is worth it 100 times over.
  2. Tinder – Girls on this website aren’t always serious about meeting somebody, so your success rate will be a lot lower. But the upside is that there are a very large number of girls on this website. Need the paid membership to get any decent results.
  3. Date in Asia – This website is packed full of very poor girls and ladyboys. I don’t really like it at all, but I have gotten some lays from it, so I will put it at number 3.


My online dating strategy in the Philippines

My online dating strategy in the Philippines is simple, I message the prettiest Filipino girls on the website with a simple hi. What this does is cancels out the girls who aren’t really interested (you will have so many options it’s better to find girls who are already interested than to convince them to be interested). Next, I ask them how they are, when they respond and ask me how I am, I drop some type of DHV about myself ie.: just saying goodbye to Japan (for a world traveler), just got out of the operating room (for a doctor), and things like that.

From there you just want to get the number and set up a date and a time. It’s very important to set up an exact time because you will be getting interest from so many girls that you will want to plan it out so you can be going on at least 1 to 4 dates a day.


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How is Picking Up Girls at Night in the Philippines?

The nightlife in the Philippines can be really good, especially in Manila and Cebu City. Because as a foreigner, your value is so high, night game in the Philippines is easy. Dress as well as you can, then walk around and wait for eye contact. Then, you want to approach and say “Hi.” This simple approach has gotten me a lot of lays.


The Best Way to Meet a Filipina Wife or Girlfriend

If you are in the Philippines to find a wife or a girlfriend, meeting girls online and in night game may not be the best way (although you can find good girls in these places). The best place to meet these types of good girls is through day game. The Filipina girl I’m dating now who is famous for her beauty, I met through day game (special thanks to THC). If you want to find a Filipino virgin, it’s not difficult, just start doing some day game.

How to do day game: My day game strategy is simple, I walk around until I see an attractive girl. Then I walk up to her pretending to be lost “Excuse me to do you know where X is?” Then, proceed to talking to her and then, before she leaves, slip her your number.

Slipping her your number is VERY IMPORTANT because most likely she will be very intimidated by you. You want to write your number down on a piece of paper before you go out. Even if it seems she’s not interested, hand her that piece of paper, you will be surprised how often you will get a text.


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You Can Sleep With 1 to 4 Filipino Girls a Day

I have slept with 4 new Filipino girls in one day multiple times. It’s not that difficult if you put in the work. If you are in the Philippines to just have a good time, use all of these strategies and you will have the time of your life.


Filipino Girls Personalities

Filipino girls are probably the sweetest girls on the planet. They are very caring and will very rarely be a bitch. This may shock some of you guys coming from Western countries. The down side to Filipino girls is that they can be quite boring at time especially when they ask you what you are eating every day.

English Levels in the Philippines are incredible. I have been all over Asia and no other country comes close. This means there is no language barrier in the way of a connection… a huge plus.


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Always Push for Sex in the Philippines

If you get a Filipino girl on a date, you should always have a plan to get her back to your apartment afterwards. In the Philippines you should always push for sex on the first date. It is possible you won’t get sex on the first date, but you have to try. I got sex on the first date over 90% of the time.

Where to Take Filipino Girls for Dates

I like to try to always get an apartment or hotel close to a mall. I do this because the Philippines can be hot and it’s nice to get out of the sun and into an airconditioned building for the date. You can get a coffee or dinner. I found that Filipina girls usually offered to pay for their half of the bill. It’s important that you choose a date spot close to your place because of the previous section: always push for sex.

To read some ideas on how to get the girls to come back with you, read this article.


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What are the best cities in the Philippines to meet girls?

I have traveled all over the Philippines and I will give you a quick guide on which cities to go to for different things.

Makati (Manila)

Makati is where most of the foreigners stay in Manila. It has a really good nightlife and is where a lot of the richest people in the Philippines live. It’s more comfortable than other parts of the country but it will also be more expensive. The prettiest girls in the Philippines are living here, but there are also a lot of prostitutes and ladyboys. It’s a great place for online dating, night game and day game. Girls in Manila are generally a bit taller and lighter skinned than other parts of the country.

Quezon City (Manila)

Quezon city is the other side of Manila and is better for a genuine experience. It is where a lot of middle class Filipinos live. It’s great for online dating and day game and not bad for night life. It may not be as good as Makati for numbers, but if you are looking for a girlfriend it will probably be a better choice.

