The truth about the Philippines
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I have now been in the Philippines for close to three months. There is a lot of misconceptions out here.  


First a little about me:


pale american,
height 6'2
age: 25
okay with women. Some girls and gay’s think I'm cute in the states.  But nowhere near model looks.
I live in the North east of America, near Philadelphia and New York City.  


Lays before the Philippines 20.  


currently about 50.


Now that we got that out of the way:


Top 6 Misconceptions


1. Filipinas hate Filipino guys  


This is a ridiculous idea. For starters this country has 100 million people, for this size of a population to exist filipinos need to fuck each other. It's dumb to think that all the women here hate Filipinos.


So why this Myth?


Well, because a lot of the girls who you will hook up with here do like white guys and they will be more likely to not like filipino guys. It’s a demographic thing. I recommend googling the david bond white guy in asia myth.  


Think about it, the only girls you will go on dates with will like white guys. So if all you are seeing is girls who rave about white guys and how much better you are than filipinos and you see occasionally strangers treat you special it’s easy to think that filipino guys are not popular and everyone is dying to suck your dick! utter rubbish


2. White people are every girls number 1 choice


False. The number one choice is a half white half filipino, who is rich and handsome. Sorry not sorry.


yes some girls here will prefer white guys over their own, some won’t even date a filipino guy, avoid dating these women they are usually quite angry and racist in my experience. They like capturing those europe flags.


So if white guys arent number 1 why do so many girls talk about white guys instead of those rich half babies?


well let's see they could tell you the truth or they could just tell you what you want to hear, a lot of filipinas are natural people pleasers, pleasing you comes usually first before the truth, just reality not judging.  


It's not just my word, I have talked with other people here, esp the locals. I talked with two Filipino Instagram models, about modeling and they told me I would be a niche model If I tried for modeling here. Think about this? If all women want white guys then why the hell would half Filipino models be more popular??


I also was told that the one filipino model half who looked more irish than filipino was not getting the same amount of job opportunities as the half brit and half filipino model who looked more filipino.


3. majority of women here want to fuck you


To be fair I do not actually know this, because a lot of women could reject you from your bad, too prude or they were too shy. So I do not know


here is What I do know: I have met a lot of girls here who have fucked multiple white guys.  


I did an experiment while in Cebu I went through about 110 male profiles, 6 where white, 2 were god awful profiles, 2 were not even in the country and only two were legit.


So let's say that in the tourist areas Im guessing about 2% of makati is white guys ( just a number I pulled out of my ass).


If a lot of women heavily want the white guy that would mean there would be a lot of competition, it would be unlikely for an average filipina to get multiple whites guys. what actually happens is their is most likely a much smaller pool, of girls that are really into white guys. This would explain a lot, since it seems there have been a lot of cases of guys banging the same girls.


4. Filipino guys hurt Filipinas and are dicks


First off Men and women are not that much different. Its highly unlikely in any culture where a lot of men are dicks and all the women are saints that is childish.


People in America said a lot of men cheat now fast forward today and roughly just as many women cheat. So you see here. This idea that the men are terrible and women are victims is just silly.


here's what actually happens, I’m quite familiar with how the average filipino personality is, because to be honest i come from a very catholic family of hardcore people pleasing.


Usually what happens is yes there are some guys who will lie and pump dump girls and cheat on them. However some of the girls who complain are doing the same thing, It’s quite hypocritical but such is human nature. he is an ass hole because he did X even though she might have also done x herself at some point.


I have had some girls here who wanted to meet me but ended up having foreign boyfriends, yet some of these gals will complain about how malicious filipino guys are here, totally not taking responsibility or seeing that they do the same thing. It can be quite funny, because people pleasers tend to secretly resent other people and the people they please. In unguarded moments I have heard some women make fun of other people here for inferiority complexes, being too insecure and way to sensitive. Even though they most likely have those same characteristics.


Again I do not judge them, I’m a hypocritical dick weed at times myself so I take it in stride.   


5. women here are innocent little virgins  


Nope completely false.


I once had a ex gf in the states who had a people pleasing catholic family and was all about being proper. we dated two years and she told me she could have sex all day and was always in the mood.


This was a girl who never had sex in hookup situations.


quite crazy to think about.  


Pro tip; good girls do not say their good girls, girls that act too hard to be innocent are usually the most sexual.


this will come out in the bedroom, also a lot of the women here will open up about sex and kinky fetishes if you show your not a judgmental dick. a lot of girls will happily do weird shit with me in the bedroom that would make other girls back home feel odd about doing it.


