I recommend dudes to make plans a day in advance or 2 at most (assuming girl is not available that night). Then message her a few times each day leading up or more if you want. It might reduce their "flakiness" for you fellas.
Don't even do any tentative plans bullshit. Make it set plans time and place. Don't do a week in advance either.
Call them out for some bullshit replies like "maybe".
Don't even do any tentative plans bullshit. Make it set plans time and place. Don't do a week in advance either.
Call them out for some bullshit replies like "maybe".