Cebu City

Cebu city is nice because it is close to a lot of beautiful places (beaches etc.). The problem with Cebu city is that there are so many foreigners here. It seems to have Koreans everywhere and a lot of white tourists as well. This has some good sides and some bad sides. The good sides are that this creates a lot of “foreigner only” girls. These girls are only interested in hooking up with a foreigner. The bad side is that your exotic value will be lower. Girls here are some of the prettiest in the Philippines.


Davao may not have the prettiest women in Phil, but it does have the most innocent.  These girls form Davao are generally darker skinned and shorter than other parts of the country. Your exotic value here will be much higher than the above cities, so you will be eye balled more, but they will also be more intimidated by you. Recommended for guys looking for serious girlfriends or wives. Samal Island is close by if you want a nice beach, but it’s safest to stay in the city.

Cagayan de Oro, General Santos, Butuan, etc.

These cities are on the island of Mindano and they are places where your exotic value will be out of this world. In these cities you will know what it’s like to be a rock star. The down side? The women aren’t the most attractive in Phil and at the moment it’s slightly dangerous with Muslim guys kidnapping foreigners all the time.


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Where Are the Best Beaches in the Philippines?

While big cities like Davao, have Samal Island (a good beach) close by, usually you will only find the breathtaking beaches away from the best cities to meet girls. The best beaches in the Philippines are on the island of Palawan (El Nido, Puerto Princessa, etc.) and on Boracay. If you meet a special girl in one of the cities, it’s not a bad idea to take them to one of these island paradises for a nice little vacation.


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What Do Filipino Girls Find Attractive in Men?

Filipino girls are like most girls in that they find height attractive. The nice part about this for us westerners is… we are all tall compared to the locals. Filipino people are some of the shortest on the planet. This means that if you are 5’6″, you will be over average in height in the Philippines.

Filipino women also find white skin attractive. If you go to any grocery store, you will see a gigantic section full of skin whitening products. This means that lighter skinned Pinays are seen as more attractive and darker skinned Pinays are seen as less attractive. So, if you ever see a tanned Filipina walking down the street, there is no excuse not to approach her… you will probably end up being her dream man.

The rest is pretty obvious, the women here want guys who are successful and can take care of them. Being from a Western country… you are rich compared to Filipinos. So you will probably check this box. Unlike the west, where women no longer need men to support them in any way, women in the Philippines want a guy who can take care of them (the way it has been for women since the beginning of time, until the last 50 years).


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Do Filipina Girls Care About Age?

I would say this is one of the best aspects of Filipino girls… they care very little about age. When I am in the Philippines I am constantly dating 18 and 19 year old girls. I am quite a bit older and girls at this age can be very difficult in other countries but not… in the Philippines. It’s not uncommon to see 60 year old guys with 18-22 year old girlfriends here. So if you are looking to date somebody much younger than you, this is one of the best countries on the planet for it.


How Expensive is it to Live in the Philippines?

The Philippines is a very cheap place to live. While I am in the Philippines I usually spend less than 1000$ a month to live. Comparing that to Japan, where I spent about 2000$ a month, it’s pretty great. Transportation, rent and all labor costs are very cheap.


Is it Safe in the Philippines?

I am currently here right in the middle of the whole Duterte death squad fiasco. I’m actually in the city where I hear about things happening the most and… I haven’t seen any bit of violence at all. In fact, I haven’t seen real violence on any of my trips to the Philippines. Compared to Latin America, Philippines feels like the safest place in the world.

The Most Dangerous Aspect of the Philippines actually has nothing to do with violence, it has to do with lady boys. It’s the biggest downside to the Philippines for me, you really have to pay attention to the girls you are meeting or you will end up on a date with a ladyboy.


The Scams You Might See in the Philippines

Generally the only scams you should be worried about are when a girl asks for taxi money and it’s way too high (she will take the bus) or when a taxi quotes you a price or shows you a paper that is way too high. These are the only scams that seem to be common in the Philippines.


Some Pictures of My Filipino Girls

I have been with a lot of Filipino girls, so I will share with you some pictures of some of the girls I was with this last trip… without showing their identity of course.
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If you recognize these photos, it’s because I have also posted them on our forum, on the Philippines thread.



