Cebu, Philippines So Far (4 months)
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In my introduction I promised a write-up about my experience in Cebu City.

Me: 5'10/11, solid build, pale skin, red hair, beard, decent looking. I'm strong/muscular, but I easily get a belly if I don't watch my diet and beer intake. That's been really tough here.

I have game and did well in the states, but I've had so much success on Tinder here - from pipelining, and just a flood of matches everyday - that I barely do cold approaches. I should note that the girl I like the most out here was a street approach. She's gorgeous, has a curvy white-girl body (more ass than your typical asian) is super cool and smart, and is in school to be a special ed teacher, which tells you about her character. Maybe I should do more street game.

The main problem I've run into is that this city gets small fast, especially if you're like me, banging so many new girls on a regular basis. The issue is that everyone hangs out at the mall, and there aren't that many night venues. So I've been spotted many times already. I don't really care, but I've noticed within myself a hesitancy to cold approach at the mall in case a girl I'm already fucking or just talking to spots me.

But it's really not that big of a deal if you are smart with your logistics and get the girls to your place ASAP instead of promenading around hand in hand at the malls.

One thing that sucks about this place is that you can't just walk around outside. There are places like IT Park and some others where it's clean and orderly, but for the most part, the streets are third world mayhem, with dust, pollution, foul odors, you have to watch your step, and the sidewalks are terrible if theres any sidewalk at all.

As far as women, I mix it up. My roster:
-All my girls are below 27, but most are between 18 and 23

-I have a few cute girls with big lips who give top notch blowjobs. No matter where I'm at, I keep a few of these on the team. Basically they'll come over to "chill" and have my dick in their mouths within a couple minutes, and then it just keeps going until I'm drained a couple hours later.

-I have some really beautiful sweet girls who look more like models - thin, great legs, pretty faces, classy and super into me and we fuck about once a week. I take these girls on dates 1-2 times and then it's just chill time at my pad after that.

-I have some fuck buddies - typically for this role I like girls with tits and ass. I have a few of these, mostly young, but a couple in the mid 20's. One girl claims she is a virgin and has a body like a Dominican chick - very NON-ASIAN ass. She basically worships my cock with her face for hours, but we haven't fucked yet. It's hard to find ass out here.

-Ive fucked some older chicks just for fun but they get super clingy fast. It's fun though - they are really outspoken about how "big" my dick is. By western standards its not but, here I guess I'm a porn star.

-I'm very fucking popular on Tinder lol. Constant stream of matches daily. I have it all streamlined for minimal effort, max results (ie girl is on her knees in front of me with as little effort and as little time as possible.) I have blue eyes and red hair and a beard, plus I look pretty buff in my photos. So they girls dig it. It's a nice change of pace from having to make an effort in the States. For once I'm the hot blonde bitch lol

I don't know how many women I've fucked in 4 months but the guards in my building treat me like a legend. Roster chicks - maybe 4 per week, new girls maybe 2-3 a week. I could do more but I drink a lot of beer and haven't been working out, so my libido is pretty low compared to say last year.

There's a weird downside to the Philippines, and it's actually starting to wake me up a bit.

My self-control has dropped pretty low. I'm getting blown all the time by hot 19 year olds who tell me they "like my belly." So that's not helping me get my ass to the gym.

In America, there is always this pressure to compete. Well here, not only is there NO pressure to compete, but I'm already the Alpha Male everywhere I go, including places with other foreigners.

The past couple weeks I've burned myself out with girls and feel like I need to chill and pull back from women because I haven't been as focused on building my online marketing businesses (I have a publishing and health biz, and a copywriting/marketing biz).

Structuring your daily habits is tough here if you work from your laptop, but I'm gonna change that now that I've got all the debauchery out of my system.

Everyone treats me really well because I'm bigger, taller, whiter, and have more money and swagger than they do. My apartment is really nice - way nicer than the homes of the girls that visit me. I can afford food that they consider a super special occasion.

There is no competition, and no motivation to improve myself or even MAINTAIN myself. So it's gotta come from within.

Just a warning to you digital nomad guys out there who want to come here and work while having fun...the balance is HARD (at least at first).

