7 Myths about Russian girls: A guest post by David Clavell

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7 Myths about Russian girls

A guest post by David Clavell

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One of Russia’s greatest natural resources has to be its abundance of beautiful women. Forget oil, gas and diamonds; it’s (usually blonde) Russian girls that men (and sometimes women) have tried to obtain. In the early years after the collapse of the Soviet Union, huge numbers of them flooded Moscow, St. Petersburg and every other big city in the newly created Russian Federation in search of work, opportunity, and in many cases, a sponsor who would pay for their brand new Gucci bags and Chanel perfume.

Because so many of these girls were young, destitute and, most importantly, beautiful, it has led to a myths about their general nature. I’m here to lay these myths to rest and tell you the truth about Russian girls. I speak as a man who regularly dates these young Slavic beauties and speaks their language fluently. I’m not here to lie to you or present some false picture of the world to sell you some nonsense dating service. Here are the no-holds barred truths about Russian girls. I’ve feel it’s necessary to clear up the misunderstandings that still exist in the dark corners of the world wide web. The following is based on years of talking with, dating and banging Russian girls (one word of note: most of my bangs are from non-English speaking girls). They are based on provincial Russian girls, i.e. not Muscovites.


1. Russian girls love foreigners

Here’s a way to tell if someone has been with a Russian girl: if they tell you that Russian girls love foreigners, they’re lying. The majority of Russian girls don’t care about foreigners. We’re a ubiquitous bunch now, and even the girls who’ve never seen a westerner in their life have seen plenty on TV and are more well versed in a western lifestyle than you are. That’s not to say you won’t find exceptions; there always are. Some may have an interest in your country’s culture while others may in fact love you for your passport. These girls, however, constitute a minority. If you think you can come here and pull a new girl every day based solely on that blue or red book of yours, you’re in for a disappointment.


2. Game isn’t necessary

This has to be the biggest load of nonsense I’ve ever read. Some people seem to think that such skills are not necessary here, that all a man has to do is show up and the girls will start falling onto his lap (because he’s a foreigner of course). That used to be true, actually. In the 1990s when every girl was desperate leave Russia behind like rats deserting a sinking ship. Times have changed though and now it takes time and skill to crack the mysterious code of the average Russian girl. As you’ll see in myth #4, Russian girls play games if you don’t have the skills to deal with these things, you’ll very quickly find yourself spending lots of nights alone in your hotel or apartment wondering what went wrong. You have to know what to say, when and how. Don’t worry; I’ll let you in on the big secret. Most girls here like masculine men. It’s the main reason why guys from the Caucasus manage to get with scores of Russian women despite often being physically repulsive.


3. They’re desperate to emigrate

This is actually a half truth, since there are still a lot of Russian girls who want to emigrate, mostly to Spain, Italy or any country where they don’t have to put on 2 or 3 layers of clothing in the winter. The key word here is “many” which doesn’t mean all. Very, and I mean very, few of the girls I’ve dated have expressed any interest in living in my home state of Florida, a state with a large Russian expat community where the beach is always no more than an hour’s drive away. Most Russian girls want to stay in their home country; many are reluctant to leave behind their home city and try to strike it rich in Moscow or St. Petersburg. Russia’s rich now, friends and that means that if you happen to find your own young, high-cheekboned beauty, she’ll likely want you to stay in Russia and settle down. That’s not to say you can’t convince them to return with a little prodding; just that it might be more difficult than you imagine.


4. Russian girls don’t play games

Fact: Russian girls DO play games, especially the young ones. Flaking is by no means unheard of here, though it is rarer than what you might encounter in the west. I can’t count the number of times my foreign colleagues and I have gotten the number of a cute young girl only to have our texts and phone calls go unanswered. Girls here will often ask you what your plans are in life and try to psychoanalyze you and your answers, just like back home. Like flaking, this isn’t as widespread and is mostly confined to girls under 25 but it’s a very real phenomenon. Plenty of them will talk to you, flirt with you, dance with you and then turn their head when you go in for the kiss.


5. Russian girls are very feminine

This one is a bit more complicated. Russian girls actually are very feminine; probably the most feminine in the world. For now. Those are the key words. Russia is westernizing and laziness combined with large numbers of McDonald’s and a small but ever increasing number of hipsters means that the number of girls wearing micro mini-skirts and high heels is going down every year. On an average summer day, anywhere between 40-60 percent (depending on the city) of girls are wearing a dress. The rest stick to jeans and often sneakers. 10 years ago it was closer to 80-90 percent in skirts. In another 10 years…well, I’m not going to speculate. Don’t worry, though friends; there are still plenty of good looking feminine beauties to be had. I manage to score with them regularly.


