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  Best cities for Tinder
Posted by: Cheeky_Chappy - 09-12-2019, 10:55 AM - Forum: Travel Forum - Replies (5)

Hey guys im looking to put a list together of all the best cities in the world for tinder.
but also list a city if its not great so if your wondering if its great it will be listed here too.

I define a city great for tinder by a few things:

1) high volume of women to match with e.g 100-300+ a day
2) with effort messaging can get multiple dates a week or even multiple dates a day. 

il start the list alphabetically:

Bangkok, Thailand - not the highest quality girls
Beirut - not great because you average swipeing is 20 girls a day. had few dates but not consistent 
Bogota (Colombia) - high volume of matches
Izmir (turkey) not good 30-40 swipes a day but struggle to get numbers.
Jakarta - many matches
Manila (Cebu 2nd), 2 biggest areas in Philippines.
Mexico City, was the best city in Mexico for Tinder.
Rio - great for tinder. consistent flow of matches everyday, multiple dates most days of the week.
Santo Domingo, by far the best in DR.
St Petersburg (Russia) - great for tinder. consistent volume of matches. regular dates most days.
Taiwan - lots of matches but bad date conversions

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  Anyone live in Japan or go there often?
Posted by: DNiceNSmooth - 09-05-2019, 11:55 AM - Forum: Travel Forum - Replies (14)

I'm heading there in a couple of weeks and had I few questions I was hoping to talk through with someone.

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  Medellin house 6 months project
Posted by: self-amused - 09-05-2019, 08:43 AM - Forum: Travel Forum - Replies (19)

Hey guys, 

Looking for 1-2 cool guy to rent a house in Medellin for 6 months (my max visa) from October on. 

Ideally, you also have a business or job you do, into fitness and have a positive vibe. 

I plan to do a lot of tinder and dg with occasional night game besides working and some fun stuff on the weekends.

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  Telling a woman you want her influence, in regards to attention seekers?
Posted by: blackfriar - 09-03-2019, 08:30 PM - Forum: Game Forum - Replies (2)

Anyone try this? Especially with foreign women? I never tried this before, until now. I am finding it works on talking shit with late 20s-early 30s.

I am 40 yo, by the way.

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  Gaming women who know little English
Posted by: PaulHaley - 09-02-2019, 06:33 AM - Forum: Game Forum - Replies (12)

How do you guys open in places where the women know little English and you don't know the language?  I'm in a Russian speaking country and haven't been opening much other than online game because the English is so low.  Any ideas?

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  The Rep System.
Posted by: JackinX - 08-27-2019, 10:07 AM - Forum: Everything Else - Replies (20)

Reps should be given for meetups, not for posts.

Repping posts is what likes/upvotes are for.

Why am I bringing this up? So we don't get high repped internet heroes who never do anything in the real world.


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  Repairing Strained Family Relationships
Posted by: Crazy Horse - 08-27-2019, 02:47 AM - Forum: Lifestyle Forum - Replies (5)

Over the past decade I’ve blazed my own trail and in the process became estranged from my family. I never felt like I had a place in my parents home or that they had much interest in my well being when i was growing up, so at 18 I basically shipped out and haven’t spoken to many family members more than a handful of times in the past decade.

This is something that weighs heavy in my mind and heart. My grandma is ill so i’m flying across the US to see her and my parents at the end of this week. I’ll be in my hometown for six days before traveling south to see another relative for a few days, then i’ll fly back to the west coast.

My goal for this trip is to forgive the family members that i’ve resented for so long, and to seek their forgiveness for me being so distant. I want to clear the air and start fresh. It’s important to me that I do this before I jet off for long term travel around the world within the next 7-12 months.

I’m wondering if anyone else here can relate to the tendency to withdraw from close family relations. How do you keep in touch while you’re traveling? Do you find yourself going months or years without talking to your parents/siblings/ extended family?

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  Online Game in Eastern Europe
Posted by: on_the_go - 08-26-2019, 07:30 PM - Forum: Travel Forum - Replies (8)

Im begining to put my mind to an Eastern Europian trip once this stint of work is over. I'm not a complete stranger to Eastern Europe, having been to Poland, Romania, Ukraine and Russia, but Ive never gamed there. In fact, I've not even got myself an Eastern European flag! My aim is to change that.

A bit of context - I'm British, 30 years, white, tall, workout but not ripped. Definitely not a model. Got myself 65 notches and 16 flags to date, so not a complete novice but no international playboy.

My main strength in online game. Having read the threads on Eastern European countries here it seems online is tougher than say SEA or Latin America, perhaps because white guys stand out less? Anyway, if online game is your strength where in Eastern Europe is best to get that flag?