Their personalities tend to also be quite silly. However when it comes to the hottest girls or the elites this seems to not really be the case and their much more street smart. In my experience most of the girls here are very naive and fall for bullshit quite easily. Again Im somewhat naive myself so I understand this.


6. you can easily get a hot girlfriend


no you can not why?


1. hottest girls leave the country


2. the rest of the hot girls flock to BGC and Makati.


when it comes to hot women follow the $$ trail and usually you will find the coolest guys and the hottest women of any given country.


3. good luck finding a hot girl in Cebu.   


I went out to some of the hottest clubs like xylo and approached a few hot women, most of them I had no shot, a few I had a small window but quickly lost since I did not engage them. Some of these women were filipina celebrities.  


I have been with two models here, one barely cracks a 7 on the international scale the other was hot, a 9 on the phillipines scale but a 8 internationally.


Both worked out because one wants that halfie baby and the other travels and is westernized and does not like conservative philippines culture.  


My Theory


Foreign value might be a double edged sword. Let me explain.


If your SMV is 5 in america and you go to the philippines, lets say Manila. Your value shoots up to let's say an 8. Instantly you need less game and get laid way more. However the 9s and 10s will most likely want the best men in their own country, not an outsider.


I think Travelling could increase your lays but if you were a 10 or 9 in america you would probably get hotter women easier since you wouldn't be an outsider. Just my thoughts I could be wrong


the good news


most women here know they have 0 shot of bagging a half filipino with money and connections, he might bang them but he’s not going to risk social suicide over some poor filipina.


most women also know that foreigners seem to not really give a shit about this so they will turn to them since they have more money and access to better lifestyle. PLUS and this is big a one. A pure filipina needs a white guy for her to get those (half babies) giving them the best chance to rise up in the social hierarchy.


Which is why a lot of women here do want to get shacked up with a foreigner.  



Some extra mental masterbation


side note girls love it here if you mistake them for a Korean or Jap. On the surface level they seem very prideful of their country that's to cover up for the fact that they secretly are not prideful.


ways to spot this?


girls talking about how they love being a filipino (when in america do you see girls say on tinder I love  being white?), they love their skin (when's the last time you heard a women openly talking about her skin being awesome)


what's so great about being white and race does not matter. ( i agree it does not matter but you might hear people say this defensively),


our country is awesome.


we are the nicest people


this all comes from insecurities. look past the surface words.


To be clear not everyone is like this and some people even admit it’s silly. Their some genuinely kind people here.


one of the frustrating things about this country is the fact that some people here will say things you don’t want to hear about yourself because they think it’s kind of funny.


I have had some girls say some of the rudest shit I’ve ever heard before, but they will say it with a smile on their face like they want you to yell at them.


Overall it’s definitely worth coming I mean I’ve banged almost 30 girls with not even bothering to really text any of the girls. Im  curious how many of them are bothered by my lack of text communication and if it’s actually hurting my efficiency since I only use text to meet up with them.


However do not come here thinking girls are lineing up to suck your dick or that 10s and 9s can not resist your white dick and wallet.
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#2
Where did you get these supposed ideas of the philippines?

The only idea of the Philippines is

1) Easy to fuck a lot of girls

Thats it.

But let's take a look at these

1) What country of men have a good reputation in general? I don't know of any. Generally speaking, most dudes are not good ie cheat etc If you walk up and ask 10 cute to attractive women what is their impression of local men I would wage atleast 50% if not more would say they have an infidelity problem bare minimum and they would probably throw in some other negatives as well. I am sure American would say the same thing about local men in the US. Fact is most girls get cheated on and treated badly atleast once in their life if they done any volume of dating.

2) Never ever heard this claimed. It is absolutely ridiculous. There is never any "EVERY" anything. Always exceptions to the rules. However, I will say, on average, pinays would choose a white man ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL due to mix kids being more attractive.

3) Never heard this claimed either. A normal girl doesn't really walk around and think about wanting to fuck random tourists or even local men. And that is for every country. Generally speaking, women want a mental connection and some romance. Even drunken club sluts in Western countries you still gotta run some game at the bar. In the case of 3rd world pussy paradise's western men simply hold more status, and men with more status always are able to get sex easily.

4) Guys the world over hurt girls.

5) How can Philippines be considered the most easiest place in the world to get laid and the women also be considered innocent virgins?!?! lol

6) It's not easy anywhere to get a hot GF (by hot i mean 8+)
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(10-13-2018, 03:04 PM)Dash Wrote: Where did you get these supposed ideas of the philippines?

The only idea of the Philippines is

1) Easy to fuck a lot of girls

Thats it.