6. Russian girls sleep around

Here we come to the crux of it. This myth has some basis in reality. Russia experienced its own version of the Summer of Love from the early 90s till 2005 or so. During these golden years, it was easy (or at least not too difficult) to have fun and sleep around with any number of bombshell beauties. That ship has long since sailed. These days most Russian girls won’t bang until the 3rd date (a lot of them don’t even want to kiss on the 1st date!). Like any rule, there are exceptions. Search hard enough and you mind one who doesn’t take things like sex and relationships too seriously, especially if they happen to be on vacation. As a rule, though, such girls rarely speak English.


7. Night game is king

Another myth based on an earlier time. Anyone who’s read news about Russia in the 1990s has likely heard tales of open sex and massive all night orgies at

The sad truth is that if night game is your bread and butter, you’re better off going to another country. The hook up culture (at least when it comes to night clubs) is dead and has been for a while. It’s so bad now that I don’t even bother go out to clubs to find girls.


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David Clavell knows Russia very well and if you want to read more articles by him, check out www.davidclavell.com



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  • JBPoqueliche

    Good article. As someone that had most of my notches coming from the former USSR, I could not agree more. Game is definitely needed and needs to really be adapted to the Russian culture, it can only be developped by trying and trying again.
    In the big cities, If you don’t have the means, don’t even try playing the high roller. The jungle is huge and the local predators are much bigger and more dangerous than you are.
    PS. David, the display of your site looks good. Which web domain did you go for, if that is not a secret?

    • David Clavell

      Thanks. I’m new to web design so I’m happy you liked it. I’m using Redwood theme by Solo Pine Designs.

    • JBPoqueliche

      Thanks for the tip. Keep it up

  • Bahlza Dragon

    The closest I ever came to truly falling in love was with a Ukrainian girl. God, she was smart, beautiful and had a good character. I royally fucked up, but I can’t say one bad thing about her that would be true. I know only on girl from the FSU does not a rule make, but this article reminded me of my foolishness.

    • you didn’t fuck up unless you passed on Claudia Schiffer in her prime. Luckily, she is already kinda old so it’s not possible to fuck up!

    • Ly

      Please stop spreading disease.

    • Bahlza Dragon

      I’m not sure what the cheap shot was about, asswipe, but just because you stick your tongue in whatever diseased hole you can find doesn’t mean I share your contamination.

    • Ly

      You and your filthy Edomite p****! I’m 101 % sure that you’re infected. If I could only tell these gullible girls and women to close their legs! Banging and bedding hundreds of girls only makes you a low quality man.

    • Bahlza Dragon

      Wow, you are totally unbalanced, unbalanced in a way that only a frustrated nerd who can’t get laid could possibly be. You beat your dick to pictures of women (I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that they’re actually adults) you can never get and fly into a jealous rage whenever you hear about someone else getting laid, telling yourself that they couldn’t possibly as worthy as you–despite the fact you’ve never gotten a (human female) piece of ass. I feel so sorry for you.

    • Ly

      You’re filthy Edomite who doesn’t care about thousand of children who have suffered from are still suffering because of people like you and women who are gullible enough to open their legs for people like you. I’m a female for your information.

    • Bahlza Dragon

      “Suffering because of people like [me]”? Are you insane? You know nothing about me. What “suffering” have I caused? Get back on your meds and feed your 12 cats.

    • Ly

      The fact that you’re f****** around you’re spreading your Edomite disease. Do you even have a conscience? Knock knock! Filthy.

    • Ly

      I feel sorry for your filthy Edomite p**** bedding filthy gullible women.

    • Bahlza Dragon

      More like you’d like to ride my meat rocket. I don’t blame you; I’m pretty skilled at slinging my dick. However, you’d never get any; I don’t bed crazy bitches.

  • Cool Any advice on When is the best time to travel to moscow or st petersburg?

    • David Clavell

      Both cities will give you different experiences in terms of the girls. I could probably write another article based on your question but I’ll try to be brief. I would recommend spring for both cities since it is the season of love in Russia and people tend to be more energetic and cheerful around this time. Also, there are beautiful parks to take walks in and no one is on vacation. In the summer there are a lot of tourists (especially in St. Pete) so I don’t recommend you visit during this time.

    • Lost In Translation

      You seem to have a handle on the season there. What I’d like to learn is where/when do Russian and Ukrainian girls vacation? I’d think I’d rather game them when they’re already in the mindset to have fun and be a little loose with a stranger while vacationing than having to be cautious in their own back yard.

  • I have a question David. I’m currently studying a lot of russian and would like to pick a russian city for the future. i would like a place a bit off the map where i have high exotic value, but is still not too small. Any advice?

    • David Clavell

      I would definitely stick to Central or Eastern Russia. There are lots of towns in the area where there are few foreigners. Try to choose one that has around a million or less but make sure to keep out of major cities like Vladivostok or Novosibirsk (and check to make sure that there are actually Russians in the city since plenty of places in the country have few Russians). Keep in mind that there will be very little to do in the cities so bring plenty of things to entertain yourself 🙂

    • Thanks for this nugget! just screenshotted that bitch. I plan to go back to Asia after EE and stopping in Russia seems like a good idea. Although I’m starting to smell curry in the air from my hunger for Indian pussy.

