Am I Racist for Liking Asian Girls?
#1
Hey guys can I have your opinion on something?

A few times over the last couple of years (including just now) people have completely lost their shit at me on Reddit and other social media for saying something along the lines of "Asian women are sexy af".

I like Asian women. I like making dirty talk in Mandarin Chinese during sex. I'm planning a trip to the Philippines for next year because of STW's recommendation. Am I therefore a racist?

I've never said anything bad about Asian women. I have nothing bad to say about them. I have a few bad things to say about women of my own race, but you know, I still like having sex with white girls, just not quite as much. There are exceptions - lots of Asian girls I'm not interested in and lots of Latinas etc I get a total boner for but as a general rule of thumb, I'd rather take an Asian girl home than a blonde if I had the choice. I guess you could say I have an Asian fetish?

Therefore, I'm told, I'm a racist. 

You don't have to be mean to anyone anymore to be racist. You just have to discern some kind of difference, even if the difference is positive. Kind of like how its sexist to discern any difference between men and women.

I also objectify women by saying they're sexy. They don't want to be told they're sexy, even on r/sex. I can understand if we were talking about cheese and someone said "Asians are sexy" that would be inappropriate. But we were talking about how women moan during sex. The context was relevant, someone else brought up how Asian girls moan differently and its hot. When I say Asian women are sexy, its not the blondes who are the most offended, its the (western-born) Asian women. I wasn't talking to you lady, take it as a compliment and move on. But no she feels the need to rip into me for a few hours and call me a chauvinistic pig and a racist. Then dozens of others chime in to agree until my whole afternoon is gone. Am I really racist though? I never said anything bad about another race, all I said is I think Asian women are sexy.

Honestly, I think the western world is messed up with this political correctness bullshit. I can't wait to move back to Asia. Honestly I will probably never migrate back if I had the choice, only go back on holidays to visit my family.
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#2
Didn't read the whole thing, and hopefully this isn't a troll job, but the short answer is:

No, you are not racist for preferring Asian women.

Also, don't bother with opinions from social media. Maintain your frame. Game 101.

However, if you do want to troll back for shits and giggles, just re-type what they type, but switch it around, pointing out that most Western-born Asian women prefer white guys. Most importantly, have fun with it. Don't get negative, and don't let it take any more time or head space than you're willing to concede.

Spend more time on better things, like getting the means to move to Asia permanently.
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#3
Why even worry about it? 

I'm racist af. I loathe Indians and Turks. I'm highly skeptical of Jews. Only in this twisted universe we live in is racism considered the greatest evil. At the core, it's a logical conclusion based on personal experiences, and of course in group preferences. Historically, it was normal - and still is outside of the West.

Also prefer Asian women, mainly because I like petite, and very feminine types. The white land whales that foam at the mouth over that can go choke on a donut. I really couldn't care less.
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#4
In the west now there just seems to be a hypersensitivity to anything racial. I can understand people wanting to be treated fairly, but when it comes to sexual attraction, really its just going too far. We are allowed to be attracted to what we want and prefer, it isn't discrimination. Actually attraction isn't really a choice, its more of a built in instinct. In the U.S. now groups of dogs are now howling about racism and discrimination because most Americans prefer Labrador and Golden Retriever. Why do the gold haired dogs get all the attention? It just isn't right, there ought to be a law..
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#5
(11-13-2018, 09:10 AM)SpecialEd Wrote: “The white land whales that foam at the mouth over that can go choke on a donut. I really couldn't care less.”

HAHAHA this is funny. 

Yeah same I like Asian women the best by FAR but I don’t consider myself a racist at all. Who’s the hottest ‘Asian’ you can think of? 

Joselyn Crew is up there for me
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#6
Dude, none of that noise matters even the tiniest bit, so why sweat any of it? When you're balls deep in a good looking woman, smashing her lights out, are you going to be worried about what some angry knob typed on Reddit?

Hell no. So forget about it. If you want to dick down a bunch of Asian girls, go for it. Why not? Do what you want with your time and don't worry about internet bullshit.

Quote:Reddit and other social media
Reddit / social media are just wiener factories, and I think it's pretty obvious that if you post stuff about women being sexy on these sites, people will lose their shit. So why do it?

Quote:Then dozens of others chime in to agree until my whole afternoon is gone.
Don't even waste a minute on a place like Reddit, let alone an afternoon. Like 262 said – spend your time on something better. Learn an Asian language so you can date more of them when you get back there. Make some extra cash so you can go harder when you travel. Spend an extra hour getting cut at the gym. Be productive.