But let's take a look at these

1) What country of men have a good reputation in general? I don't know of any. Generally speaking, most dudes are not good ie cheat etc If you walk up and ask 10 cute to attractive women what is their impression of local men I would wage atleast 50% if not more would say they have an infidelity problem bare minimum and they would probably throw in some other negatives as well. I am sure American would say the same thing about local men in the US. Fact is most girls get cheated on and treated badly atleast once in their life if they done any volume of dating.

2) Never ever heard this claimed. It is absolutely ridiculous. There is never any "EVERY" anything. Always exceptions to the rules. However, I will say, on average, pinays would choose a white man ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL due to mix kids being more attractive.

3) Never heard this claimed either. A normal girl doesn't really walk around and think about wanting to fuck random tourists or even local men. And that is for every country. Generally speaking, women want a mental connection and some romance. Even drunken club sluts in Western countries you still gotta run some game at the bar. In the case of 3rd world pussy paradise's western men simply hold more status, and men with more status always are able to get sex easily.

4) Guys the world over hurt girls.

5) How can Philippines be considered the most easiest place in the world to get laid and the women also be considered innocent virgins?!?! lol

6) It's not easy anywhere to get a hot GF (by hot i mean 8+)

I said MYTHS. not sure if Im not clear in my writing or misinterpreted what I wrote here. 

1. what your talking about is alot of women hating on men, which I believe is a minority most women Ive talked to in america dont overtly blame all men for a few failed relationships. some women do just like some men blame women for everything. 
But I do agree that every country has a good amount of women who have problems with men. However
what Im actually talking about is the idea that all Filipinas or most of them do not want filipino guys. That would be like believing most american women dont want american men but some other nationality.  

2. my point is that most women would pick a half Filipino if they could have anything, obviously this is a very bold claim and I may be wrong but its a theory. I've asked locals that are more informed than us outsiders, I'm not the only one who thinks this.  

3. your point I do not understand because I never was saying that. I'm not sure what you mean, are you saying that you think if a white guy put in real effort to make that connection with any random girl his odds of success would be 70%+? 

4. I agree not sure why you thought I was unaware that guys hurt women, my point was that Ive heard plenty of chatter from girls here about how the men are bad, yet ive also heard men complain about cheating filipina ex gfs, I'm trying to show the other side of the coin here.  

5. again I do not think you understand what I'm saying, I'm saying that its a myth some people have that these are innocent girls. but they are not as we know on the forum however random foreign guys who are normal that come here fall for their innocence all the time. I see it happen a lot. 

A lot of your points I do not disagree with, I'm curious how you felt the tone of my writing was, I think you think I sound like I'm butt hurt when that is not the tone I'm trying to convey.

side note:

I talked to a girl from Quezon City:

she told me out of her 10 girl friends only two of them liked white guys, obviously there is little data here, and over generalizations are being made. But it is food for thought.
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#4
My point is, these are not even real myths. Any guy with half a brain and experience would know all most of that is bullocks. Not even worth mentioning or talking about really. Only some naive noob would say or believe most of that.

As I said, I would wager bare minimum 50% of women do not have a favorable opinion of local men in the Philippines. And I would also say the same thing about the US. The divorce rate in the US is high as fuck. A significant amount of the time, its the men at fault. Infidelity, irresponsible with money, drinking or drug habits, mental or physical abuse etc etc. Which goes back to what I was saying about most men being shit. I told my sister, if she met 10 dudes, bare minimum 8 out of the 10 would be horse shit and not husband material. I believe that 100% percent. Women don't have the same impulses as men do. Don't have that same drive to fuck every sexy girl that walks past. Most gamblers are men. Men imo simply come with more risk in a typical relationship.

Depends how that half filipino looks ie more asian looking or european looking. Ofcourse a pinay would choose a rich handsome European looking half pinoy over a foreigner. Can relate more and share traditions and customs.

My point is no girls anywhere simply want to fuck any dudes. That is a man's trait, not a females.

No surprise you heard bad things about both sexes. As I said, I think men as mostly shit in every country. Pinays also cheat but id wager that is due to the guy being shit first. If your game is tight and you make a girl fall deeply in love with you and you treat her good and your sex game is on point, typically dont have to worry about her cheating.

I don't think you are butt hurt. I am simply confused as to why you paid these ridiculous claims about the Philippines any mind or gave it any thought.
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(10-13-2018, 03:45 PM)Dash Wrote: My point is, these are not even real myths. Any guy with half a brain and experience would know all most of that is bullocks. Not even worth mentioning or talking about really. Only some naive noob would say or believe most of that.