You Will Come Home a Different Man, As I Did

Now that you know how to seduce Filipino girls, you will come home a different man. For me, going to the Philippines was a life changing experience. I found out what it was to feel like a rock star and sleep with as many women as I wanted, I had the adventure of a lifetime and I met great friends along the way. I actually wrote a book about it, check it out if you want to read a first hand view of what the Philippines are like for a foreigner. The Single Guy’s Playground: Sex and Adventure in South East Asia.


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  • anon1

    Long hair on a woman, excellent sign of femininity.

    Great post 🙂 actually I found this website originally when fisto did a article on his pinay exploits way back when.

    It’s definitely on the places to visit.

    What’s the food like? I heard it was pretty junk food heavy

    • Long hair in women is soooo sexy. One of the sexiest things I ever saw was a hot 18 year old ukrainian girl with long blonde hair down to her ass, riding a white horse. Wow, beautiful.

      Yeah it’s great.

      Food is not great on average, THC has been hating it especially.

    • anon1

      yep, long hair for me is hotter than anything else on a woman. one of my favourite ukranians:

    • ahhh yes. That hair…

    • Long straight hair that reaches her butt while she’s in doggy style position, so sexy.

    • You dont come to the Philippines for the food, besides 1 or 2 dishes it’s crap. There are plenty of Western food options available though.

    • Yeah I was surprised to find taco bell in Philippines (as it is probably my favorite childhood restaurant and not many countries outside of usa have it)

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Actually, if you look around in the poor areas you can find excellent local food. I had some great meals there. But sure, if you go for the places near where the Westerners hang out it’s mostly not so good. It’s not like Thailand where there is excellent street food on most corners, you have to really hunt around and maybe there will only be one good quality cheap local style place in the neighborhood in a dimly lit unsigned shack.

      Pork steak, rice, a selection of vegetable dishes, etc… are the better offerings.

    • Thai are good at Thai food, they suck at “farang food”. Unless the restaurant is actually owned by a foreigner, don’t take the risk.

    • I’m a big fan of their sea food dishes. <3 sea food

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Seafood in Asia is rockin’..!

    • thexenos

      Filipino food sucks hard. Generally overly salty and vinegary if not disgusting plain junk food.
      No abundance of tropical fruits either like in neighbouring countries.
      Better off eating in thai restaurants

  • Good to see all this info combined into one post. Also nice pics 😉

  • Ikillgames

    Very nice article. I have a question for you guys:
    Would black guys have as much success in Phil? Does the exotic factor also apply to black guys? And which cities have you been to personally where black guys are more likely to get a lay in Eastern Europe?

    • everybody has it easier in Phil. A Plenty of black guys do well here. But that being said, Filipinos do prefer whiter skin. It’s just a small part of their attraction equation though. That’s why every black guy I meet loves it here. In Eastern Europe, it really depends. Poland, my black friend does well, Ukraine, I just don’t have enough info to be honest.

    • Ikillgames

      Aiit thanks

    • Ikillgames

      20 and THC Where would you suggest for black dudes to travel in E.Europe in terms of safety and non-hostility/racism of locals(besides quality of girls of course 😉

    • For my friend (who is black from UK), he loves poland. He has told me that in clubs he has faced some hostile situations, but so have I in Poland and I’m white. (Polish guys do like to fight). Then I would say the baltics which are Eastern Europeanish.

    • Ikillgames

      Very good advice, it lines up with what I’ve heard about poland. Thanks aplenty 20Nation 🙂

    • Ikillgames

      Im a bit curious tho, do you and THC have any combat sports experience?(besides beating up brazilian trannies 😉 I assume being as well traveled as you are you would pick up some muay thai or kickboxing or BJJ in thailand or brazil.
      I just think something like that would be necessary when living the kind of lives you live.

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      I’d be careful in Eastern Europe if I were you, it’s not always safe for everyone, if you get my drift. But Philippines is for sure all good.

    • Yeah I actually saw a lot of black students in Ukraine (from africa), but I usually just saw them with other black. There was one particular instance where I saw a black guy with a really hot ukrainian girl. But like I said, I didn’t have a black friend while I was there so I’m not sure how it would be.

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Yeah, that was my experience too, though I didn’t see any of them with Ukrainian girls and they looked kind of miserable because it must be a hard life for them. I’ve seen the student accommodation there, a girl took me back to her room for a night once, and those places resemble prison. Those students learn Ukrainian and Russian as they are there on exchange programs that are hang-overs from communist days where the Soviet Union brought in students from countries they were trying to promote communism in. Africa had a number of these countries. They never cancelled the agreements.

