My Journey in the Philippines
#1
Ok so i am somewhat new at this... 

I am 42 from Canada. Decent looking, decent shape. Look a bit younger, about 35. 

Never been much of a gamer. Never been a night life kind of guy.  Been too much of a nice guy.  Had some success with girls but mostly online as i have ''some basic'' game online but in the real life, none.

Anyway, i planned a trip to the Philippines last fall. I am here for about 2 months. I decided to start with Manila to ''warm-up''. I am on my last night in Makati (rented a condo across Greenbelt). I have been here for 2 weeks. 

Tomorrow, i am going to Cebu for 10 days (just wanted to try Cebu) and after that, onto Davao for 1-1.5 month. May try Butuan.  I liked the idea of working girls from zero to bed that are conservative, and force me to work on my game a bit.

The results of Manila have been to my expectations. 

I just notched my 11th lay in 14 days this afternoon. The quality of girls have ranged from 5 to 8. The last 3 were 7-8 that i have been working on for the past few weeks. I've been on about 2.5 dates per day. They ranged from 18 to 33.

90% from Cupid, 5% from tinder, 5% from day game. No night game.

I like petite, slim girls. I got that 90% of the time. It has been a satisfying experience. 

I feel those two weeks in Manila have been good for a) working on my confidence; b) learning with ''easier'' girls; c) Strengthening my frame and my game, dealing with some LTR and d) finding my groove. 

I enjoyed my 2 weeks here but i am excited about the rest of my trip. 

Now, i aiming at keeping the average age younger and keep the quality up. I feel more confident to maintain a strong frame and being alpha while being still a good guy from Canada.

I also learned a lot about the culture here.  


One thing i can say:  Do your homework before (reading forum, books, about the culture, about game, etc.) and pipeline. I had over 200 names in my database before arriving about 40% of them in Manila. So i never really ran out of options except 2 days in 14.

Thanks to 20 for the good tips he gave me in a consultation.

Now onto Cebu for step #2.
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#2
Wow man great numbers! Looks like you were able to put what I showed you into practice. Looks like you noticed the confidence boost. Exactly what happened to me my first trip to SEA. A trip that every guy with a lower notch count should take (and guys with higher ones because it's a blast). I also love small girls(sometimes). Keep us updated on how your trip goes as you go to the new places.
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#3
Thanks 20.

So today, first day in Cebu. I have a date with a gorgeous 18-year-old i have been talking to for a month from Cupid. She is not like your normal filipina, has a bit of character and is not really shy and will say what she wants to say.

So, we walk around the mall, i can tell she likes me (and i like her a lot), then we sit down for a coffee and chat some more...I learn she's smart (A student and loves sciences) and that she's going into grade 12. I asked you her date of birth.. she says ''January 25th'' (i'm thinking great, just a fresh 18 year old) and then i add ''2000?'', she replies: ''No, 2001''... ohh... you are 17?

Man... she was talking about coming to cook Adobo for me at my place, blah blah blah... I put her in a taxi. She texted me: 'When we see other each again?' I am thinking to myself: ''Man, don't play with fire... let her go'' but gee it's hard.. she's so cute and bubbly.

That's my first meet up in Cebu. Too bad, it looks like i'll have to move on...
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#4
Completely different to my trip.

It’s day 19 for me here in Manila and I’ve spent the entire time with ONE girl. Is she great? Yes, but id be lying if I said I don’t miss sleeping with multiple girls and having interesting experiences, I hope I’m not making a mistake here which is an internal struggle for me.

It’s just so hard because I really like this girl, but at the same time I’m addicted to the thought of other girls, I’m truely addicted. I’m younger so I attract a lot of attention here.

I really don’t know what the right decision is.
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#5
In my opinion, Philippines is not the place to spend all your time with one girl haha. There are other countries where maybe it’s better, just not phil Wink
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#6
Yeah adrenaline, good call. It’s not worth ending up in jail, no matter how cute.
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#7
(06-03-2018, 05:39 PM)20Nation Wrote: In my opinion, Philippines is not the place to spend all your time with one girl haha. There are other countries where maybe it’s better, just not phil ;)

Trust me I know, if you recall in my thread I had been talking to this particular girl since December 2017 and I do really like her. But I’m constantly in two minds, I want this girl and I want to be exclusive with her because she’s a rare dime here BUT at the same time I desperatly miss the excitement of meeting up with new girls. I don’t think this is a wasted trip, she’s got the highest sex drive I’ve ever seen and i love spending time with her but I can always come baCK for a bang trip. 

Did you never fall for a Filipino 20?
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#8
I had 22 notches in 30 days in Manila.

Philipinnes is too easy. The goal is actually to meet them, once you met them, it's super easy to get them to your place. Although, Quality is a problem. I'm now in Thailand and the quality and food here is a lot better. And nightlife in Manila is garbage.

Filipino cupid is a goldmine, agreed. Tinder is terrible in manila, full of ladyboys and hookers and the few girls that are normal are most of the time ugly.

I had actually 2 older girls in the phils ( one was 32 and the other one 34), they had the best bodies and the sex wast the best and they had decent boobs ( something i was really cravin for when i was in the Phils. So that could been an option
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#9
(06-04-2018, 12:55 AM)tezza198 Wrote:
(06-03-2018, 05:39 PM)20Nation Wrote: In my opinion, Philippines is not the place to spend all your time with one girl haha. There are other countries where maybe it’s better, just not phil Wink

Trust me I know, if you recall in my thread I had been talking to this particular girl since December 2017 and I do really like her. But I’m constantly in two minds, I want this girl and I want to be exclusive with her because she’s a rare dime here BUT at the same time I desperatly miss the excitement of meeting up with new girls. I don’t think this is a wasted trip, she’s got the highest sex drive I’ve ever seen and i love spending time with her but I can always come baCK for a bang trip. 

