Planning a trip to Philippines
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(06-22-2017, 04:07 AM)guys Wrote:
(06-21-2017, 06:27 PM)Bateman Wrote:
(06-21-2017, 03:09 PM)guys Wrote: for non pro girls manila beats bangkok for nightlife, 

I am really curious about the Manila nightlife now. Granted, I am absolutely no expert on that, but from what I have heard, read and experienced myself, it really isn't that great. Or has it improved a lot in the last 2 years?  Can somebody drop some names of decent clubs and bars that make Manila nightlife good?

basically just that its easy to pull from, in the end that is pretty much all that matters

That's one of the problems I have with the "travel manosphere" nowadays. Everything is about bang trips where you are on 3 Tinder dates per week and in addition to that hit up the easiest clubs in the hopes of getting a ONS. All inspired from the infamous "I banged 30 girls in 30 days in the Philippines" reports on the internet. Not only does the quality of your girls drop significantly if you do it like that, you will also contribute to the decline of those pussy paradises and hinder your own self-improvement. For total newbies it is perfectly fine to get your dick wet for a month in SEA, because you will grow a lot as a person. But don't get stuck in that phase. Once you reached a certain level of game and personality, those bang trips won't be conducive to your self-improvement any more.

I know it sounds awesome to bang 5 new girls a week, but trust me it really isn't that amazing once you have experienced it a couple of times. And guess what: there is more to life than just banging tons of girls. I have done it in the past and I can assure you that it is not worth it. I don't call a nightlife scene in a city good just because it is easy to pull from. Because in the end that is not all that matters. I go out to clubs to have a good time with my friends, to meet new people that can enrich my life and not to add another 6 or 7 to my notch list. I don't go to a country just to stay in a major city for a month and bang women. I travel to a country to make new experiences and get to know new cultures and people. In short: I don't define the quality of my life and my happiness by the amount of girls I banged last week.

I really wish more people on the manosphere would think like that. They took a great, inspiring thing called traveling and turned into a soulless thing where you travel thousands of miles just to stay in a 2km radius from your apartment and bang chicks off Tinder. If you are reading this thread, you should carefully read shalabadoo's recent post. He obviously knows what he is talking about. He seems like a very experienced and wise man to me. Listen to him and you will not regret it.

And just to give you an idea where I am coming from. I spent almost 2 years in SEA in the last 4 years. I did have a great time. From a travel perspective it was awesome. I visited every country in SEA except East Timor and Brunei, including some very remote parts of SEA like North Sulawesi oder South Myanmar. I also banged plenty of women, including some really good looking ones. I had a great fucking time and A LOT OF FUN. Nobody can take that from me. But you know what? I regret that I didn't achieve anything other than traveling and banging women. I spent almost a year in Bangkok and didn't become fluent in the language even though I had the time and money for it. I didn't hit the gym as hard as I usually do. In fact, I lost a lot of muscle mass. I didn't make any financial steps towards a location independent lifestyle. In fact, I only spent money and didn't make any money. I approximately spent 40k during my time in SEA. Everyone knows that corny quote which says that traveling is the only thing you can buy that makes you richer. Well, I am not so sure about it. I am not sure if all those travel experiences and girls I banged are worth 40k. Had I invested the time and money into something more sustainable, chances are that I would now have a successful business up and running that would allow me for  the rest of my life to travel even more than I had done in the last 4 years. Chances are that I would be fluent in a new language (which opens you up to a lot new opportunities). Chances are, that I would already have built the body and life I want. 

Of course, if all you want is a 1 month bang trip and then go back to your old life working and living in the west, then just ignore what I wrote. But if you love traveling and living abroad like I do, then I can only encourage you to rethink your approach to the whole thing. I firmly believe that it makes more sense to work on your base first (= good, stable income and other personal goals) and then do all the traveling and have all the fun you want later in life. Rant is over.
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Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 06-19-2017, 01:12 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-19-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by usmaniac - 06-19-2017, 05:51 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-19-2017, 06:08 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-19-2017, 07:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-19-2017, 09:13 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-20-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-20-2017, 06:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-20-2017, 03:14 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by mike - 06-20-2017, 04:32 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-20-2017, 05:28 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-21-2017, 08:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-21-2017, 10:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-21-2017, 06:27 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-22-2017, 04:07 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-22-2017, 09:30 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-21-2017, 02:59 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-21-2017, 03:09 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-21-2017, 06:40 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-21-2017, 06:46 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by TigerT - 06-22-2017, 12:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 06-22-2017, 03:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-22-2017, 03:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-22-2017, 03:21 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-23-2017, 03:23 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by billyga - 06-25-2017, 02:04 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-26-2017, 06:56 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-26-2017, 02:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-26-2017, 11:25 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-26-2017, 06:02 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-27-2017, 01:52 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-27-2017, 02:54 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-27-2017, 02:15 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-27-2017, 04:38 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-28-2017, 03:17 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-28-2017, 08:22 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-28-2017, 08:31 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-28-2017, 05:54 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 12:57 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:21 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-29-2017, 03:20 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 06-29-2017, 03:28 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:33 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 03:35 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:38 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 03:47 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 03:56 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:06 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-29-2017, 04:10 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:19 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 04:27 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 04:40 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 05:00 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 05:15 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 06-29-2017, 05:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 06:01 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 05:21 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 05:44 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 06:44 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 08:41 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 09:37 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 06-29-2017, 09:08 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-29-2017, 09:39 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 10:11 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 09:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 10:49 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-29-2017, 12:25 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 06-29-2017, 12:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 01:34 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Bateman - 06-29-2017, 01:57 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-29-2017, 06:41 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-29-2017, 06:59 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 06-30-2017, 06:04 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 02:21 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Vic Vega - 07-01-2017, 04:43 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 06-30-2017, 06:05 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-01-2017, 03:02 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 03:14 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 03:48 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 04:15 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 04:36 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 04:52 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 08:52 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 10:49 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 07-01-2017, 10:59 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 11:46 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Exultate - 07-01-2017, 01:53 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-01-2017, 01:56 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-01-2017, 03:27 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 07-01-2017, 03:45 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-02-2017, 06:09 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 07-02-2017, 05:35 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Jason55 - 07-01-2017, 04:21 PM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 04:33 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 04:57 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 05:49 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by spiritmaze - 07-02-2017, 06:20 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-02-2017, 06:44 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 06:26 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 07:02 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-02-2017, 10:28 AM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Enpiti - 07-04-2017, 01:17 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 03:32 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by elitenoob - 07-04-2017, 09:45 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 11:09 AM
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RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by usmaniac - 07-04-2017, 07:15 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by Dash - 07-04-2017, 07:50 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by 20Nation - 07-04-2017, 11:32 PM
RE: Planning a trip to Philippines - by guys - 07-05-2017, 03:07 AM
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