    • Ikillgames

      That’s a bummer.i belived the most of e.europeans were quite open minded and welcoming,Im taking a tour of europe in a couple of months and ive already started chatting up polish girls and ive already gotten alot of positive responses. Could you explain what you mean and where exactly your talking about? It would help alot 🙂

    • Ikillgames

      But bear in mind that I’m not an idiot or a stereotypical “boy from the hood”
      I’m not gonna be wearing a Durag and picking fights wherever I can or thinking I’m untouchable or invincible or whatever. I’m just a normal dude, decent game, above average looks and some cash to burn. I understand that there may be some prejudice in places like Russia and the former Yugoslav. But what I wanna know is; could there be outright racism in e.europe? Are ther places where my ethnicity will directly prevent me from banging girls regardless of game or looks?
      If so then where exactly? Have you ever known someone who encountered such?….this is info that you can’t really find online so your feedback would be really appreciated

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      The short answer is yes, it would be a real risk for you out east. I’ve been everywhere in Eastern Europe, including to Russia three times, and Ukraine. I was seriously warned the first time I went there by some dudes from there as I had a bit of an alternative look at that time. There are a few black guys around who are exchange students with few other options from African countries who try to keep a low profile, though it’s very unlikely you’ll see any other black folks out there. People do get killed on occasion, and beatings are common. Ukraine is pretty lawless since the civil war there. Russians are tense right now too with the stress between East and West. In the former Yugoslavian countries you have a lot of tough guys who fought in the civil war around the streets who have killed a lot of people. Just in general, these are places you need to keep your nose clean and watch your back as they don’t play. People drink a LOT, and they are very macho. On all of my trips to Russia and Ukraine I have had fights. I’ve had dudes grab me for saying ‘hello, do you speak English’ to girls there, though I was able to chill the situation out. It’s different. If I were non-European I’d be looking at further west where you can find basically the same looking types anyway if you look around, or even better would be Asia or Africa if you want a really wild time. I am a risk taker, but it’s wise to play to your strengths and balance risks with advantages. It’s a big world out there… 😉

    • Ikillgames

      Thanks for the info jody,
      this Is super bad news to me seeing as I usually travel solo so I try to avoid places where im more of a target than everyone else.ever since i got jumped in nigeria i always roll with a knuckle duster and a pocket knife though I’ve never had to use either.
      Ukraine and Russia aside, have you come across any hostility towards minorities in POLAND in particular?
      I’ve got me a real taste for eastern europeans so where would you suggest?
      20 and THC could you add anything to jody’s info about black people traveling in e.europe?

    • It’s hard for me to say. All I can do is go off of my black friends experiences since I am white. But with my own eyes I never witnessed any anti black stuff in Ukraine. I did however witness a lot of anti middle eastern stuff (but there are a lot of sex tourists from turkey there). My friend seemed to have had a great time in Poland and Romania. So, take that for what it’s worth.

    • Splooge

      Anti middle eastern? Like what the local girls dont like em

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      It’s a bit hard to generalize about all of Eastern Europe, but it is all conservative.

      The easy way to side step that for someone in your position would be to go where the liberal Eastern Europeans go and have a level playing field, rather than going into their conservative home turf.

      The more liberal Eastern Europeans who have a bit of money go to Spain and Italy for their summer vacations. In winter they go to Switzerland.

      The ones with no money work in the UK, mainly in London. There are masses of poor, good looking, single Eastern Europeans there, it’s amazing.

      The ones who have minimum finds for a holiday go to Goa, India, or Pattaya or Phuket in Thailand. These are the really wild ones.

    • Ikillgames

      Much appreciated Jody. I understand that you’re just giving your personal opinion,but limiting my travel to Spain,Italy,Switzerland ,India and Thailand just cuz I’m black is simply ridiculous. Since your last comment I’ve spent over 30 hours researching the topic and I’ve come to the conclusion that besides Russia,Albania and a very few number of places in Europe where people are openly violent against other races there really isn’t any place that I should completely avoid. I found out about someone near me who schooled in Ukraine and he told me that racism there was mostly geared towards immigrants and violent racism was hard to come by without openly provoking someone. I contacted guys on the RVF and many guys had great experiences in Poland and Ukraine but warned me to be careful, since careful is my middle name I’m sure I’m golden.

      I contacted a few well known black bloggers who ALL recommended to Balkans and everywhere besides a few places in Germany,Malmö in Sweden,majority of Russia and the backwards rural regions of E.Europe.