I hired a boxing trainer to come to my apartment and make me work out. Already losing weight. I also got a membership to Golds Gym - not as good as the US locations but it does the trick.

I think I'll move to South America next. I'm really missing the Latina energy and ass...and I am thinking a place like Medellin or Bogota with cooler weather will be nice. The heat and humidity wears me down. I love to run/walk outside, but it's pretty uncomfortable here.

I got phone coaching from 20Nation and he said, "get the Asian thing out of your system, then go enjoy a bit more of a challenge with much hotter girls. It will be refreshing." So I'll either make that move in October or January.

Speaking of coaching, I can't recommend getting coaching from 20Nation enough if you are traveling somewhere new. The intel he gave me, and little bits of insider-knowledge was invaluable.

When I got here, I hit the ground running, and everything he said was true and super useful - everything from logistics, local culture stuff, and things that would normally take you a few months to figure out on your own through trial and error. He's already done it, and he understands game on a deep level. So if you're traveling, check in with 20 for some guidance before hand.

Like I said, I have game. I won't go into my background too much but I was already operating at a very high level in the USA for years. But things are a bit different here - EASIER, but different. He saved me time and frustration, and even for me, paying for coaching was well worth the money.

I'm up to meet some of you guys if you're out here. I have 3 guy friends but we don't hang out much - one has a family and is moving back to England, the other is a hilarious older guy but...he's old. And the third is a cool younger guy I meet up with for beers or a double date occasionally.

I'm especially up for excursions to some of the beaches/destination towns outside the city. I've gone to a few places with girls, but it sucks because I'm all wifeyed up the whole time, meanwhile little island girls are eyeballing me like a Hungarian sausage.

PM me if you're in the area. Feel free to ask me any questions in this thread about specific venues or whatever.
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Yeah, Philippines can hurt your game if you are there too long because you can make tons of mistakes and still get laid all the time. But it's great for your confidence initially. Cebu city for 4 months, I imagine it feels small, if you want to escape that there is always manila. It's huge. It may be about time to switch continents. I always enjoyed going from Asia to Latin America. You will notice a big difference in bodies and overall hotness of girls. Although they are a bit harder. Time to start practicing that Spanish. Glad it sounds like you are having a blast over there.
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(07-19-2018, 05:19 PM)20Nation Wrote: Yeah, Philippines can hurt your game if you are there too long because you can make tons of mistakes and still get laid all the time. But it's great for your confidence initially. Cebu city for 4 months, I imagine it feels small, if you want to escape that there is always manila. It's huge. It may be about time to switch continents. I always enjoyed going from Asia to Latin America. You will notice a big difference in bodies and overall hotness of girls. Although they are a bit harder. Time to start practicing that Spanish. Glad it sounds like you are having a blast over there.

Yeah I actually signed a 6 month lease just because I was so burned out from working non-stop in the USA prior to leaving. I didn't want the hassle of relocating a lot and learning spanish. I've been able to chill and just let life be easy for a while. October is when my lease is up. Depending on how I feel I will make that move to South America.

Are you still in SA or have you moved back to the USA?
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#4
Not that I've been yet but I don't think i could do Cebu for 4 months, its too small like you said. Manila I could easily stay for 6 months without any issues. My biggest problem is that I have an online business but its home-based I can't take it travelling with me which really sucks.

How did you get started with your location independent businesses?

Regarding online dating i only focused on tinder, bumble and baboo as well which provided more than I could possibly handle, too many actually.

Ive had South America on my mind for some time, my only issue I have is the language barrier. I hardly speak a word of Spanish/Portuguese. Im thinking of travelling more around SEA first since I've yet to visit Japan, Vietnam or Indonesia which after Philippines are next on my list.

20, when I put my tinder to Sydney id always match with Brazilian girls. Don't know why its just how it is, often down to meet up. How important is it to have the language skills when travelling to countries like Columbia, Brazil, Peru, DR etc
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Well portuguese and spanish are some of the easier languages to learn for an English speaker. Languages are massive and it takes time but its worth it. It's important but not everything. You will still find girls who speak some english
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(07-23-2018, 02:44 AM)tezza198 Wrote: Not that I've been yet but I don't think i could do Cebu for 4 months, its too small like you said. Manila I could easily stay for 6 months without any issues. My biggest problem is that I have an online business but its home-based I can't take it travelling with me which really sucks.

