7 Reasons Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating, but Women Shouldn’t

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7 Reasons Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating, but Women Shouldn’t

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Now, before I go any further, I want to make one thing clear. If you are in a committed relationship, even as a man, you have basically given your word to be with one woman. You have given your word and you should not cheat. However, human beings are not perfect and, if you do end up messing up and cheating on your girlfriend, you should be forgiven MUCH easier than if she were to sleep with another guy.  Women will be screaming “sexist!”, but it’s not sexist this is just common sense and science. I want men and women to clearly understand why men should be forgiven for cheating before women. So, here you are, 7 reasons why men should be forgiven for cheating, but women shouldn’t.

 

1. Sperm is cheaper than eggs

My first reason goes back to evolutionary science. First, understand that women create one egg nearly every month compared to men who create millions of sperm cells every day. Then, to multiply this affect ten fold, understand that once an egg is fertilized, it remains growing in the woman’s body for 9 months. Then, the woman will most likely end up raising the kid for the next 18+ years of her life.

This is why women are much more selective with whom they sleep with. It is a woman’s biological job to make sure that the man who fucks with the next 18 years of her life has the highest possible value that she could possibly obtain.

Now, if you look at men, who have MUCH less biological responsibility. It makes sense why their brains are wired to think about pussy all the time and chase after it all the time. It doesn’t matter if the girl they sleep with is high value, because he will just make another couple million sperm cells the next day.

For an example of this, talk to a sexually active gay guy in a big city. You shouldn’t be suprized to hear that his number of sexual partners is in the quadruple digits! Check out this quote from a study about gay men’s sexual habits:

28% of homosexual men had more than 1000 partners – Link

That’s right, according to this study:

“83% of the homosexual men surveyed estimated they had had sex with 50 or more partners in their lifetime, 43% estimated they had sex with 500 or more partners; 28% with 1,000 or more partners.”

That is what happens when sex can be obtained easily by men, we really can’t help but go for it. In the world of straight men, you can’t just go talk to any girl you want and have a very good chance of sleeping with them because, even if they are attracted to you, sleeping with you could mean the end of their freedom for the next 18 years of their lives and the end of their youth. So they make obtaining sex much more difficult as they make sure you are a suitable sperm donor, all this subconsciously of course.

This is what causes men to have difficulty in monogamous relationships and this my first reason why women should be a bit more understanding if their boyfriend cheats on them. Backed by science.

 

2. Guys don’t get pregnant, girls get pregnant

I have previously mentioned pregnancy affecting women, much more than men, but my next reason has everything to do with this principal. If a girl cheats on her boyfriend, then get’s pregnant by that guy, no man with any self respect would ever accept raising the child of the man whom his girlfriend was fucking behind his back. Relationship over.

If a guy cheats on his girlfriend and gets that girl pregnant, the affect is not nearly is strong. If he is still in love with his girlfriend, it would be very dumb to try to start a relationship with the baby mama just because she is pregnant. It would, of course, lead to unhappy lives for the guy, the baby mama and the baby. If a guy messes up he may end up helping to financially support the kid and being a father figure to. In comparison to the necessity of having a mom (breast feeding and nurturing), the couple’s life would be affected much less by the guy getting a girl pregnant than the other way around.

 

3. Guys naturally desire multiple women

One thing that is very obvious is that it is much harder for men to have a monogamous relationship than it is for women. This was obvious to me in my church growing up (I grew up Mormon), where guys would leave the church much more often with women because abstaining from sex so difficult.

Guys crave variety. They have this unending amount of sperm cells and their biology is telling them not to let them go to waste. Women’s eggs, on the other hand, are telling the women to find the perfect guy to make the perfect child and help the child survive. Those are two VERY different messages being sent. It also goes to suggest that women will cheat mostly with guys they find more attractive than their current partner.

Men, on the other hand, can cheat with girls who they find less attractive than their partner. This is because the feeling of sleeping with a new girl is one of the most addicting feelings on the planet.

 

The Feeling of sleeping with a new girl by me:

The feeling of sleeping with a new girl is one of the most magical feelings on the planet. The whole process is a rush. You go and see a beautiful girl, you may imagine what she looks like undressed and you begin to start desiring her. She is the same temptation that a Christmas present is to a small child. Anything could be underneath the wrapping. 

When you are with this new girl, and you are carried by your hormones, everything else beyond sex with her loses it’s importance. Every moment you feel good and excited. Desire clouds your mind and your focus is geared only towards your goal of sleeping with this girl. 

