What’s going on with your IT work in the USA? Are you still doing that or a different profession? What did you find are the opportunities? I thought you were in AZ at one time?

Are you still interested in working in IT? If not what?

Teaching him English while he’s young is very important. Get him English movies and cartoons. My X-Filipina GF never taught her daughter, who was two at the time, English while I was away. I used to have elementary English books with pictures and words, letters, numbers that I used to use. In fact when I was in Ukraine, my Russian teacher used children’s books to teach me Russian. So get your son some books and start early when you’re there and hopefully his mother will be interested in helping when you are away.

Oh for sure. My cousin who is 5 is already fluent in 3 languages. Being 3 may seem young but it really isn’t at all when it comes to children’s development its actually their peak learning years. Definitely challenging though, going to school in the states and DR for summer definitely makes sense. Though right now I guess the only thing you can do is frequent Skype and try to visit as much as possible.

Maybe you can find a way to homeschool him with online programs? There are many good ones out there for every age bracket. Proper homeschooling is the best way anyway. For now, just get him children’s books in English, movies, audios etc. so that the English second language gets deep into his subconsicous. It works. You can also record long audio messages for him.

20, I live on an island in the Caribbean next to DR. I find that ALL DR chicks here, on my island, tend to be very materialistic. I haven’t found a girl that isn’t asking for money or expensive lavish dates. I don’t want to be there provider. Have you experience anything like this in DR? I have never been there, but are they this materialistic? I tend to next them if I find them like this, what do you normally do? The problem here is that, not a single DR chick on my island that isn’t after some form of money. Also, is Colombia like this also?

Keep doing more podcast mate!!

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A man who only has money will get used. Some foreign women will chose money over good looks to provide for their families.

The flip side of this was my old Ukrainian girlfriend who was very attractive and a bitch. She wanted me to spend a lot of money on her. I can remember her telling me looks was not important in a man, money was more important. She was trying to shame me into spending more on her. There was this ugly looking Ukrainian man with his trophy wife and his two kids. She said look at him. I said, “He’s ugly and it doesn’t matter how good looking his wife is because both of his kids are ugly like him.” My girlfriend’s mother was fat, and she liked to eat too much, so I’m sure now she’s someone’s fat nightmare.

I guess used can be relative. While some guys end up going broke I think a lot of wealthy guys get the better end of the deal. Yes, they’re paying money essentially for the girl but because in many places a woman’s value is her youth and beauty the power dynamic starts to shift once the girl starts to age or the guy threatens to take away all he has provided. I’m mid 30s and there’s no shortage of women around my age who have no skills or real appeal because they spent their 20s letting some guy take care of them.