Planning a trip to Philippines
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(07-01-2017, 03:48 AM)Dash Wrote: I do not concur with Spiritmaze's Cupid opinions.

I have looked at numerous good looking girls Cupid inboxes out of curiosity.

Mostly middle aged to old men. Half the men are not even in Philippines.

Rarely do I see a younger good looking guy hitting them up.

A guy like me might account for 5% of their messages. 10% MAX.

I also don't find getting cute to attractive ones to meet difficult. An 8 yea maybe. But you rarely see them online.

At most its just simply finding out which day she is off work or what time she finishes work and has no plans made already.

Now I do agree about when he said inviting girls straight to your place (attractive ones) rarely happens. Well, I have never tried it much. I only do that for slooty looking 5s with a decent to nice body. Some bite some dont. But I can not imagine it being effective. Girls don't want to think or appear to be pure sluts.

Usually I just take a girl out to the bar at night and bring her home. Never been on a late night drinking date alone with a girl and didn't smash 1st night.

10% of a 100 messages is 10 Dashes. Girls on Cupid receive hundreds of messages. 

Filipinas on Cupid, in my experience, seemed to find me much more interesting when I wasn't living in Manila. Guys messaging from abroad on Cupid provide considerable competition. I have heard stories from filipinas that they were in a long distance relationship with guys from places like Kansas for years, never ended up meeting but kept a Skype relationship. These girls will effectively be taken off the market while they embark on their fairytale Skype relationship....and they generally don't cheat. Filipinas, once fully invested in a guy, are actually very faithful in my experience.

I hate to say it but older guys are competition, even for young handsome guys like me. As I said earlier, Filipinas have no filter and will entertain all guys who message them (but not necessarily meet or fuck them). They have a first-come, first-serve mentality. Whoever gets there first gets her investment. Often all it takes is just being nice and friendly and a filipina will give you her time. If there are 100's of guys messaging her then she will interact with all of them. She will preference the nicer, better looking guys, but purely the fact that she's getting her ego pumped up by 100's of other guys just makes it harder to get a quick date with her. When you invite her on a date you will start to get replies like this: 'You need to court me first.' or 'We need to chat more and get to know each other first.' Her expectations of your time investment start to increase.

I'm not saying this always happens.....but it happens a lot. You fall into this trap of jumping through hoops with her to get a date, and it's very degrading.

Finding out when a girl finishes work or when she has a free day doesn't make meeting them any easier. If the girl likes you and thinks you are a serious prospect, she will make herself available. If she's unsure she'll feed you a line such as 'I'll let you know if I'm free.' I typically find that out of maybe every 10-15 girls I invite for a date, 1 will agree to a date within my parameters. There might be a few more that will agree to a date, but only if it's at a mall near their place or some other logistically difficult requirement. Some weeks that ratio might be worse 30-1, some weeks it might be better. It's a pure numbers game.

I will only meet a girl if she accepts to meet me at a mall next to my condo (happens to be Century Mall currently). I'll be happy to pay for her uber. I don't meet girls who expect me to pick them up from far flung areas of Manila (this is a very consistent barrier that girls will bring up here. Filipinas are so flakey that I would highly advise against going to fetch a filipina from anywhere. I have learnt this the hard way).
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Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 06-19-2017, 01:12 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-19-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by usmaniac - 06-19-2017, 05:51 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-19-2017, 06:08 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-19-2017, 07:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-19-2017, 09:13 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-20-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-20-2017, 06:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-20-2017, 03:14 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by mike - 06-20-2017, 04:32 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-20-2017, 05:28 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-21-2017, 08:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-21-2017, 10:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-21-2017, 06:27 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-22-2017, 04:07 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-22-2017, 09:30 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-21-2017, 02:59 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-21-2017, 03:09 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-21-2017, 06:40 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-21-2017, 06:46 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by TigerT - 06-22-2017, 12:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 06-22-2017, 03:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-22-2017, 03:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-22-2017, 03:21 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-23-2017, 03:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-25-2017, 02:04 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-26-2017, 06:56 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-26-2017, 02:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-26-2017, 11:25 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-26-2017, 06:02 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-27-2017, 01:52 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-27-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-27-2017, 02:15 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-27-2017, 04:38 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-28-2017, 03:17 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-28-2017, 08:22 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-28-2017, 08:31 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-28-2017, 05:54 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 12:57 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:21 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-29-2017, 03:20 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-29-2017, 03:28 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:33 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 03:35 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:38 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 03:47 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:56 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:06 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-29-2017, 04:10 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:19 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 04:27 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:40 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 05:00 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 05:15 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 05:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 06:01 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 05:21 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 05:44 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 06:44 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 08:41 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 09:37 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-29-2017, 09:08 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-29-2017, 09:39 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 10:11 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 09:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 10:49 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-29-2017, 12:25 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 12:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 01:34 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-29-2017, 01:57 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-29-2017, 06:41 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 06:59 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-30-2017, 06:04 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 02:21 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 07-01-2017, 04:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-30-2017, 06:05 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-01-2017, 03:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 03:14 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 03:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 04:15 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 04:36 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 04:52 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 08:52 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 10:49 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 07-01-2017, 10:59 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 11:46 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 07-01-2017, 01:53 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 01:56 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 03:27 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 07-01-2017, 03:45 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-02-2017, 06:09 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 07-02-2017, 05:35 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Jason55 - 07-01-2017, 04:21 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-02-2017, 03:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 04:33 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-02-2017, 04:39 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 04:57 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 05:49 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-02-2017, 06:11 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 06:13 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-02-2017, 06:20 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-02-2017, 06:44 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 06:26 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-02-2017, 06:32 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 07:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-02-2017, 07:25 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 10:28 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 07-04-2017, 01:17 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-04-2017, 02:58 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 03:32 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by TigerT - 07-04-2017, 06:06 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by elitenoob - 07-04-2017, 09:45 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Malo - 07-04-2017, 04:14 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 11:09 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 11:18 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by TigerT - 07-04-2017, 02:19 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by usmaniac - 07-04-2017, 07:15 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 07:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 07-04-2017, 11:32 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-05-2017, 03:07 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-05-2017, 03:10 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-05-2017, 05:45 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-05-2017, 05:56 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by usmaniac - 07-05-2017, 08:42 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 07-05-2017, 01:08 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-05-2017, 02:00 PM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 07-12-2017, 02:56 PM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 07-20-2017, 02:53 AM
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