Once you finally sleep with this girl, the satisfaction is anywhere from so-so, to amazing. However, the process of desire is always the same and it’s very strong. It’s like gambling because sometimes it turns out to be amazing sex and you hope you can find that again or maybe… better. 

The problem with us as men, is that when you sleep with that girl a second time, a huge percentage of that excitement is gone. The only way to get it back is to sleep with a new girl.

 

Women, don’t get this special feeling from sleeping with a new guy, they don’t feel this constant pull. Women don’t understand that men constantly have this temptation all around them.

If you look at married couples who are “in love” you will also notice that the man will look at pornography. This has become accepted in our society, but basically he is mentally cheating on his wife. The reason it’s accepted is because it is just too much to ask that a man only be sexually stimulated by one girl for such a long period of time. His body craves as many new girls as he could possibly have a day. Most guys who masturbate don’t just pick one girl a session to masturbate to, they pick multiple and sometimes hundreds.

So, yes a man’s desire to sleep with new partners is much stronger than a woman’s and this is another reason they should be more easily forgiven for cheating.

 

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4. Guys have a MUCH higher sex drive

It’s just quite obvious to people with common sense that men, on average, have a much higher sex drive. There are nymphos out there who’s desire for cock is unfathomable, but this is a very small percentage of women. And, if you are dumb enough to start a relationship with a nympho, you should have known going in that the chances of her cheating on you are in the 99% range. But the 2% of nymphos aside, men have a MUCH higher sex drive than women.

Don’t believe me? Let’s ask science.

After months of reading and compiling results, the answer was clear. There is a substantial difference, and men have a much stronger sex drive than women. – Link here.

Check out that link and read that “men have a much stronger sex drive than women.” One thing he points to is the frequency of masturbation of men. It is much more common than women and it is done by a much higher percentage of men than women. This goes to suggest that desire for sex is much higher among men.

Women may respond that men can just masturbate when they are feeling horny, so they can’t use being horny as an excuse. I wish it were that simple, a commenter “Hey Ladies” answers this best when he said

“Masturbating temporarily removes the physical desire (which is uncontrollable) but does not remove psychological desire (which is always present).”

You can read his complete comment at the bottom of the article.

Another obvious indicator of men’s much higher sex drive is the prostitution industry. Only men are willing to spend trillions of dollars each year to pay somebody to have sex with them. Arguing that women and men have a similar sex drive is just ridiculous.

Men want sex more and they want it more often. This is another reason why men should be forgiven for cheating much easier than women.

 

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5. It’s MUCH harder for a guy to turn down sex than it is for a girl

This next reason ties in with guys having a much higher sex drive from my last reason, but I want to make the point that it is much more difficult for a man to turn down sex than it is for a woman.

First, you should look at how often women go throughout life turning down men for sex. How often do they do this? For an attractive girl they do this every day and this is before ever starting a committed relationship. Women do not have to make any changes to themselves to keep turning down sex, but men do. It is MUCH more difficult.

Let me explain to you guys how it feels when I am horny and an attractive girl shows her obvious interest in something with me:

I glimpse her body and feel nothing, but strong desire. Tunnel vision makes everything else in the world disappear. I start to actually feel a sensation of being drunk. Your body is telling you that, more than anything in the world in this moment, you want to sleep with this girl in front of You. You feel an insanely strong desire for sex, desperate even.

Then, once you have sex, those strong hormones leave your body and you feel normal again. In that moment, you might realize you didn’t desire this girl as much as you thought. If you have a girlfriend, you might start to feel guilty and start thinking about her. Then, you will just want the girl you just slept with to leave.

This feeling is probably the most intense thing I can remember ever feeling. The temptation caused by such a powerful feeling is something women can never understand, but it doesn’t mean it’s not reality.

 

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6. Only higher value guys have the options to cheat

I don’t want to hate on lower value guys, but a lower value guy (guy who rarely gets laid) who brags about being faithful to a girl, is like a man trapped on a deserted island bragging about quitting smoking. These guys just don’t have the opportunities. On the other hand, when you are a successful, attractive man and you have young, attractive girls throwing themselves at you, staying faithful is at a whole other level of difficulty.

