The Vietnam Thread
Depends on what kind of trip it is. For a bang mission, Saigon is much better than Danang. If you want to just chill out, Danang is better. I haven't been to Hanoi.
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It would be for a little bit of both. I don't see myself traveling somewhere just for pussies anymore so I want to have something else to do (beach, hikes, sightseeing) but a decent dating scene and nightlife is required as well.
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I've arrived in Saigon now and settling in well. Anyone up for a beer or something?
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Nightlife scene in Danang isnt half bad. I actually enjoyed it more than Saigon. Even during Tet, places like Golden Pine were popping.

Its a little chilly there this time of year though.

And the online dating/tinder scene is thin so if youre reliant in that for pulling then its not the best option.
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In SEA, I tend to use tinder only in case of "emergency" which rarely happen so a thin scene isn't a really a problem
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(01-21-2020, 07:06 AM)SpecialEd Wrote: Nightlife scene in Danang isnt half bad. I actually enjoyed it more than Saigon. Even during Tet, places like Golden Pine were popping.

Its a little chilly there this time of year though.

And the online dating/tinder scene is thin so if youre reliant in that for pulling then its not the best option.

The Golden Pine was full when I visited in December. Full of Koreans who kept to themselves and even had their own Korean rappers and DJs entertaining them. Having said that, I went to a few more bars in that area for a couple of nights out and it wasn't horrible. Just difficult for hooking up compared to many other cities in South East Asia.
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I have now spent a bit over a week in Saigon. 3 bangs so far. 2 of them on the first date, and very little LMR so far. A lot of girls away for tet holiday so have been seeing one girl pretty often. Have plenty more to meet in the coming weeks. Should be starting a teaching job when the holidays finish.

Have been out to a few places like omg, the observatory, the lighthouse, bui vien. A lot of other foreigners in these places so haven't had much success with nightgame so far. Have also been doing quite a lot of NOS balloons, as they sell it everywhere and in huge balloons. Need to be careful it doesn't become an expensive habit.
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NOS balloons? What's that? Like laughing gas or something?
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Yeah he's talking about balloons filled with laughing gas. I did the exact same stuff when I was in HCMC, shit's so cheap but so fun.
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(01-27-2020, 03:54 PM)Gwapito Wrote: Yeah he's talking about balloons filled with laughing gas. I did the exact same stuff when I was in HCMC, shit's so cheap but so fun.

It's not that cheap. They go for about 100-200k (about $4-$8) and don't last very long. Easy to run through loads of them. It is really fun though.

Last night's girl has just left. I enjoyed her a lot. She was showing me all the guys she fucked on facebook and zalo. Wouldn't be surprised if one of you has smashed her!

Going out to ladies night at Lush tonight with a couple of guys I met on couchsurfing hangouts. Doing pregame at my place and heading out later. Going to force myself to open girls tonight as I am normally pretty poor at night game.
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Quote:She was showing me all the guys she fucked on facebook and zalo.

How did they look? Young and hot?
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(01-28-2020, 07:05 PM)WombRaider Wrote:
Quote:She was showing me all the guys she fucked on facebook and zalo.

How did they look? Young and hot?

She goes for guys over 30 so most of them looked pretty average. Although one of them was some ripped bodybuilder who was probably on roids.

Back from lush having failed to pull. I need a good wing to push me to talk to girls more. Feel like I'm always waiting for the perfect moment to make my move but it never comes. Also tinder has made me lazy.
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(01-27-2020, 02:32 PM)ViceHunter Wrote: I have now spent a bit over a week in Saigon. 3 bangs so far. 2 of them on the first date, and very little LMR so far. A lot of girls away for tet holiday so have been seeing one girl pretty often. Have plenty more to meet in the coming weeks. Should be starting a teaching job when the holidays finish.

Have been out to a few places like omg, the observatory, the lighthouse, bui vien. A lot of other foreigners in these places so haven't had much success with nightgame so far. Have also been doing quite a lot of NOS balloons, as they sell it everywhere and in huge balloons. Need to be careful it doesn't become an expensive habit.

The bangs were native or tourists?
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(01-28-2020, 08:22 PM)Tori Wrote:
(01-27-2020, 02:32 PM)ViceHunter Wrote: I have now spent a bit over a week in Saigon. 3 bangs so far. 2 of them on the first date, and very little LMR so far. A lot of girls away for tet holiday so have been seeing one girl pretty often. Have plenty more to meet in the coming weeks. Should be starting a teaching job when the holidays finish.

Have been out to a few places like omg, the observatory, the lighthouse, bui vien. A lot of other foreigners in these places so haven't had much success with nightgame so far. Have also been doing quite a lot of NOS balloons, as they sell it everywhere and in huge balloons. Need to be careful it doesn't become an expensive habit.

