Planning a trip to Philippines
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Having went from Philippines straight to Dominican republic I can tell you for sure that pinays are not the worst flakers. They were way better than Dominicans, but I can see wny you might say that spiritmaze.

Westerners: (western, central european and other western countries) When they say they will do something, they will usually do it. That's the culture and thats how they were raised.

South East Asians: When they say they will do something, they plan on doing it in the moment, but later they decide they wouldl prefer to stay in or do something else and they were never really taught that canceling is rude. What will make them flake is not keeping up rapport with them.

Colombians, Dominicans: When they say they will do something, they maybe don't even want to to begin with. I'll do it could mean anything from "I don't want to do it but I will just agree" "Sure, I'll do it if on the off chance i'm feeling lonely at that time" to "I really want to meet him but I'm just lazy and don't respect times".

By far Dominicans and Colombians are the worst in this. After my first week I was getting flaked on a lot in DR. The last 2 weeks? Almost never. How did I change it so much? I put time into the girls I was trying to meet. I would tease and joke with them up until our meeting. I would make things interesting. Before I was just robotically asking to meet them. That same robotic strategy I was doing in Philippines and getting way fewer flakes.

The lesson here, you can prevent flakes everywhere but it takes more work in some places than others.
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Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 06-19-2017, 01:12 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-19-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by usmaniac - 06-19-2017, 05:51 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-19-2017, 06:08 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-19-2017, 07:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-19-2017, 09:13 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-20-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-20-2017, 06:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-20-2017, 03:14 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by mike - 06-20-2017, 04:32 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-20-2017, 05:28 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-21-2017, 08:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-21-2017, 10:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-21-2017, 06:27 PM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-22-2017, 09:30 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-21-2017, 02:59 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-21-2017, 03:09 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-21-2017, 06:40 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-21-2017, 06:46 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by TigerT - 06-22-2017, 12:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 06-22-2017, 03:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-22-2017, 03:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-22-2017, 03:21 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-23-2017, 03:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-25-2017, 02:04 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-26-2017, 06:56 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-26-2017, 02:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-26-2017, 11:25 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-26-2017, 06:02 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-27-2017, 01:52 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-27-2017, 02:15 PM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 12:57 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:21 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:33 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 03:35 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:06 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:19 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 04:27 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:40 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 10:49 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 02:21 AM
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