A reality of dating in the 21st century is that the top 10% of men enjoy sex with the top 75% of women. The men below this 10% can still have access to the top 75% of women, but they have to put in MUCH more work. This means that if the boyfriend falls in that top 10% of men category, he has 75% of women competing for him to fertilize their eggs (subconsciously of course). I can’t tell you how difficult it is to ignore their advances, when you take into account the previous 5 reasons. But i’ll try… very fucking difficult.

Most of this 75% of girls make it much easier for these top 10% to sleep with them. Let’s look at what would happen if there weren’t women deciding who they will and will not sleep with, instead people just had sex with people they are attracted to. It just so happens there is a group of people where this is the case… gays. When you look at gay relationships, check out this nugget:

There is an extremely low rate of sexual fidelity among homosexual men as compared to married heterosexuals. Among married females 85% reported sexual fidelity. Among married men, 75.5% reported sexual fidelity. Among homosexual males in their current relationship, 4.5% reported sexual fidelity. – Link

Only 4.5% of gay men reported sexual fidelity. That’s because when almost every person you find attractive, is willing to sleep with you, fidelity becomes much more difficult. This is what happens when your boyfriend is a higher value guy, the girls who he finds attractive are most likely willing to sleep with him.

So, if your boyfriend is one of these top 10% and cheats on you, at the very least you know that he had it a lot more difficult than a lower value guy had it. If he cheats on you, at least you know you are dating a guy who can actually get another girl. I know that alone won’t make a hurt girl feel better, but maybe it will help.

 

7. Guys can keep feelings out of the bedroom

One of the biggest reasons why a boyfriend should be forgiven for cheating easier is because men can have sex without any feelings. It’s one of the reasons why men get a bad rap, but men usually have very little emotional feelings towards girls they sleep with. This is bad news for girls looking for a guy, but great news for girls in relationships because it means that there is a good chance that the girl her boyfriend cheated on her with means very little to him. He just feels a strong sexual attraction and desire for variety. All natural feelings.

On the other hand, when a woman sleeps with a man she usually already has feelings towards him. If she doesn’t have feelings for him, these feelings usually develop.

This is because contraception only became popular in the past 100 years and our feelings come from instincts millions of years old. So, when a woman sleeps with a man, she subconsciously accepts that she could become pregnant by this man and carry a piece of him for the rest of her life. This is why women can’t help, but start to have feelings for a guy she is having sex with and this is why the balance of the relationship almost always changes once sex happens. It’s generally when the girl becomes attached.

For the relationship, this is as bad as it could be because not only is the guy’s girlfriend cheating on him sexually, but she is also cheating on him emotionally. Which, in my opinion, is much worse. And the chances of having feelings destroying the relationship is much higher than sexual attraction destroying the relationship.

 

Why men should be forgiven for cheating

To be honest, I don’t see even one way that makes it more acceptable for a woman to cheat than a man. I know that it is considered the same in our society when a man cheats on a woman than when a woman cheats on a man, but it’s ridiculous. They aren’t even close to the same thing because they affect the relationship very differently. Imagine the heartbreak and disrespect a man would feel after spending decades raising a child only to give blood and learn that he has been raising and putting all his emotions and resources into another man’s flesh and blood. Women (because they are the ones who get pregnant) never have to worry about this.

If you are a guy and care about your girlfriend, but end up messing up and sleeping with another girl, you aren’t a bad person. You fucked up, but it should not be treated nearly as seriously as her cheating on you. The relationship shouldn’t end because of this and, if she does end it because of this, it’s because she doesn’t understand or doesn’t have strong enough feelings for you.

If a guy cheats it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his girlfriend, it means he has nearly uncontrollable urges all the time and he was given an opportunity for sex that he wasn’t able to turn down. Girlfriends breaking up with their boyfriends for this is just not logical.

 

 

Want to read more?

If you want to read more about cheating, you should check out my book The Key Logger. It’s about 12 relationships I had where I key logged the girls to see how faithful they were to me. Many the things I learned were absolutely shocking. Check it out.

 

I will end with an amazing comment left on Swoop The World

Now I will leave you guys who want more info on the subject with a comment from “Hey Ladies” in the Article How to Bang 3 Philippine Women a Day where he responds to somebody hating on the fact Fisto slept with so many girls. Excellent comment.

Annihilating your argument is actually quite simple.

You said yourself you don’t understand what satisfaction we get from these “loathsome” acts. That’s because you aren’t a man, and to us these aren’t “loathsome” acts.