An afternoon spent arguing with whiny, keyboard-warrior virgins on Reddit does not sound worthwhile. So, fuck that shit, do something better with your time, and don't worry about what internet clowns think.
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#7
Hey thanks guys, I appreciate it. Man I was so worked up about this shit yesterday, it was so important to me for some reason. Today I just laugh and feel silly for having given so much of a shit. But I'm glad you all feel that way, it makes me feel like home when I agree with everyone and everyone thinks the same way as I do. Except you SpecialEd, thats fucked up. But I won't hold it against you, we can agree to disagree Smile


(11-14-2018, 01:52 AM)AmeriTrader Wrote: Dude, none of that noise matters even the tiniest bit ... Don't even waste a minute on a place like Reddit, let alone an afternoon.
Yeah I woke up this morning thinking, shit what was I so worried about yesterday? Weird. Don't know what got into me. I guess I was tired and high strung from work.


(11-13-2018, 07:44 AM)262 Wrote: Spend more time on better things, like getting the means to move to Asia permanently.

Yes, right. I've been working on an online business for the last year now, recently I just started some FB ads for a client. If I can get them to work, its off to the Phils! Otherwise if I run out of FB ad budget before I make profitable ad sets, I'll go teach English in Thailand, and can continue my startup while I work until I don't have to teach anymore. FB ads are really fucking complicated, its stressful af. I have my heart set on the Phils but teaching English in Thailand is a good backup plan I think. Either way I'm going to have a lot of fun.


(11-13-2018, 08:30 PM)Stretch Wrote: In the west now there just seems to be a hypersensitivity to anything racial. I can understand people wanting to be treated fairly, but when it comes to sexual attraction, really its just going too far. 

Right? Ugh. Not just racial but all sorts of things, there are literally thousands of ways for them to get offended somehow. Shouldn't let it get to me though, yesterday I was just tired I guess. I had always been raised like racism was the worst thing ever, and being accused of it just pushed a button inside of me. I guess trolls know the right buttons to push to get the desired response.


(11-13-2018, 07:44 AM)262 Wrote: Maintain your frame. 

Yes right. When you're the voice of reason surrounded by idiots, you should just walk away. If they're able to convince you to believe shit you know is ridiculous, just because you're in an echo-chamber of stupid, then you are stupid now too. Maintain frame or you let the stupid zombies bite you.


(11-14-2018, 01:52 AM)AmeriTrader Wrote: I think it's pretty obvious that if you post stuff about women being sexy on these sites, people will lose their shit. So why do it?

Some dude made a comment on an r/sex post about sex moans that asians chicks were really hot when they make high pitch squeaking noises. Some chick got butthurt and my comment was along the lines of "no, its not racist, he said something nice not something bad. Asian girls are sexy af, he's right, don't call him racist". Then she made the mods delete his comment and called me a racist. I told her why she was wrong. It went from there.


(11-14-2018, 12:46 AM)tezza198 Wrote: Who’s the hottest ‘Asian’ you can think of? 

Probably Jade Kush. But I need to stop looking at porn, bad habit like cigarettes.
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#8
Logically though who you find attractive has nothing to do with racism. Races have similarities thats the reason some people are more attracted to one race or another. It's like saying I am racist because I prefer big breasted women. PC culture and how most people describe racism is just ridiculous. That coming from a guy with a mixed race kid who I love with all my heart.
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#9
Quote:Except you SpecialEd, thats fucked up. But I won't hold it against you, we can agree to disagree [Image: smile.png]

How can a global norm be fucked up lol? The rest of the world is far more racist than me. You'll find that out quick if you spend any significant time in Asia.

Fact is racism is based on genuine observations. There's a reason why India is a shithole, and America is not. The former has an incredibly backwards culture, and the average IQ is about 15 points less.

I also think it's a safe bet neither you or any equalitarian will be going to live there any time soon.Big Grin
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#10
(11-15-2018, 03:56 AM)SpecialEd Wrote:
Quote:Except you SpecialEd, thats fucked up. But I won't hold it against you, we can agree to disagree [Image: smile.png]

How can a global norm be fucked up lol? The rest of the world is far more racist than me. You'll find that out quick if you spend any significant time in Asia.

Fact is racism is based on genuine observations. There's a reason why India is a shithole, and America is not. The former has an incredibly backwards culture, and the average IQ is about 15 points less.

I also think it's a safe bet neither you or any equalitarian will be going to live there any time soon.Big Grin

Oh dude I lived in China for five years. They hate the Japanese with a vehement passion, and understandably so when you look at history. They also treat black people and filipinos like crap, thats pretty much the average Chinese person living in China.

I'm a bit of a happy go lucky guy who treats everyone like a good friend until they've proven to me that they're not. So I'm going to politely say "you're welcome to your opinion, I don't share it but I'm not going to judge you for it or bother trying to persuade you otherwise' and we can leave it at that.
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#11
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