Is Internet Dating A Complete Dead Duck These Days?
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(08-10-2020, 12:06 PM)zatara Wrote:
(08-09-2020, 05:58 PM)Kir Diesel Wrote: Good to hear its going well for some.... This shutdown of nightgame has exposed my overdependance on nightclubs/bars big time. Online is going slightly better to due to being in a new city but its not like I'm getting dates non-stop yet.

Its mostly just putting in the practice/hours man. If you'd asked me a year ago I would have said the exact same as you - bars were always my go-to, for years and years. But I just had to really throw myself into online game because of the lockdown shutting down all other options for me in March, and I'm now finding it easy/fun I guess because I've gotten decent at it (and because the ongoing half-lockdown circumstances this summer are helping).

I'm a completely average looking guy, but I've got a well edited profile and a good selection of photos. And I'd like to think I've got OK game from over the years of nightlife. But I'm nothing special other than being in good shape otherwise. I'm not some model looking guy whos gifted for the apps.

The best observation I can make is moving from night game to the apps is like suddenly driving a new, very different sized car: you'll be a bit ropey at first because things have changed and you're not used to them. But once you do it for a while and get used to it the skills you built up over the years will transfer over, given its the same basic task underneath.

Thanks for the reply. Im working on it... I have really putting in the hours recently, getting the best answers to the same repeated questions the girls have. I just had a date with one this past week and the skills transfer over from nightgame pretty easily. I am just having trouble with the matches so I am going to have fresh pictures retaken in a few weeks once I lose a couple lbs and get done with my new tattoos. I am expecting a nice bump in dates in a coming weeks and will be updating.

I don't feel its hopeless but its absolutely tough to switch gears like that at almost 40 years old trying to pull girls in their 20s. 

Im sure in about 6 weeks ill have a better handle on it
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#42
Kir Diesel Wrote:I am going to have fresh pictures retaken in a few weeks once I lose a couple lbs
It's easy to get abs with photoshop. I did it got my six pack and got great results on Tinder with very little effort.
https://imgur.com/iHGGhcV

(08-10-2020, 08:50 PM)Jerusalem Lothario Wrote: ...Looking at getting a dog this will be social proof and go on Bumble photo 1...

I have a cat that I could give you, it's very photogenic
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#43
Girls dont like cats MH unless they're into cutting and emo music







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I joined Hinge for the first time a few days ago, I have never seen so many fat chicks in my life. I am seeing a lot of escort profiles as well. For every one descent chick there is 10 fat and/or unattractive chicks. It must be my location.

But i have been changing location to say nyc and its more or less the same. Is my algorithm fucked? Am i doing something wrong here? so far had three matches that led to nowhere. I am gonna take better pictures and hold it out.
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I got a bunch of hot profiles on hinge initially and then it went to shit in one flip. Bunch of troll looking women.. get 10+ in a row after boost is gone







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(08-12-2020, 12:15 AM)Jerusalem Lothario Wrote: I got a bunch of hot profiles on hinge initially and then it went to shit in one flip. Bunch of troll looking women.. get 10+ in a row after boost is gone

There is an uptick in quality when you get boost?
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No I created the account man recently. So it went from hot women to not hot in a moment







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(08-11-2020, 11:41 PM)AnindoSolid Wrote: I joined Hinge for the first time a few days ago, I have never seen so many fat chicks in my life. I am seeing a lot of escort profiles as well. For every one descent chick there is 10 fat and/or unattractive chicks. It must be my location.

But i have been changing location to say nyc and its more or less the same. Is my algorithm fucked? Am i doing something wrong here? so far had three matches that led to nowhere. I am gonna take better pictures and hold it out.

That's interesting. When I was physically in NYC a couple weeks ago I saw lots of hot girls and very few escorts. The algo must be fucked
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