So I've had a few experiences on women bailing on dates... I wanted to hear from you guys on when is it ever okay to give the woman a chance for a second date or would I just save my self time if I just moved on to women who wwere actually more interested in me. For example... I and this girl made plans last night for 8:30...at 8:25 she ttexts me saying could we reschedule to the weekend that she has an assignment she hasn't finished  ( we are in the same college). I simply tell her that she should just bring her assignment to my place..she agrees but 40 minutes later I still haven't heard from her. I give her a call and she says she is still coming but she decided to finish the assignment first.. 30/40 minutes more go by and she calls me and ask can we just reschedule that she really has to study.. By now I'm getting pissed but I tell her to do what she wants . My big thing is I don't like wasting my time, the girl isn't even that hot.  I'd rather just never text her again and move on the chasing the other 4 billion women in the world...but I want to know if I'm being impatient.  If not please is there a criteria to follow?

Alright boys,

This is my last doom and gloom thread for a while.

It's another one about aging lol.

I'm curious, are many bald guys out there still slaying? 

My hair is thinning. It was slow for a while but Im starting to get noticeably sparse coverage. I probably have about 2years before I'll need to shave it all off.

Here's my problem -- Im used to superficial girls. Early 20s college students and young professionals. I've always lived in college towns (even when I was abroad) and have rarely ventured out of that demographic.


You guys are the only ones who have enough experience to know where I'm coming from. Is being bald the kiss of death?

WWould love to hear from some bald guys who are still tagging high quality snatch despite llacking a mop.

The unfortunate truth is 99% of American Men are Beta Pussies.   I've been in the Game for many years.  Every year there are less and less alpha males.     Please help me, most of the guys that think they are alphas, have "a stick up their ass" and don't want to have fun.  They don't want to be your friend.  Lying about their great lives has become the norm.   What have you guys seen?   What can be done to reverse this trend?

Hi guys, I would love to discuss shit tests. My current problem is the girls' question "do you have a girl in every port?". Let's assume I have, but I don't want to tell the truth. But I don't want to lie either because it's disrespectful and moreover often leads to future trouble. So do you have some clever or fun ways do dodge that shit test?
My thoughts were something like "Yo no soy marinero, soy capitan" or "I avoid the sea because I'm afraid to get seasick".
But if she insists after such a playful answer like "haha but seriously, how many girls did you have during that vacation?"
Thanx in advance, every answer will be appreciated!

Lets talk about those times when you are trying to score a new girl, but for some reason you dont wanna go thru all the standard kino escalation. Instead, you take a rather quick shortcut and unexpectedly take out your willy in front of the chick, before seizing her butt or maybe even before kissing her.

Last time I did it to unblock a situation with an ugly chick. Sitting on the edge of my bed she wouldn't let me grope her boobs and I wasn't going to go for the kiss and the slow escalation with such a butterface. I laid on my bed and took my cock out, she wasnt impressed but didn't leave. When I got a fair boner I told her to give it a second look and then magic happened. She got surprised at the size (asians..) and gave it a few strokes then said she wanted to take a shower first.
10min later I was enjoying her big ass in doggy.

Its quite fun to do when you dont care about appearing like a weirdo and loosing the target ^^

Is it something that you guys also do on first lays?

We all have an idea of what a 5/10 is. So the question is would you smash it. 

Here you post your instant messages from the gawkers that stalk to your profile and you would think before you smash!!

So tell me would you smash this!!

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What have you discovered about yourself and what have you learned about women as your notch count has increased?

The short answer is no, IMO.  All relationships are temporary (even your mother and father will pass away).  Others should chime in with details as to why, or why not, or perhaps under what circumstances it does/does not.  Can you live with it, of course, but what you will sacrifice is your long term happiness, the fruits of your labors and who you are.

Monogamy, including serial monogamy, is a female centric strategy for their survival.  It is not in a man´s best interest genetically or his long term happiness.  Genetically men are designed to spread their seed and monogamy is a system which attempts to pressure/guilt men to fight their biology in favor of a female´s biological strategy.  Socially some will make the argument that it is the foundation of civilization and it keeps families together and forms the basis of our civilization.  We should bring such things to the discussion.

Thoughts about (contractual) marriage, having children in non-conventional ways, pair bonding and loneliness should also be entertained in this thread as they related to (non) monogamy. 

One possible exception for monogamy working could be low-testosterone men as they age.  Even this would probably require a man to sacrifice his long term happiness.  What are your thoughts, how do you implement these ideas and what are some of the consequences of these in today´s world?

The answers to these types of issues with women form the foundation for how we act and travel as men in today´s world.

I wanna start a little debate here.

I think real alphas dont settle down. They might look like they do but they still chase on the side. Or they do settle for a while then get bored and are back on the hunt.

If you look at alpha animals they dont get exclusive to one top notch female, they got the whole herd. There is exceptions like wolves, but they live in small packs. Humans dont, we live in cities nowaday.

Being an alpha male is not about having the best pussy in town. Its about having her, her sister, her cousin and half the gymnastic team

A man with a high notch count is often regarded as having better game than a man with a low notch count. Since most men don't have photographic/video evidence of their conquests to prove the quality of these notches, and in any case quality is highly subjective (I for one place no value on a girl's skin colour, whereas many seem to associate pale skin colour with 'quality'), the emphasis is almost always on quantity.

Do you think that a man's game can be quantified in this way? If so, what would the minimum notch counts be for the following:

Intermediate game, advanced game, veteran playboy, pre-LTR preparation (i.e. the minimum number of notches before you should consider a LTR)

OR: do you think a man's notch count says little or nothing about his game?