Did you never fall for a Filipino 20?

I never fell for one but I had a really quality girl for a while. I just saw her a couple times a week and the other days I would see other girls haha.
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#10
I have been in in Cebu for 5 days and i have notched 5 (excluding 2 extra bjs because of a girl on her periods) so far... 3 of which were 18 born in 99. Loving it.   Last night, i had my first virgin of the trip... a sweet, petite, beautiful girl with the perfect body. WOW ! I was in heaven. It took a bit of work but it was really nice.

Now i am running into 2 problems...

1) I got 3 in the last 24 hours + a BJ.  I have another date (a second time) with an 18 year old tonight but i have ''no desire'' as i feel empty! LOL

2) Too many girls want to see me again and i prefer meeting up new girls up in my pipeline. It's becoming difficult to ''let them go'' and make excuses..

I only have 4 more days in Cebu until i go to Davao for a month.

I had read mixed reviews about Cebu but so far.. i have to say it's awesome!

Note: I am staying in a condo on the top floors of Quest Hotel across Ayala, it's really a great location with the mall next door,  a bistro bar downstairs, a maid service, an amazing buffet downstairs for all 3 meals, massage service. And girls get here easy as the Jeepney terminal is right across the street of Ayala Mall and from my place.

So far... two strategies have work really well:

Back to my place to watch netflix but before i warm them up with palm reading (i read that tip in bang i think) and invite them to dance to slow music. It creates intimacy right away.

That's my report for me.  Right now, 16 notches in 20 days in the Philippines. I am expecting easily another 2 for sure (2nd dates) before i leave for Davao for a month.

So far, cupid is still by far the best. Daygame does work well here. Tinder so so but i met that out-of-town girl who visited me twice.
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#11
Sounds like you are having a great time. To keep up with so many girls you may want to try Citali’s. When I know i’ll Be sleeping with a few girls every day sometimes i’ll Take one. For me a half a pill lasts me like 4 days
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#12
Thanks 20 for the tip. Where do i get Cialis? Do i need a prescription for it in the Philippines?
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#13
I think you can just go to any pharmacy, but I can’t remember. I usually got them in Thailand. Also get the generic version to save some money.
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#14
Got them in a mercury drug. The shadier the area the easier they give it. Or they tell you "to bring the prescription next time". But to be honest, I didn't feel a big difference, neither with the casual ones, nor with the generics.
Just a funny tickling around the nose area.

Got them in a mercury drug. The shadier the area the easier they give it. Or they tell you "to bring the prescription next time". But to be honest, I didn't feel a big difference, neither with the casual ones, nor with the generics.
Just a funny tickling around the nose area.
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#15
(06-03-2018, 02:34 PM)tezza198 Wrote: Completely different to my trip.

It’s day 19 for me here in Manila and I’ve spent the entire time with ONE girl. Is she great? Yes, but id be lying if I said I don’t miss sleeping with multiple girls and having interesting experiences, I hope I’m not making a mistake here which is an internal struggle for me.

It’s just so hard because I really like this girl, but at the same time I’m addicted to the thought of other girls, I’m truely addicted. I’m younger so I attract a lot of attention here.

I really don’t know what the right decision is.

Just do what you want to do. You don't have to sleep with a hundred girls just because it's what other guys on a forum advise you do. Just do what makes you happy. If you regret your decision then you can always return to PH in the future. SE Asia isn't going anywhere.
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#16
^ Caveat to my like of the post above is that the guy has slept with other girls before.

So not too worried about him, say, marrying badly.
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#17
Yeah it's good to do what you want, but at the same time I've seen a lot of guys go to the philippines and the first girl they meet they really like and they miss out on a ton of other girls. Other girls most likely would be higher quality (just using math because they liked the first girl, the chances of her being the highest quality of 30 is low). But they never know because they never gave other girls a chance. On my first trip I didn't understand how easy everything was and I did a bit of that. On my last trip I also spent a ton of time with one girl, but after sleeping with well over 100 pinays, I would say I understand what a quality pinay is. Sometimes you just need some time to figure things out. When you have only spent a month or two in a place you dont really know it well yet.
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#18
Yeah this was the daily internal struggle for me, I was always thinking am I settling too early.

But after a lot of thought, I realised I am genuinely happy with this girl and she’s not the first attractive girl I’ve met up with so I think I’m making the right decision. But like you said, I can always come back to go on a massive bang trip if things don’t work out. Part of me wants to get more notches still, I’ll just see how the next 5 months or so go and plan my next trip accordingly.
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#19
haha yeah thats true. And if you are happy, well, that's what its all about
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#20
For a guy who has next to no game, is very inexperienced, and wants to build up his confidence, what would you guys recommend?

I'd be curious to see if Adrenaline would do anything differently. I can budget for 2 months of traveling. Would you do 1 month Manila and 1 month in Bangkok? Is it instead better to save money and spend the entire 2 months in the Philippines?

Context:
Nice, mellow Canadian guy from a city of 200,000. Used to be obese, and have recently gotten myself to a healthy weight. Will be moving across the country to Montreal, but want to build up confidence, gain experience, and make up for lost time via a trip to SEA first. Have also never left my province, so just going on a trip is a big bonus.

Edit: Not even sure if 2 months is overkill or if 1 month would suffice.
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