    • Ly

      Filthy Edomite! Please stop spreading disease!

    • can’t knock the hustle

    • Ly

      Yes, you can’t face the truth that you and your Edomite friends share the same filthy habit of “swooping the world”.

    • I scoop it’s a little different process involves more of cupping the girl’s butt while lifting

    • Ly

      If you’re cupping filthy gullible girl’s butt around the world it’s a sickening habit. It’s filthy.

    • splooge

      youll be disapointed about india singledudetravel an naughtynomad confirms what nris say.
      for indian go to uk canada usa australia

    • Yeah that is some good info, but I like tasting the curry straight outta the pot. I think the key is having an Indian guy friend as an in which I have. I’ve never read info on those sites you suggested. Good luck getting sploogy on dem hoes.

    • splooge

      lol thanx.
      well on rooshv they say india is mo good but if u must. goa is tge place to be since its the party place indians isrealis n russians go.
      social circle game is there which is pretty liberal for them. so u got an in as long as your buddy is those rich westernized upper class with his circle.
      ever other method of game sux there. having a friend thats well connected is the only way…let us know the result success or fail.

      my source is these 3 sires am having friends from there.
      but even they say the same ..western born indians are waaaay hotter. easy to tell the fobs apart here.

    • Sounds like you have some good intel on India. I’d be interested in learning more from you if you have some time. Goa sounds like a good idea. India is a place I wouldn’t expect to run through pussy, but one lay to capture the flag is an accomplishment I like the thought of. My buddy there seems like a quality plug, I’m hoping he can give me some style tips ha. For me traveling started out all about pussy, but has become much more than that.

    • Thanks for the advice David 😉

    • Ly

      Another filthy Edomite! Please stop spreading disease!

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Why do you say to avoid the major cities, such as Novosibirsk and Vladivostok?

    • Ly

      You are disgusting and a real predator. You’re also spreading disease around the world. Having sex with hundreds or thousands of girls or prostitutes doesn’t only proves you’re sick man. Please get some help.

  • So basically Russian girls are hard to bang sounds like a challenge I’m willing to undertake. I’ll be in EE soon and always wanted to fuck a Russian. She don’t even need to be a 7. I almost banged a Russian in the DR, but she had a lazy eye and talked way too much. I couldn’t get past that shit. It was a predicament because she was blonde with a decent body.

    • Ly

      You and your disgusting Edomite friends who share the same “sickening habit” should stop. “Swooping the world” only proves that you’re one of those low quality men f****** low quality women. Filthy.

    • Thanks my whole day is ruined

    • Ly

      I didn’t mean to ruin your day. It’s the truth that you have developed a filthy habit of f****** around and with different women. It doesn’t make you a real man It’s extremely filthy.

    • I host full dissertations on my site, feel free to come on by

    • Ly

      I don’t support filthy people with filthy behavior.

  • Peter

    You forgot to mention that Russian girls are extremely materialistic. Even with Russian guys they expect them to spend everything they have on them. The guy may only have $50 to last the rest of the month, but she expects it to be spent on her for the date, irregardless that he won’t eat the rest of the month.

    So if you want a Russian girl for a wife, or girlfriend, be aware of this. She will doubt your manhood if you refuse to indulge her like Russian guys.

    Btw, the girl’s pic above is a Russian prostitute that I saw a lot of a few years back on various sites.

    Nevertheless, their big weakness is that they need money for rent, food, college, whatever. So if you are willing to invest a little in them with sex understood they’ll deliver. And deliver well. Russian girls want the guy to be satisfied, and love to suck dick.

    So while game may take time and money, these girls (and I’m talking about good girls, not whores) will take a lover – the term is sex one-two times – when she needs the funds. And with the ruble at an all time low, this runs about $100 for 2 hours at your place.

    I’ve been coming to Russia for over 10 years and believe me the girls are amenable – 7-10s -especially when their rent is due, or whatever needs funds, even though you wouldn’t get to first base trying to pick them up because – “they aren’t a whore” and “don’t sleep with guys outside a relationship”. As noted, these are career girls, college students, etc.

    Best place to find them is mamba.ru but most won’t respond to English so use google translate and learn some Russian phraseology. Also, if you aren’t White you will find pickings slim overall, as many Russian girls will say no caucasians (these are Georgians, Armenians, etc. not Whites), or only European or Slavic appearance.

  • The myths you have explained about Russian women are right, some of the widely spread myths are also ruining the image of an Russian woman, all these myths need to be busted so that people can understand the true nature and beauty of these girls. I have come across an another write-up: http://ezinearticles.com/?Bust-These-Myths-About-Ukrainian-Women-and-Girls&id=9473461, this article is also working as a myths buster for Russian and Ukrainian women. There is a need of more such type of articles that cans how the true nature of Ukrainian women.