The Vietnam Thread
(12-13-2018, 02:51 AM)Dash Wrote: 7) Adding random girls on FB works decently. Browse names in HCMC and browse other girls friend lists. Add away. Thought about trying Linkedin as well.

8) Try do to some day game (parks, malls, cafes and walking street) atleast 2-4 times a month. Can use the looking to learn Vietnamese / language exchange as an easy opener / excuse.

+1 to adding random Vietnamese girls and creeping through their friend list for more girls. It works surprisingly well. We really are high value here to the normal poor girls... and normal poor girls are still cute. Just gotta screen for English.

Bonus points if she has "single" listed on her profile. They respond more often.

Language exchange is usually, not always, my go to excuse outside of the dating apps. Enough plausible deniability for them. I still know virtually no Vietnamese, so it's an awful way to learn the language.

Also, the girls might seem naive, but that's just how the more feminine women act. Deep down in their heart they still know what's up with a "language exchange" date with a foreigner and they'll still treat it as a date. They're not THAT stupid.
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These sluts are so pretentious. They take waaay too fucking long to put out and act like they are chaste virgins. It's a grind getting ONSs here and they are way too prudish and want you to marry them first.

Also noticing a ton of undercover stealthy hookers/semipro types that will slowly run up your tab if you let them by pretending to be normal girls. Girls here have very sharp game and are looking for their 'payout'. The conservative act is complete bs and many of them are stuck up  and cold.

As such I treat it like the Philippines or Thailand. I meet for 15 minutes near my place. Alcoholic drinks or beers. We walk to my place and I give it another 15 to 30 minutes comfort and escalation. If she doesn't put out I don't see her again. Saves me so much time. Incredibly annoying.

Thailand. Philippines. Indonesia. They are all better options for fast sex. I'm not looking for a wife.
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(01-14-2019, 08:49 PM)Hannon Wrote: These sluts are so pretentious. They take waaay too fucking long to put out and act like they are chaste virgins. It's a grind getting ONSs here and they are way too prudish and want you to marry them first.

Also noticing a ton of undercover stealthy hookers/semipro types that will slowly run up your tab if you let them by pretending to be normal girls. Girls here have very sharp game and are looking for their 'payout'. The conservative act is complete bs and many of them are stuck up  and cold.

As such I treat it like the Philippines or Thailand. I meet for 15 minutes near my place. Alcoholic drinks or beers. We walk to my place and I give it another 15 to 30 minutes comfort and escalation. If she doesn't put out I don't see her again. Saves me so much time. Incredibly annoying.

Thailand. Philippines. Indonesia. They are all better options for fast sex. I'm not looking for a wife.

Everyone knows Vietnam isn't the place for fun and adding to your notch count. Been said countless times, if you want fun and bangs go to Philippines, Thailand and Indonesia. If you want quality and serious relationships come to Vietnam. Not sure what you were expecting.
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thx for such a good info on vietnam thread
not so fast as phillipines but wanted to know relationships in vietnam 
assuming  ok to take 3 dates to get lay
how does it go after that if they would not let you date another girl or stalking ,i.e if you can get away with sex two or three girls 
or they doneed to know you exclusive 
howmuch time you can keep gf wihout exclusive or commitment ,if they move on to next 



guy ready to get married
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(01-14-2019, 08:49 PM)Hannon Wrote: These sluts are so pretentious. They take waaay too fucking long to put out and act like they are chaste virgins. It's a grind getting ONSs here and they are way too prudish and want you to marry them first.

Also noticing a ton of undercover stealthy hookers/semipro types that will slowly run up your tab if you let them by pretending to be normal girls. Girls here have very sharp game and are looking for their 'payout'. The conservative act is complete bs and many of them are stuck up  and cold.

As such I treat it like the Philippines or Thailand. I meet for 15 minutes near my place. Alcoholic drinks or beers. We walk to my place and I give it another 15 to 30 minutes comfort and escalation. If she doesn't put out I don't see her again. Saves me so much time. Incredibly annoying.

Thailand. Philippines. Indonesia. They are all better options for fast sex. I'm not looking for a wife.