How did you get started with your location independent businesses?

Regarding online dating i only focused on tinder, bumble and baboo as well which provided more than I could possibly handle, too many actually.

Ive had South America on my mind for some time, my only issue I have is the language barrier. I hardly speak a word of Spanish/Portuguese. Im thinking of travelling more around SEA first since I've yet to visit Japan, Vietnam or Indonesia which after Philippines are next on my list.

20, when I put my tinder to Sydney id always match with Brazilian girls. Don't know why its just how it is, often down to meet up. How important is it to have the language skills when travelling to countries like Columbia, Brazil, Peru, DR etc

I kinda fell into the online thing because I worked for someone who ran a business online back when it was first becoming a popular thing - maybe around 2007. I've evolved since then and primarily do self-improvement, health, and consulting. I also do a bit of copywriting and funnel building with a couple other people in my small company.

In DR you can meet a lot of girls who speak English. I was there for 2 months and it was the same as Philippines - I was smashing super hot girls with zero effort. Same weather though - super hot and humid. It started to wear me down. Its also a bit more expensive and can be dangerous. I spoke some very basic practical spanish, but DR Spanish is too fast and slang-ified. It was basically pointless trying to use proper spanish there so after awhile I stopped trying and just stuck to places and people that spoke english. I met some really incredible women I still talk to. All were very young 18-24, super hot, great bodies, very fun personalities.

It's my understanding that in Colombia, you NEED to learn Spanish. I'm sure there are pockets of expats, but if you can't speak the language you'll have some problems and miss out on a lot. So when I decide what I want to do, I'm going to get serious about my Spanish again. I suspect that in metropolitan areas of Brazil, English may be more popular. Brazil is not as cheap as Colombia and I want to make more money before I go there because I hear it can be very very dangerous so I can be sure and live in a really nice safe area. I grew up in a really rough area in the Midwest and don't want to deal with crime and bullshit ever again. I would probably want to look at a second tier city. I heard there are nice cities in the southern half below Sao Paulo.

I heard bad things about Manila - crowded, unfriendly, expensive, etc. I will try to get over there before I leave Asia.

I want to see Bangkok, Hoe Chi Minh, Singapore, Manila, and maybe a smaller city in Japan. I also heard Hong Kong is cool but it depends on my budget.

Honestly I'm really just getting sick of the humidity. It's getting old real fast. I'm built for a cooler, greener climate.
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Im in the middle of planning this upcoming 2/3 month trip and from my research it seems Cebu would be better to stay than Manila. The online dating scene is a lot better as well from what I can tell. Wouldn't be massive differences in the grand scale of things but I'm seeing a positive difference for sure.

Im thinking 2/3 weeks Manila - 1.5 months Cebu - 1 Month Iloilo City---(spend with Main girl)

@vision88 where abouts did you stay in Cebu?
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#8
Running into girls I banged while on dates with new ones was my biggest problem in Cebu.

I recommend having a few go to spots for dates that are not well known and more chill and low key.

I would only go to the main clubs and bars alone. Too risky going with dates.
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(09-22-2018, 01:02 PM)Dash Wrote: Running into girls I banged while on dates with new ones was my biggest problem in Cebu.

I recommend having a few go to spots for dates that are not well known and more chill and low key.

I would only go to the main clubs and bars alone. Too risky going with dates.

How about groups of girls? I've been asking girls if I can meet all their girl friends and roll up to the club
 
Manila is better than Cebu. 

I banged 2 models in Manila. Plus finding the hottest girls is easy go to club revel or greenbelt mall. 

There's no where in Cebu were all the hot girls go except paegants. 

Girls are hotter in Manila as well, my quality took a hit in Cebu. Foreign value is higher in Cebu but who cares if the quality goes down.  

P S I'm in Cebu now. Till december, if anyone wants to meet let me know.
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#10
groups or with one will be the same ie previous girl will see you with others and yea not optimal.
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