Tinder general thread
#21
Oh could this be me you’re referring to
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#22
what do you do in this scenario?

- have a bunch of numbers of matched chicks you want to meet
- not enough time to meet them all
- afraid that if you just dont keep them engaged they wont meet when you finally have the time to
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#23
(03-03-2020, 07:38 AM)randomA Wrote: what do you do in this scenario?

- have a bunch of numbers of matched chicks you want to meet
- not enough time to meet them all
- afraid that if you just dont keep them engaged they wont meet when you finally have the time to

- Push for the meet asap. Most online girls fall off if you haven't met within 14-21 days of first contact or first getting the number. Ideally, I push to meet the girl the very same week we start talking.
- Ping occasionally (with non-needy messages) to stay on their radar
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#24
Thanks , shit man. I literally have 2-3 free days to meet and a bunch of leads. Think i'll have to start double booking.
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#25
(03-04-2020, 04:43 AM)randomA Wrote: Thanks , shit man. I literally have 2-3 free days to meet and a bunch of leads. Think i'll have to start double booking.

Keep in mind the flake/ghost rate on tinder in the US is atrociously high.  At least from my experience, the conversion rate of girls who actually follow thru with the meet AND look like their pictures is low.  I would set aside just a little time each day and double book, unless you're into having your time wasted all day, which isn't hard to do on tinder.  Take the rest of the time those days and do you (run errands, rest, etc...)
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#26
(03-04-2020, 04:43 AM)randomA Wrote: Thanks , shit man. I literally have 2-3 free days to meet and a bunch of leads. Think i'll have to start double booking.


You can invite six at once. Fake male model profile gets about 1 good lead per six meeting invites - for whatever reason.
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#27
yeah , looks like the ratio isnt that different. it's a serious shitshow.

- i did 1 fresh account, run it for about 5 days. 42 matches. opened all.
- maybe less than 15 replied. none of the "hot" matches replied (i bet these have just too many incoming chats (does tinder even have read receipt btw?)). all replies were from the lower quality matches.
- about half engaged in a pseudo conversation that allowed me to get numbers for whatsapp.
- after transition, out of these, even if I propose same time slots i believe maybe 1 or 2 at max will agree to meet, and probably not even on my proposed time/date..

i agree one has to immediately go for date scheduling without letting any time pass from the whatsapp bounce.
not easy to do tho when you dont know about your own schedule yourself.
but i noticed that if you let even one night pass from the "text bubble" you created earlier on these sluts change their mind and might be no longer in the mood to entertain you.
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#28
@ramdomA

What you’re saying only applies if this is a chick who just wants to get laid that night (maybe 5-10% of total women on tinder). For the rest, taking more then one day isn’t gonna hurt your chances

On the flip side, I’ve seen dozens of guys fuck it up by pushing too hard for the same night day. I would say over 90% of my tinders lays I didn’t bang on the same day as I matched. I have lots that took weeks from Match to bang
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#29
I will now share a great trick, you guys can thank me later.

Very few know about this one.

But this one is great if you have some girls who you haven't talked with for a while and where the conversation kind of died (or if you have an old match with too many red flags in the profile and you won't bother talking with her unless she initiates the conversation).

Then do this:

Go to the conversation with your match and press top right. Then you will see this option displayed "Turn off messages". You press on that one and then press top right again on "Turn on messages".

What you will see happen is that the match will get to the top of the list of your matches (and for her too) for some reason even if you haven't actually wrote anything to her. I did this last night and today lots of old matches wrote to me and I'm about to set up a few dates.

Try it!
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#30
(03-08-2020, 08:12 AM)finchfry157 Wrote: @ramdomA

What you’re saying only applies if this is a chick who just wants to get laid that night (maybe 5-10% of total women on tinder). For the rest, taking more then one day isn’t gonna hurt your chances

On the flip side, I’ve seen dozens of guys fuck it up by pushing too hard for the same night day. I would say over 90% of my tinders lays I didn’t bang on the same day as I matched. I have lots that took weeks from Match to bang

no one where i am ever wants to meet on the same day as match. also with a full time wageslave job i can only meet during weekends. 
these girls have weekends busy in advance, so by the time they have a free slot they have already forgot about you / lost any interest.
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#31
If a girl wants to meet you she’ll brush off the same night invite - it’s going to hurt your chances with girls that were never going to meet you anyways, it creates the illusion of a screwup vía selection bias.

If you really want to go insane, start scheduling dates at times you can’t meet at all, and then flake on them, offer a reschedule at a time you can. I do this all the time. You’ll shed like 20 contacts at a time doing this, they won’t even answer
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#32
at this point the biggest challenge here is the contact retention.
after you successfully are in a texting chat, if you dont keep somewhat contact up, they will flake on you at the date time or cancel etc.
also during that time they might have been matching someone else so you just get pushed out.
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#33
(03-08-2020, 08:03 PM)No More Mr. Soy Boy Wrote: I will now share a great trick, you guys can thank me later.

Very few know about this one.

But this one is great if you have some girls who you haven't talked with for a while and where the conversation kind of died (or if you have an old match with too many red flags in the profile and you won't bother talking with her unless she initiates the conversation).

Then do this:

Go to the conversation with your match and press top right. Then you will see this option displayed "Turn off messages". You press on that one and then press top right again on "Turn on messages".

What you will see happen is that the match will get to the top of the list of your matches (and for her too) for some reason even if you haven't actually wrote anything to her. I did this last night and today lots of old matches wrote to me and I'm about to set up a few dates.