Everyone knows Vietnam isn't the place for fun and adding to your notch count. Been said countless times, if you want fun and bangs go to Philippines, Thailand and Indonesia. If you want quality and serious relationships come to Vietnam. Not sure what you were expecting.
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Dash
if you looking on vietcupid or online or mostly offline as online girls have more attention wider dating market pool access 
any criteria you have for wife material like be in relationship for 1yr no issues or other timewise to get engaged,married
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(01-15-2019, 04:15 AM)Dash Wrote:
(01-14-2019, 08:49 PM)Hannon Wrote: These sluts are so pretentious. They take waaay too fucking long to put out and act like they are chaste virgins. It's a grind getting ONSs here and they are way too prudish and want you to marry them first.

Also noticing a ton of undercover stealthy hookers/semipro types that will slowly run up your tab if you let them by pretending to be normal girls. Girls here have very sharp game and are looking for their 'payout'. The conservative act is complete bs and many of them are stuck up  and cold.

As such I treat it like the Philippines or Thailand. I meet for 15 minutes near my place. Alcoholic drinks or beers. We walk to my place and I give it another 15 to 30 minutes comfort and escalation. If she doesn't put out I don't see her again. Saves me so much time. Incredibly annoying.

Thailand. Philippines. Indonesia. They are all better options for fast sex. I'm not looking for a wife.

Everyone knows Vietnam isn't the place for fun and adding to your notch count. Been said countless times, if you want fun and bangs go to Philippines, Thailand and Indonesia. If you want quality and serious relationships come to Vietnam. Not sure what you were expecting.

I keep reading reports of guys doing zero date bangs here but that hasn't been my experience. Incredibly slooow.
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Disagree with it being slow.

Been single for 2 days and smashed 5 chicks already. Not only were all same day lays 2 were literally invited straight to my place and 1 invited me to hers and smashed in less than 20mins. They were 6-6.5s. Bangable in other words. Saying that Iv sickened myself of it.

To many orgasms in too small a period of time. I enter into a mini depression after heavy cumming sessions. I actually get greater satisfaction when there’s a build up on a date or something. Also noticed I was checking tinder and badoo well too much and it was fucking my productivity.
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(02-02-2019, 12:13 PM)Rick91 Wrote: Disagree with it being slow.

Been single for 2 days and smashed 5 chicks already. Not only were all same day lays 2 were literally invited straight to my place and 1 invited me to hers and smashed in less than 20mins. They were 6-6.5s. Bangable in other words. Saying that Iv sickened myself of it.

To many orgasms in too small a period of time. I enter into a mini depression after heavy cumming sessions. I actually get greater satisfaction when there’s a build up on a date or something. Also noticed I was checking tinder and badoo well too much and it was fucking my productivity.

What district are you staying in? I'm outside the center.

Edit - I see already. D2. I wonder what I'm doing wrong. Im probably going at it way too slow and should probably go for the home invite. Really hate the coffee date bullshit.
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Slow isn’t always bad man. I actually have started going slow. Went to another chicks place last night she was pinay and we just got smashed on whiskey and talked. Then banged shit out of her when I woke up this morning.

As a man you need to generally direct the interaction. After some experience you come attuned to what you can get away in interaction. Iv got chicks to go to hotels with me or my place by saying we can just chill and cuddle a bit watching a movie.

Today Iv got an older milfy type chick who was uncomfortable when I was kissing her in public. Couldn’t close but I did quite want to bang her so kept her on standby and will go cinema with her later possibly and I will see if closing opportunity presents itself. She’s from like a month ago. Either way I’m in a good mood. Got plenty of shit going on. That’s quite key in this whole thing. I’d get mad down on myself and feel like I was a failure if I didn’t close beforehand. That’s a toxic mentality that developed in the west when not getting laid on a night out often meant pulling an all nighter at casino waiting 7 hours for a bus.

I actually don’t mind coffee dates but I turn things sexual pretty quickly. Sometimes that’s not possible and I advise to switch venues at least to a place where you don’t have people who can obviously hear what your saying.
You can get sexual indirectly by directing topics. For example relationships, differences between western girls and so forth. But enjoying interactions is key. I will often get hard just admiring there bodies just communicating with them.

