The Cheating Thai Wife

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Asian Persuasion

Back when I was working at home I went to see my friend who lives in a nearby town. We meet at the station and there’s a little Christmas market so we decide to have a drink there. Across the street I see two Asian girls by themselves;  I approach them an try to guess which country they are from.

I get it right at the first try: Thailand.

Since I spent a decent amount of time in Thailand, I quickly build rapport with them. I introduce them to my friend and the four of us go to a bar to have a drink.

I try to find out a bit about their situation and what they are doing in Europe. My girl says she’s living here and that her friend is visiting her, but she’s very evasive about her own situation. She implies something along the line of “it’s not relevant today“.

Hmm, that’s clear enough.

Thai girls are generally not so keen on PDA, but my girl doesn’t bother. I escalate kino and before the first drink is finished, I’m kissing with her.


One More Drink

I feel my girl is DTF, so after the drink I propose we have one more drink at my friend’s place. They immediately agree. We buy some beers and wine at the night shop and head back to my friend’s apartment.

We start drinking, talk and play music. My girl is getting sexual but my friend is having some trouble with his girl. She’s very shy and isn’t responding to his moves. For a moment, it looks like we might still lose this set but he remains cool yet persistent.

We’re getting a slight buzz and the girls definitely. To isolate, I tell my girl I’m going to give her a “tour of the house”, grab her arm and lead her straight to the guest room.

I close the door behind us. She barely gives some token resistance as I take off her clothes. She has a sexy body and has some tattoos. Zero LMR. After banging her I’m chilling a bit with her and we joke around, to give my friend some private time with his girl.

When I come back, I’m relieved it worked out with his girl too. The moment I isolated his girl opened up and he got the lay as well. He later tells me she went from shy to ting tong (Thai for crazy).

We exchange numbers and bring them back to the station because they had to go home. I don’t ask questions.


A few weeks later I get a message from her. She says she’s “free” and asks if she can come visit me and spend the night.

I pick her up at the station and we go straight to my place. Before the door is locked she’s already all over me. She’s a lot of fun, doing Asian dances etc. Very sexy.

This time I’m not drunk and between sex I try to find out some more about her situation. My suspicions are confirmed.  She explains me her setup.

It turns out she is married to a guy from my country and she was living with him. I don’t know the exact legal workings, but she was about literally waiting out the days until she’d get a green card.

I don’t know much about this guy, but it seemed to me she could barely stand him. Still, he would give her an allowance and extra money to go shopping. She was actually on a shopping trip when I met her with her friend.

She explained me how she would send the money to her father back in Thailand.

Apparently her father would then pressure her to get more money and would be angry at her if she didn’t.

The father would then spend the money to be a big shot in his tiny Thai village, buying goats and beers for his friends and what not. The fact that his daughter married a foreigner, it gave him local status.


It was pretty real hearing about these type of stories. Cheating spouses are international but these cultural differences add another layer on it. The reality is often not as romantic as some guys might have hoped for.

When I was living in South East Asia, I had already experienced how some these girls treat their “long distance” relationships; and this time I saw how these types of relationships play out eventually.

A warned man counts for two.

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I’m TravelHardcore, but people simply call me THC, although I don’t smoke. I speak several languages and suffer from insomnia. I left a well paying job, stuck in a miserable office to go out and see the world. I simply live for adventure. Cheers.

  • Jae Kim

    Wow. Just wow.

  • Eddie Travels

    Man, here’s a guy who did everything she dreamed of.. love, money and another country and in the end he still got played. Damn, what’s a good guy to do?

    • Don’t be the naive blue pill good guy; it’s brutal Eddie. Giving a woman everything she (says she) wants does not guarantee her loyalty. More likely it will invoke the opposite. A woman’s love comes from attraction, that’s why you learn about game, the information is out there.

    • So tru

    • Da Mick

      Exactly , embrace the game

    • DerWeltenbummler!

      Work hard to achieve his dreams/goals and don’t put women on pedestals!

    • Honestly he needs to put his emotions aside. And think of the logical aspects of it. If she has no green card then what does he expect…

  • jazz

    Haha the goat made me laugh. Good story

  • One of the many rules of marrying a foreigner, is you gotta make sure they have a green card lol.

  • splooge

    dude the dad sounds like hes pimping his daughter for money. To take a point from Tim Sharky about thais, God isnt Buddha its money, so very dishonorable.

    but that aside, this is a BIG reason not trust girls from 3rd or 2nd world countries. Known guys that screwed over even arranged marriage settings from india to middle east and other island nations. Like I remember a short bit of an iranian man getting screwed over on a documentary but the focus was on women getting screwed sadly. And at my dads work alot of his coworkers got divorced raped by their filipina wives. Oh and 1 buddy’s uncle got an ugly ukranian wife wanting her to be tradional but she didnt want to so thats on him.
    These women look at western especially white men as a parachute, freedom and money. And of course easy to con.

    Honestly if you want a foreign bride, pick from a 1st world country and pick outside the major citties, small town girls. Go to japan taiwan korea singapore argentina chile, pick a nation where the girl DOESNT have a need to leave.
    Hypergamy really focus on money and status, man is 2nd

    • I’m sure it exists but I don’t think she was forced into anything. She could have made other choices as well. She also enjoys her lifestyle and living here. The majority of same-culture marriages also fail, so it could be a lot of things; though the dad/family probably didn’t make it easier.

    • Da Mick

      You may be right Splooge but as THC said ,it happens in same culture relations too. Boils down to what your own motives are . Are you looking to have fun and smash as many as you care to OR you’re looking for a wifey. There are myriad ways to find out her intentions. Whether she’s Colombian, Pinay or Russian does not matter . I usually play dumb happy go lucky guy and if they’re trying to run game on me I let it ride until I don’t want that particular flavor anymore and just bounce. Sometimes I will even act mad or hurt but meanwhile she was the one getting played all along .. I got the milk without having to buy the cow….happy hunting

  • Brianmark

    I’ve seen this story played out so many times from both sides of the world. When living in SEA I met many sponsored girls, who had men who seldom came to visit, but just knew their girls were celibate when they were away working. Then back in the West, I’ve met many divorced SEA girls. I know two Pinays who only stayed with their men for the 2 years that allowed them to remain in the country. The Russian ones are probably even worse about getting green cards then leaving their men. It is a very sad state of affairs for Western men that love and marry these girls.

    • It’s really sad indeed, but the information is out there. Men can educate themselves and learn to avoid stepping in these traps.