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  Ideal Age Range for Visiting Certain Destinations
Posted by: Gwapito - 08-22-2019, 05:23 AM - Forum: Travel Forum - Replies (6)

Hoping to create a bit of discussion about what you guys believe the ideal age range is for a guy traveling to different cities/countries/regions. These should just be ideal ages, not hard rules. 

Let's take Southeast Asia for example - party islands such as Koh Phi Phi, Koh Phangan, Gili Trawangan and even certain parts of Bali are ideal if you are under 25, whereas a city like Manila are probably more suited to an older crowd as the age difference doesn't matter as much. 

Likewise in Europe a 40-year-old baller is going to have a lot more success in a city like Kiev than he would in a place like Magaluf or Zante.

Obviously there will be people that say age doesn't matter but there are definite advantages to being a young guy or an older guy in different parts of the world. 

So with that in mind, what are your ideal age ranges to visit different parts of the world?

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  Reflection: Abundance is a trap
Posted by: JSN - 08-21-2019, 08:14 PM - Forum: Game Forum - Replies (19)

Like sugar. A sweet poison that is slowly killing us. We're all addicted to it and we don't even know it.

When that 6, that is infatuated with you because you took her virginity, treats you like a god, you won't appreciate it. How can you? She's just a 6. There's more of them around the corner...and 7s, 8s and 9s. It doesn't matter how well she treats you, how smart she is, how feminine, how warm, how well you click...you can't see it and you don't care. There's always more, always the next hit of a new notch, the dopamine fix of seduction and conquest. New, hotter, younger. ...Better? Not better. The next fix of your addiction. Abundance.

"There is no "one". There are some good ones and there are a lot of bad ones.

But there are some rare ones. This is the top end of your checklist optimization. 
You don't get a shot at this every weekend at the club.
And it's not the fitness model you're thinking about.

In a finite lifespan, abundance is not practical. 

If you're chasing the high, the time investment is minimal. In and out. How long until the next fix? Too long? NEXT
Prolonged seduction? Achieved. NEXT

Blinded by pursuit of the high, the illusion of achievement, you miss reality. It's not your fault you didn't see it, it's the repetition, the training, the hundreds of hours spent perfecting your craft, the constant adding and subtracting of plates...it's now second nature, like breathing.

Pleasure and happiness are not the same thing.

There's a big difference between being 27 and being with a 20 year old and being 35 with a 20 year old. It's a generational gap that can't simply be filled by temporary lust. 

"Show me a hot chick and I'll show you a guy whos tired of banging her." 

Every time a woman sleeps with a new man she loses a piece of her soul. Women associate sex with emotion. She is forever changed from that moment on for every relationship she will ever have going forward. Sleep with enough men and she turns into a soulless husk with that 1000 cock stare in her eyes. Empty, cold, lacking of empathy, completely devoid of all innocent girlish charm she once had...jumping from one 6 month fling to a rebound to the next 6 month fling, to the next rebound....round and round it goes until she's spent, sapped of her youth, beauty and femininity. The career and the state becomes the replacement. An outlet to fill the hole of the longing to be needed. The self rationalization that this is all that is left. Now they have sex like men. If they can get it. Abundance.

Men too lose something along the way...not every time they sleep with a new partner, but every time they allow themselves to love. Every time "one" slips through the cracks, slips through the armor, the chinks and pierces the true sacrifice ready, fall on your sword, romantic. Until you've lost enough that you swallow the bitter red pill and the cycle continues. Perfect your craft, plow em good. Focus on you, improve thy self and reap the rewards, whatever they may be. 

At the end of the day, there's not much regret letting go of the 10 with a mediocre personality but that 5 who treated you like a god will forever remain a part of you. You were more than just a prize, you were the world she has built in her imagination come true. And she showed it. Did you notice it? Then or now?

Now try downgrading from a girl who's universe is you to one who see's you as a means to add to her own.

The value proposition.

They all look like 5s in the end.  

This isn't some purple pill bullshit. I'm not not advocating marrying single moms. All women really are like that. The question is: the few and far between that are positioned on the lower end of the hypergamous merry go round, ones that fit your personal beliefs and personality type, will you be able to identify them in time? Or will they be discarded bruised and broken?

There are no ideals. There is no perfection. What do you sacrifice? Virginity vs looks? Personality vs experience? The feels vs practicality?
Do you know? And if you do, would you be able to recognize it, amidst the revolving door?

What's the answer? That's for you to figure out. Have a plan. Stop. Think. Reflect. Execute.

Too easy to return to the familiar. The club, the street, the pursuit of the same day bang. The endless carousel. The dopamine withdrawal. Until the poison has eaten away your spirit and you're sick with diabetes from the sweet sugar you've been injecting into your veins for so long. At least it tastes good...right?

Abundance is trap.

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