This mindset comes from extreme abundance. I want to savor the moment with girls I genuinely want to fuck. A 6 becomes a lot more fuckable if you’ve been imagining what she looks like with her clothes on all night and gotten to know her beforehand.
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Been doing a roadtrip throughout Vietnam for the last week. Went to Bao Loc, Da Lat,Nha Trang and now Qui Nhon. Has given me a newfound appreciation for the country.

Gonna stay here for Tet and then hit up Da Nang. Hopefully catch the train back with my bike because fuck driving all the way back lol.
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So word to the wise, don't travel in Vietnam during Tet. I've been stuck in Da Nang an extra 2 days because all the flights, buses and trains were fullybooked. Finally got a bus but travel prices are easily 3-4x what they normally are. Also, bring your passport. I just had a photocopy for hotels,etc. but the flight I had originally booked wouldnt let me on the plane because no passport. Ridiculous you need that for domestic flights. Tried to bribe security but they stone faced me lol.

Other than that, Da Nang is a great city. Very livable. Nice beach. Clean, hardly any traffic. Nightlife is good too. I went to Golden Pine Pub and the bar next to it on a Thursday night during Tet so I was expecting it would be dead. Was still popping. Lots of talent. I got fucked up though on long islands and balloons. Woke up on a bench next to the river at 7:30 with a Viet faggot trying to grab my junk. Gotta keep your wits about you here.
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In Pnom Penh right now for a couple days for my visa run..

First impression - it's not the dump a lot of people make it out to be. Maybe a smaller version of Saigon with more French colonial charm and less traffic.

Average viet girl is definitely better looking BUT the good looking khmers are pretty sultry looking so I see why rick spent so much time here.

Complete lack of tourist activities though. Basically royal palace and couple markets. Meh, I'm not about that stuff anyways.

Gonna hit up Pontoon and a couple other bars tonight. Alright have my Khmer notch but wouldnt mind a couple more.
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So started the night at a couple bars along Russian market. Long After Dark was a cool spot with some strong cocktails but more of a place to chill..weren't too many girls there. I then went to another bar called "Hangout" or something which isnt even listed on google but its run by some American-Khmers. Got some massive gin tonics for $2. You can party very cheaply in this city.

I heard people saying good things about Club Love so I went there instead of Pontoon. I thought it'd be dead given it's a Monday but the place was packed. It's a national holiday here apparently so that probably explains it. Pulled a khmer girl solid 7 I'd say. It was weird how it went down. Was in there for a few hours and she was dancing with some other guy, and then just ran over to me and grabbed my dick.

Great body, perky tits.

I like the lifestyle/vibe here though. All the expats I've met are very laidback, and redpill. Could all be members of RVF. Some of them probably are lol.

Very different from Saigon where most of the English teachers are uptight, lefty twats.
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How's the weather both in PP and Saigon these days? I'm reading about a major heat wave and extreme UV radiation alerts for the coming days:

https://e.vnexpress.net/news/news/ultra-...82626.html

Arrived in Hanoi today..
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Both cities are hot and humid, maybe PP a bit moreso.

The sun is no joke out here. I got a pretty bad burn on my roadtrip, and I wore sunscreen the whole time.
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I just got out of Vietnam where I spent 2.5 weeks going from Ho Chi Minh up to Hanoi. I found the english proficiency very low, and the Vietnamese girls overall I was expecting to be a lot better looking (based on what I'd heard and read - here included) - I was expecting STUNNERS of girls, and just wasn't that impressed. I found Saigon / Ho Chi to be the best, and there the hostellers were actually my favorite fare. Due to the strict drug laws, my theory at least, it attracts a somewhat more refined crowd than the Thailand/Cambodia crowd.

I'd return to Saigon, that city is amazing. Food, coffee, transport, trees, beauty.. fantastic place. Hanoi was cool, and has it's own charm, wouldn't be my pick for a return though. It's really heavily revolving around cheap beer drinking, the traffic there is dense as hell and I found Saigon to offer more in terms of everything.