Try it!

Do you mean the 'mute notifications' / 'unmute notifications' option after hitting the ellipses (...) on the top right?
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#34
(03-10-2020, 12:07 AM)p_1337 Wrote: Do you mean the 'mute notifications' / 'unmute notifications' option after hitting the ellipses (...) on the top right?


Correct.

It will shove you to the top of the list.
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#35
Tried what above and indeed it works as advertised.
Nice trick.
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#36
A question: anyone have experience with shadowbans on Tinder?

I know supposedly a shadowban makes that you stop having matches, your messages will not arrive at those you send them to and your profile will basically disappear from the Stack. This happens after you've been reported too many times or if you broke the rules in other ways.

Now, since about two weeks ago, I started my trip and decided to do a Tinder reset (which I had never done in the past years). I started fresh with different pictures, a profile verified by number and with a different email linked to it. I waited too long to verify the email link and another possible error I made is attaching it to my gold subscription (allowing tinder to possibly see I did a reset). I figured this wouldn't harm me too much since it is a first time I do this and because of some of the measures I took. I have a pretty decent profile and good pics that have gotten me laid many times over the years.

Now, what I am seeing is that I am still getting some matches, but just very low-quality ones and a lot less than before. I'm in Europe now and I used to be in Latam/Africa so that of course explains some of the differences. Nevertheless, even if I match, many times there is just no response (yet not always). The boosts get me just a few extra matches, but nothing close to what I'm used to, the superlikes never seem to translate into a match. Passport feature also does not lead to any novel arrival effect as it used to before. Now, I know what you guys are thinking, yet another guy coming from third world not realizing how shit online game is in the west (although I'm in Eastern Europe now) and I can agree theoretically speaking it could be true. I'd say I get about 10-15% of the interest now on Tinder compared to in other developing countries. Another option though is that a shadowban is not all or nothing, they might have installed some variable degrees of shadowbans and this could indicate that I am being 'punished' for the reset, yet not at 100%. It would make much more sense as well since I am a paying customer they rather not lose. I've also received notifications of messages or matches and then when going on the app they are not there.

Anyone else had a similar experience or is seeing other strange things with Tinder lately? Or is Tinder just so absurdly hard nowadays in Europe to get any results? For those who believe the shadowban hypothesis, how long would it last or should I just eject from tinder completely?
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#37
Only one way to find out: use a fresh account with new details. I think you shouldn't have reloaded the gold account.
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#38
Yeah then I need another email account, I'll have to contact pussysniffer to see if he can get me one from his 3000 burner emails for trolling purposes.
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#39
(07-15-2020, 03:19 PM)Rottenapple Wrote: A question: anyone have experience with shadowbans on Tinder?

I know supposedly a shadowban makes that you stop having matches, your messages will not arrive at those you send them to and your profile will basically disappear from the Stack. This happens after you've been reported too many times or if you broke the rules in other ways.

Now, since about two weeks ago, I started my trip and decided to do a Tinder reset (which I had never done in the past years). I started fresh with different pictures, a profile verified by number and with a different email linked to it. I waited too long to verify the email link and another possible error I made is attaching it to my gold subscription (allowing tinder to possibly see I did a reset). I figured this wouldn't harm me too much since it is a first time I do this and because of some of the measures I took. I have a pretty decent profile and good pics that have gotten me laid many times over the years.

Now, what I am seeing is that I am still getting some matches, but just very low-quality ones and a lot less than before. I'm in Europe now and I used to be in Latam/Africa so that of course explains some of the differences. Nevertheless, even if I match, many times there is just no response (yet not always). The boosts get me just a few extra matches, but nothing close to what I'm used to, the superlikes never seem to translate into a match. Passport feature also does not lead to any novel arrival effect as it used to before. Now, I know what you guys are thinking, yet another guy coming from third world not realizing how shit online game is in the west (although I'm in Eastern Europe now) and I can agree theoretically speaking it could be true. I'd say I get about 10-15% of the interest now on Tinder compared to in other developing countries. Another option though is that a shadowban is not all or nothing, they might have installed some variable degrees of shadowbans and this could indicate that I am being 'punished' for the reset, yet not at 100%. It would make much more sense as well since I am a paying customer they rather not lose. I've also received notifications of messages or matches and then when going on the app they are not there.

Anyone else had a similar experience or is seeing other strange things with Tinder lately? Or is Tinder just so absurdly hard nowadays in Europe to get any results? For those who believe the shadowban hypothesis, how long would it last or should I just eject from tinder completely?

Tinder is getting worse and worse. But I reset often to get the higher visibility. It's helpful to remember that Tinder is not representative of your attractiveness, the local market, or anything really at all. Match group does some evil things with the algorithm. As we discussed in another thread there's only about 18% women on Tinder. 

This post has a reset procedure if you're interested in that kind of thing https://www.swooptheworld.com/forum/show...1#pid16931

If you use the same phone you'll likely inherit your previous ranking and visibility. Try a different phone or an android emulator. I'm actually doing a reset now
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#40
Shadowban is a full blacklist (like using a famous persons photos and recognized with AI). A soft shadowban would occur when you’re using certain proxies. They’ll match you with people using proxies only.

If not they lost 75% of female users in the past six months. What happens with that ratio is the distinct possibility all 50 of the women you swipe right on have already left swiped you.

Buy a burner.
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