As I said, I would wager bare minimum 50% of women do not have a favorable opinion of local men in the Philippines. And I would also say the same thing about the US. The divorce rate in the US is high as fuck. A significant amount of the time, its the men at fault. Infidelity, irresponsible with money, drinking or drug habits, mental or physical abuse etc etc. Which goes back to what I was saying about most men being shit. I told my sister, if she met 10 dudes, bare minimum 8 out of the 10 would be horse shit and not husband material. I believe that 100% percent. Women don't have the same impulses as men do. Don't have that same drive to fuck every sexy girl that walks past. Most gamblers are men. Men imo simply come with more risk in a typical relationship.

Depends how that half filipino looks ie more asian looking or european looking. Ofcourse a pinay would choose a rich handsome European looking half pinoy over a foreigner. Can relate more and share traditions and customs.

My point is no girls anywhere simply want to fuck any dudes. That is a man's trait, not a females.

No surprise you heard bad things about both sexes. As I said, I think men as mostly shit in every country. Pinays also cheat but id wager that is due to the guy being shit first. If your game is tight and you make a girl fall deeply in love with you and you treat her good and your sex game is on point, typically dont have to worry about her cheating.

I don't think you are butt hurt. I am simply confused as to why you paid these ridiculous claims about the Philippines any mind or gave it any thought.

Dash I appreciate your responses and yes Im fully aware and so are you, but Ive met alot of guys who believe the bull shit they hear from the girls here and I feel the need to inform people. So they can make better decisions and not date girls that are clearly low class. I have seen alot of good foreign Beta males girl friends cheat on  them with me. It happens more than you think.  

I disagree Men are not the problem, most women I meet are not nessecarily shit but not good for a relationship because they just wouldnt be my type their not bad people, Im sure I wouldnt be good for most girls. 

side note you seem to be angry with men in the world today, not sure if thats your intention. 

I have also met foreigners here who married filipinas and told me that the women all hate filipinos guys but love foreigners. I personally think that's delusional thinking. Its what some girls say and guys eat that shit up. 

I have hit on some hot girls here who immediately turned me down and told me they have a filipino boyfriend. i have seen hot girls here with total beat male filipinos, good for them, Im not hating just saying this idea that they All dont like local guys is silly. 

This post I made more for the noobs not for an expiernced player such as yourself.
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#6
As I said, those were not real relationships. Those girls were only after a green card or benefit. These guys had it coming to them. Usually they are dudes trying to date out of their league. Also, trying to date without even having proper game. Love is like anything in life. You need to be prepared and have skills to succeed. Generally speaking, there are no short cuts in life for the vast majority of people. Pinays are like Western women. If there isn't real love and happiness involved they will cheat and or leave you. Hence why I would be very hesitant to marry one.

I have a large group of friends from school, and nearly all of their parents are divorce. 90% of them it was clearly the fault of the father/man. I am not talking about any types. A cheater, a drunken, an abuser and a irresponsible person man or women wouldnt be good for anyone. Men are without question the majority when it comes to those things. Men are driven by sex and new pussy in particular and are far more risk oriented.

Most of these dudes are beta ass deluded males. Not surprising. Reminds of all the times I read online older dudes saying shit like "she was a virgin, i made her wet, gave her immense orgasms" etc etc. Cringe worthy

I am not angry at men at all. Just being real. I consider myself fairly decent and good guy. Even I have broke numerous hearts since being in Vietnam. I always had an excuse or wiggle room ie never defined out relationship etc. But nonetheless, I didn't think with the girls best interests at heart. I wanted to keep them around and search for something better and get my dick wet also. Most foreigners here straight up lie to girls in clear fake relationships cheating.

It is WAY easier for men to cheat as we require ZERO connections or actions on the girls part. All of us would fuck any halfway decent girl willing to spread her legs for us at the drop of a hat assuming it required no effort or resources on our part.

Men and women are just wired different. We both have good traits and bad traits. It is what it is.

Typically, any idea that says "ALL" is ridiculous and the person saying it should be made fun of. Always exceptions.

Not mad or hating or anything. These are just the thoughts I have when I read your post or hear dudes talking similar.

I think you are giving this more thought than needed. If a guy was naive and gullible enough to believe that outrageous horses hit I doubt your post would be enough to enlighten them and fix them.

Maybe I am wrong. Who knows lol
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#7
Maybe it's because I have spent some time there, but I never thought any of those things. But for 2 if there is a race preference, I'm pretty sure it's still white. It doesn't mean all girls will choose a white guy over a filipino. Obviously it's way more complicated than that. But in my opinion it's a preference there(having travelled and seen places where that's not the case it's pretty obvious).
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