      I plan on hitting almost all of Europe besides Russia and Ukraine when I leave in July.

      I’m never one to disregard a fellow traveler’s opinion but I think you may be generalizing any opinions you have about E.Europe. Breaking boundaries is what this blog is about and I wouldn’t be following STW if I didn’t aspire to this lifestyle myself.

      I’m sure that 20 and THC wouldn’t be writing this blog if they had pussied out when someone told them that they could get killed or kidnapped by criminals and sicarios in Colombia or Mexico. So that’s that. If I get killed then you can tell them you warned me, until then tho STW for life!!
      P.s. Sorry fort he long comment and getting all “politically correct” on you guys but I felt I just really needed to say this for any future readers

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Yeah, it just depends on where you are coming from (your personality) and what you are looking for (what you want). The view I gave is just from the hassle free side of things for meet ups, as it sounded like that was what you were into. But if you are into a bit of risk then that is another story, of course. In the end it comes down to what people seek, and everyone is a bit different with that. For me, I look for culture, number one, but ladies are one part of that too. I look at things with a risk to reward type of view, but many people have said I’m crazy for the risks I’ve taken. There are some places even I would avoid though… lol…

    • Ikillgames

      Thanks for the reply jody.
      Well I think that when travelling you will ALWAYS face danger similar to what you would face at home. So I guess risks are unavoidable at a reasonable level. I think you and I may talking about different scenarios and different places tho.
      When you said you’ve been through all of eastern europe where exactly are you referring to? I personally see only russia and ukraine as E.europe. it seems poland,romania,Czechia etc are all considered central europe.
      So could you elaborate a bit: where exactly are the places youve been to and which among them do you refer to as dangerous for black people?

  • Jody Dayton Peace

    How much ‘taxi’ money have they been asking for? It’s hard to avoid without coming across as a mean fellow.

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Oh, and 20, I was in Tacloban and that is an interesting place. Gen. Douglas McArthur came ashore there during the return of the American military in WWII and it’s easy to visit Red Beach (the main landing beach) just outside the city. Imelda Marcos came from the (the Rose of Tacloban). Of course there are many roses there. 😉 Since the massive flooding from the storm surges there (like a tsunami – happened jus after I was there) it may be not a good place any more, or it may be better as there would be less visitors (there were very few anyway) and they are poorer now there. A lot of the bar girls in Manila come from that part of the country.

    • ahh yeah, I havent ever been there. May be worth an exploration visit in the future. I like going off the beaten path a bit.

    • Actually, not one girl has asked for taxi money. Well actually one did, who I met in night game, but I just told her no. And she ended up coming to see me a week later. But this could be because I have been staying in QC where there are more normal girls.

  • GetItGoing

    ~ Nice ! ~

    • Thats GIG. It was about time I just put all the info in one place.

    • GetItGoing

      De nada amigo. Tengo mucho respeto para ti.

      After getting started on affiliate websites (because rather than just dream about it, I’m taking action to one day leave the 9-5 and move abroad & travel) I can now see how much work you put into your website & posting. It’s genuinely appreciated.

      Your website and Cedonulli’s are what I credit for originally showing that it’s possible to have a life formerly thought impossible, and have given me the motivation to do this.

    • So glad it here it GiG. Good luck with everything. This is the greatest life in the world!

  • Splooge

    How old r u?

  • Stiigen

    I`d love to try this out. Gotta go for an extended time to Philiphines after reading this!
    However; I would be very scared of STD`s doing what you did. Did you catch anything?, how is the prevalence there? Do you always use protection? Do you use protection for BJ`s ?

    • you should try to wear protection unless you know the girl, but in my opinion, the std thing is over hyped because of the trillion dollar condom industry.

  • oscar dighton

    I’m kind of a virgin, I might go to the phillipines after my final exams to lose my virginity, should I?.

    • John Marshall

      I see no reason why you should not. But not with bar girls, Go on the cupid dating site & connect with a filipina before you arrive.

  • oscar dighton

    Well I used the site and found a woman, she’s beautiful and I want to be in a relationship with her and get married so she can come home with me, but of course we will meet up before we decide on marriage, how do I know she isn’t a scam or with other men?

  • Achikins

    I feel pity for these Filipinas. Glad I found something very useful to know foreigners who only wants to have sex. These girls should be more educated.

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