No, we can’t be satisfied with fapping, duh. If we could then we wouldn’t be putting in all of this work.

Psychological stimulation is important for men during sex too. If it wasn’t, then every man would only fap and not have sex. If any man had the choice, he would rather have sex with almost ANY woman than fap by himself. The only reason men fap instead of having sex is that it takes less work and temporarily removes the physical desire (which is uncontrollable), but does NOT remove the psychological desire (which is also always present). Men who are highly sexed are happier than men who aren’t, and that’s because they are satisfying this basic psychological desire that ALL men have. Many men will admittedly say that the physical sensation from masturbating is actually better than when having sex.. but the PSYCHOLOGICAL stimulation is so powerful that sex with a hot woman beats masturbation, every time.

For the men who don’t want a committed relationship, sex with multiple women is the only way to satisfy this most basic and powerful of male physical AND psychological desires.

There are many reasons some men might not want a committed relationship. He might still crave variety (which is how men are naturally programmed, I’m sure you know that). He might not be at a point in his life that he’s ready to take on the responsibility of supporting another woman (many young men are in this kind of situation), or a FAMILY. Many men also just do not trust people, especially not women (and not without justifiable reasons), so why invite one into your private life? Men know also that a committed relationship with any woman in our modern world means that marriage is inevitable. Many smart and rational men with business sense (non romantic type men) know that marriage is a bad business decision, so they decide to just forget about relationships completely (or lead women on in a relationship knowing in the back of his mind that it won’t last) because they know what they lead to – marriage. If this kind of man has the time and money to get sex from a variety of women to satisfy his most basic psychological and physical desire, then he probably will. If he has money, he might pay for it. If he doesn’t (like most men), but he has the valuable currency known as time, then he will employ “game” tactics like the ones mentioned in this article to get these women into bed for cheap/free.

There are many other reasons why many men wouldn’t want a committed relationship, but I think you get the idea. And these men aren’t bad. You have no right to judge any of them. You don’t know their stories. You don’t know their current situations. And finally, if you want to blame someone, then blame God for making men and women the way they are (if you believe in God, I don’t).

It’s just life. Life isn’t fair. It’s not fair that a man should have to choose one woman and deny his urge for variation, because society propagates marriage in a serious committed relationship, and people just eat that shit up. Which forces men who don’t want marriage to mislead some women who want marriage in order to get them in bed. That’s just one example of how the inherent unfairness of life fucks everything up and causes men and women to disrespect and lie to each other. I could go on about this subject forever…

And I hope you understand now why men can’t just fap and be happy to make you happy.

The world doesn’t revolve around our whimsical wishes.

And I hope you understand men a bit better now.

 

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  • Great article 20

  • jazz

    I don’t agree. In this matter man and women are equal.

    • I dont mind you disagreeing, but explain why you don’t agree.

    • That would require brain power… Robots don’t have much.

    • jazz

      Just because you shouldn’t do something to somebody esle what you don’t want that other people do to you. The explanation is very basic.

    • Still no argument. The whole point of the article is to put this in PERSPECTIVE and to explain that the 2 things don’t have the same weight.

    • yeah exactly as thc said. The whole point i was making is that a guy cheating and a girl cheating are not at all the same thing. And i showed scientific articles showing exactly why that was true.

    • 20Nation just wrote a 7 point argument supporting this preposition, and you comment “I don’t agree” without any explanation. Your feelings aren’t arguments.

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Nothing in nature is equal.

  • BaroiKalimotxo

    The sole reason why your average grandma and grandpa remain married to this day.

  • splooge

    women worry more about psychological cheating then physical since she could lose her support. while men we worry about physical due paternity issues.plus like you said once they sleep with them they emptionally bond but guys nope.

    theres alot of double standards like virgin girl is praised while male is not.
    slut is easy stud is hard. youll see fat ugly sluts but not studs. it takes looks charisma money intelligence but a slut just needs poor impulsive control.
    or a girl can be a pussy but a man cannot.
    sex is a commodity like money time n work. and a man can be a time n resource whore aka beta bux doormat.