The bangs were native or tourists?

Native (although actually, one of them was half chinese). I didnt come here to fuck with white girls.
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(01-28-2020, 12:25 PM)ViceHunter Wrote: Last night's girl has just left. I enjoyed her a lot. She was showing me all the guys she fucked on facebook and zalo. Wouldn't be surprised if one of you has smashed her!

I dont know man, i know that you dont give a shit, but this turns me off so much. how do i learn not to give a shit about anyone who im supposed to sleep with?

Or maybe I have reached that stage in life where I'd find such situation gross, coming from a degenerate girl trying to brag about all the guys shes gotten fucked by and showing it to you, the literal next guy fucking her.
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Quote:I dont know man, i know that you dont give a shit, but this turns me off so much. how do i learn not to give a shit about anyone who im supposed to sleep with?

Same!

All those random scrotums banging against her perineum, and she thinks that's something appropriate to tell you about.
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vice, shoot me a pm. i am curious if we are eskimo brothers.
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(01-29-2020, 02:42 AM)WombRaider Wrote:
Quote:I dont know man, i know that you dont give a shit, but this turns me off so much. how do i learn not to give a shit about anyone who im supposed to sleep with?

Same!

All those random scrotums banging against her perineum, and she thinks that's something appropriate to tell you about.

It's a strange topic, really, because frequently I try NOT to get into those kinds of discussions with chicks, but any conversation could end up going in that direction, and if she is not LTR material, then maybe a guy might just end up talking about those kinds of relationship matters with a chick just for fun or out of curiosity (but yeah, does a guy really need to know?).  If she is in the "regular bangs" circuit, then it can be good for the guy to know if he might end up in some kind of potential conflict situation.

I have had to lecture a few girls about their drama inclinations, and I tell them that part of our deal, when we hang out in public is that I don't want them putting me in any kind of unnecessary drama situation or where I might have to fight with a guy - whether I think that I can take the guy or not.  It's actually not a conversation that I bring up on my own, but instead such topics usually come up based on some kind of interaction that I have had with a girl and sometimes involving another guy, too.  Like she is talking with a guy or something like that, and then I might want to know who the guy is if she does not explain their relationship to me.  Sometimes, I will look back at the interaction and figure out that I am NOT really sure how my girl knows that other guy and sometimes it can lead to awkward interactions if I have to go up to her while she is talking with the guy.. or maybe the guy is seeming to pursue her in front of me (and he might not know that she is with me).

Of course, a guy should need to know less about her interactions with other guys if you don't plan to see her or take her into public, but I surely prefer to avoid as much drama interactions as I can, and frequently girls have differing ideas about the level of drama that they are willing to tolerate and sometimes they seem to find drama as a kind of game (or maybe even a shit test).
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(01-29-2020, 05:20 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:
(01-29-2020, 02:42 AM)WombRaider Wrote:
Quote:I dont know man, i know that you dont give a shit, but this turns me off so much. how do i learn not to give a shit about anyone who im supposed to sleep with?

Same!

All those random scrotums banging against her perineum, and she thinks that's something appropriate to tell you about.

It's a strange topic, really, because frequently I try NOT to get into those kinds of discussions with chicks, but any conversation could end up going in that direction, and if she is not LTR material, then maybe a guy might just end up talking about those kinds of relationship matters with a chick just for fun or out of curiosity (but yeah, does a guy really need to know?).  If she is in the "regular bangs" circuit, then it can be good for the guy to know if he might end up in some kind of potential conflict situation.

I have had to lecture a few girls about their drama inclinations, and I tell them that part of our deal, when we hang out in public is that I don't want them putting me in any kind of unnecessary drama situation or where I might have to fight with a guy - whether I think that I can take the guy or not.  It's actually not a conversation that I bring up on my own, but instead such topics usually come up based on some kind of interaction that I have had with a girl and sometimes involving another guy, too.  Like she is talking with a guy or something like that, and then I might want to know who the guy is if she does not explain their relationship to me.  Sometimes, I will look back at the interaction and figure out that I am NOT really sure how my girl knows that other guy and sometimes it can lead to awkward interactions if I have to go up to her while she is talking with the guy.. or maybe the guy is seeming to pursue her in front of me (and he might not know that she is with me).

Of course, a guy should need to know less about her interactions with other guys if you don't plan to see her or take her into public, but I surely prefer to avoid as much drama interactions as I can, and frequently girls have differing ideas about the level of drama that they are willing to tolerate and sometimes they seem to find drama as a kind of game (or maybe even a shit test).

Best way to not give a shit? Realise that at some point in the future, everything you have ever done in your life will be forgotten. Slightly depressing but when I realised this I stopped giving a shit and it felt grat. 