Cambodia I didn't like at all, you'll get a lot of younger white chicks out of high school venturing through because its cheap and they want to do "cool" stuff like visit the floating village, hit pub streets and go to koh rong / samloem and kampot. I found Cambodia offered nothing its other Southeast Asian counterparts didn't, but better. From a sight seeing standpoint, Siem Reap temples are incredible. As well the health food in that city and gyms also make it livable. You could live healthily and cheap there and definitely do some damage banging tourists if you set up for a month. Scootering there is easy, traffic is not intimidating.
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(02-22-2019, 07:37 AM)jaimen Wrote: I just got out of Vietnam where I spent 2.5 weeks going from Ho Chi Minh up to Hanoi. I found the english proficiency very low, and the Vietnamese girls overall I was expecting to be a lot better looking (based on what I'd heard and read - here included) - I was expecting STUNNERS of girls, and just wasn't that impressed. I found Saigon / Ho Chi to be the best, and there the hostellers were actually my favorite fare. Due to the strict drug laws, my theory at least, it attracts a somewhat more refined crowd than the Thailand/Cambodia crowd.

I'd return to Saigon, that city is amazing. Food, coffee, transport, trees, beauty.. fantastic place. Hanoi was cool, and has it's own charm, wouldn't be my pick for a return though. It's really heavily revolving around cheap beer drinking, the traffic there is dense as hell and I found Saigon to offer more in terms of everything.

Cambodia I didn't like at all, you'll get a lot of younger white chicks out of high school venturing through because its cheap and they want to do "cool" stuff like visit the floating village, hit pub streets and go to koh rong / samloem and kampot. I found Cambodia offered nothing its other Southeast Asian counterparts didn't, but better. From a sight seeing standpoint, Siem Reap temples are incredible. As well the health food in that city and gyms also make it livable. You could live healthily and cheap there and definitely do some damage banging tourists if you set up for a month. Scootering there is easy, traffic is not intimidating.

Have you traveled around SEA? I'd rate Viet girls hands down better looking on average than all other SEA countries. 

Only mega tier 1 global cities would be having anything close to any significant number of "stunners" walking around.
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I've been through Thailand, Bali, Cambodia, Tokyo and Phillipines. For me Japanese girls are the hottest, although it's rarer to find ones who are properly sexualized and not just "cutesy" - cartoonish. Takes a little time and work to turn into a girl into what you want if they aren't already.

Phillipines girls are exactly my type: tiny, slim, small round ass, nice faces. In Vietnam I found a lot of the Vietnamese chicks to be good, but things like teeth or skin quality were off. I was mainly in Ho Chi Minh, Hoi An, Hue and Hanoi. I was really expecting to be blown away, and I was quite let down.

If I go back to Vietnam, it'll be in Ho Chi / Saigon and Nha Trang. And it'd be next year.
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(02-25-2019, 04:40 AM)jaimen Wrote: I've been through Thailand, Bali, Cambodia, Tokyo and Phillipines. For me Japanese girls are the hottest, although it's rarer to find ones who are properly sexualized and not just "cutesy" - cartoonish. Takes a little time and work to turn into a girl into what you want if they aren't already.

Phillipines girls are exactly my type: tiny, slim, small round ass, nice faces. In Vietnam I found a lot of the Vietnamese chicks to be good, but things like teeth or skin quality were off. I was mainly in Ho Chi Minh, Hoi An, Hue and Hanoi. I was really expecting to be blown away, and I was quite let down.

If I go back to Vietnam, it'll be in Ho Chi / Saigon and Nha Trang. And it'd be next year.

Compared to Pinays, Vietnamese girls are slimmer and have better skin (girls go out of their way to limit sun exposure and eat healthier than pinays). Only point I can see is rounder ass. 

I am just confused as to why you thought you were going to be blown away in Vietnam. Not sure I have ever been blown away in any city in all of my travels. Ive found pretty much every country to have a limited number of 8-10's. Most countries there typical local usually falls in the 4-6 range. I'd rate a city or country very good if it has a lot of 7s. That still wouldn't really blow me away, but id be impressed.
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I always thought Vietnamese were the hottest in SEA. And in East Asia I thought Koreans were the hottest. That was my experience
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