    • great points splooge. and those double standards arent really double standards because guys and girls are so different. as you are saying, a slut and a pimp are two vwry different concepts

    • splooge

      thanx but end of the day we got two different strategies. we want as many as we can while women have to tie down the best one she can get. those our are winning strategies. being a beta needy nerd and slut lose out out.

      i remember jack donivan say men are judged fir courage females for chastity. wanna piss off anyone from liberal swedush couple to conservatice saudis. call the men pussies and the women whores and youll have very angry people on your hands and will try to refute your comments. of course switch the insults and call the man a slut and girl a sissy theyll just laugh.

      its ingrained in us from when were young. boys egg each other to not be chicken so much so that stunt sends them to hospital. same story as we age when we take it to far its jail.
      im sure girls have their equivalents

      socialization cant change this.

    • good info there. Jack d wrotw the way of men right? i havent read it. Would you recommend it? Sounds like some cool insights. I’d never heard that chastity and coursge bit.

    • Dissident Occidental

      Society can use men as slaves/pack mules and that’s cool. Women are victims to all us barbarians, monsters, rapists, etc. according to the official bs sjw-Marxist narrative. Like Ive had pollyanna college waitresses giving me a diatribe about how girls are being sex trafficked in Thailand and how prostitution is wrong. Have they ever seen 40yo beta. men? Are they going to sleep w/ a40yo nerd guy who can’t get laid- what’s the guy supposed to do if he can’t get any warm pink-p4p vs. going postal? Despite Americas sexual ideological hypocrisy of white knight sexual repression Victorianism coupled with the largest market for consuming and producing porn on the Planet; p4p is a way better and healthier for society option than some lonely beta or omega going postal. Some PUA guys even say there’s little difference between a whore and Regular girl. My Dad used to even say at least hookers were smart enough to get paid for it rather than giving it away like all these young dumb girls do. With Libertarian views I could see where legalized p4p could benefit society- in places like Germany where there’s tons of good looking and affordable hookers you don’t see nerdy sexually frustrated guys getting mad at the World and blasting up random people with a Glock because they hate themselfs and everyone else for not being able to get laid like nutters in America do from time to time. Germans have plenty of guns just like Americans but don’t do stupid wacko Elliot Rodger type of stuff- likely because any dude with 70-100 euros can get with a decent looking p4p girl. And to the Pollyanna American coed I was talking about earlier-I told her the same thing John Rambo said in the last Rambo movie to the Pollyannas telling him the SEA villagers needed help- he said “Do you have any guns for them?” Pollyanna-“Well… Uh? No”. Rambo-“Then nothing will change”. Americans (at least before our uber beta sjw semifag age were in now) had no problem fighting for their rights via armed resistance. Why don’t other’s do the same? Why’s it Americans place to fight for foreign nationals or their social issues? Are we benefiting under that model? No! So yeah, even if you were being sex trafficked as a 15yo villager girl (highly unlikely anyway despite what the granola women’s lib npo types in the West say) but if you were- get an AK-47 or at least a machete and liberate yourself from tyranny. That’s how we roll in America (or at least we did before this limp wrist era). We are willing to fight if our persons or property are encroached upon- other cultures take note and do likewise. In all likelihood, Sex trafficking is probably greatly over exaggerated and if it were as bad as Pollyanna women’s lib brainwashed American college chicks think it is than that’s highly likely correlated to corruption in the country via top officials giving the nod to organized crime to continue to do that type of thing to indigent teen girls-the only answer is squads of guys in BDUs with M4s sending out 62 grs of diplomacy to the ones organizing that whole market violating human rights otherwise it will only continue and like I said earlier why won’t the exploited fight back even if only with hand tools like machetes? If you’ve got nothing to lose anyway then stand up and fight for your rights in a situation like that. The likely nature of reality here is the sex trafficking issue is greatly overblown by Western pinko granola eaters who need a reason to justify their existence and to do their absolute favorite thing in the World- disparage male sexuality and replace it with Communism.

    • splooge

      im not a fan of trafgiking poor 2nd n 3rd world girls. instead we should just have legal brothels again

  • Jon

    I tend to agree with a lot of what you write, especially about the nature of people, but you’re dead wrong on this one. You probably should have called this article “Why I Can Cheat On You, But You Should Never Cheat On Me.” The only point I agree on is #6. If you are a higher value guy, it is easier to cheat and risk getting caught.

    Every reason you gave applies to women as well. If you assume that the stuff you wrote in your keylogger book is only 10% of the story it’s easy to see women use the same rationalizations you have for cheating or having multiple partners. In countries rich and poor pregnancy is often not a concern. In wealthy countries you can take birth control or get an abortion, in a poor country you just gained a farmer or best case a pay check from the “rich” foreigner/worst case you give the kid to a relative or orphanage while you go work.