I found it slightly strange that she brought it up, but also kind of interesting. It was a slight turn off I guess. She is 100% not ltr material. I would only see her again if she came straight to my place, so don't need to be concerned about being with her in public.
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(01-29-2020, 02:21 PM)ViceHunter Wrote:
(01-29-2020, 05:20 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:
(01-29-2020, 02:42 AM)WombRaider Wrote:
Quote:I dont know man, i know that you dont give a shit, but this turns me off so much. how do i learn not to give a shit about anyone who im supposed to sleep with?

Same!

All those random scrotums banging against her perineum, and she thinks that's something appropriate to tell you about.

It's a strange topic, really, because frequently I try NOT to get into those kinds of discussions with chicks, but any conversation could end up going in that direction, and if she is not LTR material, then maybe a guy might just end up talking about those kinds of relationship matters with a chick just for fun or out of curiosity (but yeah, does a guy really need to know?).  If she is in the "regular bangs" circuit, then it can be good for the guy to know if he might end up in some kind of potential conflict situation.

I have had to lecture a few girls about their drama inclinations, and I tell them that part of our deal, when we hang out in public is that I don't want them putting me in any kind of unnecessary drama situation or where I might have to fight with a guy - whether I think that I can take the guy or not.  It's actually not a conversation that I bring up on my own, but instead such topics usually come up based on some kind of interaction that I have had with a girl and sometimes involving another guy, too.  Like she is talking with a guy or something like that, and then I might want to know who the guy is if she does not explain their relationship to me.  Sometimes, I will look back at the interaction and figure out that I am NOT really sure how my girl knows that other guy and sometimes it can lead to awkward interactions if I have to go up to her while she is talking with the guy.. or maybe the guy is seeming to pursue her in front of me (and he might not know that she is with me).

Of course, a guy should need to know less about her interactions with other guys if you don't plan to see her or take her into public, but I surely prefer to avoid as much drama interactions as I can, and frequently girls have differing ideas about the level of drama that they are willing to tolerate and sometimes they seem to find drama as a kind of game (or maybe even a shit test).

Best way to not give a shit? Realise that at some point in the future, everything you have ever done in your life will be forgotten. Slightly depressing but when I realised this I stopped giving a shit and it felt grat. 

I found it slightly strange that she brought it up, but also kind of interesting. It was a slight turn off I guess. 

I find your explanation totally plausible in regards to our interactions with chicks sometimes going in all kinds of unexpected directions, and frequently, we just need to be able to go with the flow them, and decide on the fly whether we are going to "go" to the place where they are trying to take us or how far we are going to let some matter that she is bringing up go before we attempt to shut it down.

I know some guys will say that a chick needs to be like this or that or some other thing, and even chicks are going through times that are way out of their ability to adapt, and surely I prefer to hang out with chicks or even bang chicks who I largely find to be interesting characters, even if I might NOT consider them to be long term relationship materials. Even when I have opportunities to bang chicks on the first date, I don't tend to do it, most of the time, but yeah, if you are traveling, there will be those kinds of restraints that cause guys to want to get the bang much more quickly and end up with chicks who might be a bit on the "strange" side.

So, yeah, I understand that if a guy is rotating through a lot of girls, sometimes the girls can really become a real pain in the ass in terms of the kinds of things they do or the level of their trustworthiness, because there has not been enough time to really figure out how much you can trust them or just whether you can leave them in your room by themselves, or leave them with valuables or if you have to hide everything from them.

I also don't tend to friend chicks on facebook, even if I am banging them for a long time, but the chick still might have my image, and she could say that this is one of the guys that she had been banging.. . I have frequently thought about creating a burner facebook account for traveling, but I wonder if that is even practical with all of the joining of face recognition software, these days.

(01-29-2020, 02:21 PM)ViceHunter Wrote: She is 100% not ltr material. I would only see her again if she came straight to my place, so don't need to be concerned about being with her in public.

That makes sense too, and yeah, both of you may have recognized that you were not really going down any kind of potential long term relationship path, which might have caused her to be a lot more open with you about her prior relationships and just to see how you might react to that information.. like she was trying to get your approval or her curiosity in regard to your reaction.

Regarding my experience with Vietnamese girls, I have had quite a few quasi-long term relationships with Vietnamese girls who are in the USA and who had grown up in vietnam, and in early 2015, I did go on about a three week trip to Vietnam with one of my vietnamese girlfriends, and I was trying to gauge what it would be like to try to pick up chicks in vietnam while I was with my then girlfriend. Just for fun, I tried some practice approaches with some local girls when my girl was out shopping or something like that, but it is so difficult to appreciate the short term weirdness that could happen with a girl that you may have just met for the bang and with some decent logistics, and aren't guys having more difficulties staying longer in vietnam if they are on a tourist visa, or or guys getting work visas in order to make it easier to stay in vietnam for longer periods of time?
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