    We all feel emotion after sex, even if it’s just a sense of bravado. FWIW, guys I’ve known who get laid the most tend to be more emotional than high school bitches. How many times have you (especially outside the western world) met a guy who swore some chick was in love with him only to realize you fucked her too and recently?

    Lastly, I’ve never expected to be forgiven for cheating which is why I set boudnaries.

    • i appreciate you puting thought into your response. I don’t mind people disagreeing as long as they do it respectfully and they explain why.

      As to the reasons. i was not saying it didnt go the same for women i was saying they felt it less.

      The key logger made me realize why women did those things. and it was usually because they had a favorite option, a second favorite then backup plan, then rebound guy, then slmebody to talk to to make her feel better but she knows the guys wont do it if they think they have no chance. very rarely did they do it because they were especially horny. So basically, it was almost never about sex, but about something else. Compared to guys where it is almost always about sex.

      My point about pregnancy was not talking about conscious thought, it was talking abot subconscious thought. and the reason why women have lower sex drives and most prefer to only be sleeping with one guy at a time.

      Also if you are talking about how pregnancy affects the relationship. many girls are not so liberal abot abortion (a lot of my exes) i also dont believe in snuffing out a life. so at least for me thats out. then there are the physical changes of pregnancy. the constant reminder of her infedelity. then, women undeniably have more instinctual nurturing (exceptions of course). so most women would not be able to give up their baby after seeing it born. many women who have been raped still arent able to give the baby up. So it would affect the relationship a lot more that way.

      I agree with your last point that if u agree to stay faithful you should, but it is undeniably much harder for a man to turn down sex with other women than it is for a woman to turn down sex with another man.

  • Eddie

    Total bullshit about the desire. Evolutionary and any kind of logical way you take it, men and women’s sexual desires are equal OR women’s are greater. The fact that you debate this is the same reason why these fools buy your “game” books to learn how to fuck women. Hey losers: I get the secret for you for free: The women want to fuck you too! Thank me later! The prostitution industry is about supply and demand… Even though your website is cool, it still smells of ton of bullshit. That bullshit site that you are telling us to use to get all these amazing dominican girls for example? I browsed it for hours and it has the absolut worst quality of women ever… So i get that you are lying to these fools so they can sign up and take the affiliate marketing part of cupid.com but we know that the ones that you have pics of are little hookers that you pay you cheeky little guy 😉

  • JBPoqueliche

    That is probably the most precise and down-to-earth piece I have read so far on why men cheat, as in why it is understandable. All the nerd psychologists and virgin theoreticians can speculate, but only a guy that has been with many women understands the true mechanics.

    Brutal truth, great resource for young guys looking for answers. Well done STW

    • Thanks JB, Comments like these give me motivation to bring more articles like this to STW.

  • FKK Sauna Clubs Blog

    All valid points but any man foolish enough to promise a woman not to fool around who then gets caught shouldn’t expect to be forgiven. The real problem is making that “Disney fairytale” promise without a corresponding commitment from her to have sex at least as often as he wants and also a realistic understanding on both sides that long-term, it probably won’t work out.

  • OhSoSubmissive

    Rule of thumb on Internet: Anyone whom use “Let’s ask science” or “science says” gives the indication he doesn’t understand science.

    That’s not how science works dear.

  • Pinksparkle

    I think this article is full of it! This is basically an excuse for men to be immature and do whatever they please. Men need to grow up. Until they do I personally give all wives, girlfriends, etc permission to screw around and as often as possible. Use protection though! Its time men see how it feels. Men are not worth any womans loyalty.

  • Dysfunctional father

    Dam I wish I found out about your website years ago. I totally agree with this article. In fact I think you should add one more point to this. And that’s the blow men feel has to be much harder for a man then a woman. I am in a committed relationship with 2 children (not married legally but living together for about 7 years) and when I found out about it 3 or 4 years ago (I had to stay and work through it for my kids sake and the guy get the short end of the stick in a divorce) the blow can deviate a man from the inside out. I read the keylogger and at the end I said dam I wish I read this before I had kids.

    • It’s a really nice point. Wish I would have thought about it before and I’m glad you have enjoyed the key logger. It’s a thing all men should understand.

    • Dysfunctional father

      Just wondering. In key logger, was any of the girls eastern European? Or were they all American? Just wondering if other cultures have a different look on loyalty vs American culture.