Pickup lines that work: 10 Tips to Make it Happen

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Pickup lines that work: 10 Tips to Make it Happen

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Most people think that pickup lines are a waste of time and the way most people use them, they are. But here I will show you how to make any pickup line work and how to choose the right ones. Here are 10 tips to make pickup lines work:


Tip #1: The hold, slowly smile then laugh

Here is a tip that I have used thousands of times. It’s really strong and it gets a girl to laugh or smile just by how you use your body language. Here is what you do:

You say whatever line you had, then you look at her like you are completely serious for two FULL seconds, then you slowly let a smile spread across your face as you hold eye contact. When your smile is complete, let out a laugh.

This is a joke hidden in body language as you are pretending to be serious then you slowly show her that you are joking. This tip can be used in all sorts of situations and it works almost every time.


Tip #2: Say it slowly, clearly, and deeply

These are the basics of how to speak in an attractive way as talked about in The 9 Laws of Attractive Body Language. You are saying very few words and expecting a good reaction, so it’s important that you focus on saying the line slowly, clearly and deeply.


Tip #3: Have a full one second pause between the first and second part

When delivering a pickup line, there is usually a first and second part. Another one of the basics of speaking is to use pauses and since most pickup lines are designed with a pause… it’s not something you want to forget.


Tip #4: Strong eye contact

The fourth tip to for pickup lines that work is using strong eye contact will create attraction with her by itself and since you are using a pickup line you want to build attraction in other ways.


Tip #5: Smiling eyes

This is how you temper your very strong eye contact while simultaneously doing something attractive and showing you are not taking everything too seriously. To do this just smile, but only with your eyes. Smiling eyes is a VERY attractive to women.



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Body Language

You can use ANY pickup line and make it work if your body language is solid. For more body language tips on these and more check out my book here.

You can use any pickup line and make it work if your body language is solid here is my book


Some of my experiences using pickup lines:

Tus labios son como agua y tengo sed – Your lips are like water and I’m thirsty

As most of you know I have spent a bit of time traveling in Spanish speaking countries, luckily I had the fortune of learning the line “Tus labios son como agua y teng sed. – Your lips are like water and I’m thirsty.”

I was in a club one night, half drunk and feeling good. I saw an attractive girl look my way. She was wearing a tight dress, that really accentuated her Latin curves.

We locked eye contact and I immediately started walking  towards her. When I arrived I put hands on each side of her shoulders and delivered the line as I looked her in the eye following the body language tips from above.

I didn’t even go for the kiss, she thrust her face into mine and we started making out.


Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.

This is a line I used all the time years ago. As most of you know, I was born a natural with women and all that was messed up by a very long computer game addiction. However, some of the things I use now are the things that I would naturally use back in the day.

I would walk up to a girl, playing a part (100% in acting mode) and say”Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.”

I said it in an over the top “I’m going to pick you up” way. This would make girls go crazy. Girls would either start giggling or they would go into acting mode with me and play along.

As always this worked so well because back then I was a natural and I had naturally attractive body language.


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Tip #6: Use a smooth or cocky pickup line that is funny

The next part of the tips is how to choose the right pickup lines to use. First you want to try to choose the smooth or cocky pickup lines. Then you want to narrow those ones down to the ones that are funny.


Tip #7: DO NOT use an overly sexual pickup line

This is a mistake that many men make in normal conversations, they try to get sexual too soon. It can work on some girls, but you can miss out on a lot of girls just because of being overly sexual.


Tip #8: Do not use a pickup line where you raise her value, put her on a pedestal or you lower yours

Most tip of lines use some type of pedestalization, so search through the pickup lines to find one that doesn’t use much of this type of humor.

You also don’t want to lower your value, so any type of self depreciating humor should be avoided.


Tip #9: Do not use  try hard lines (long and complex)

Pickup lines can work if they are simple and short. The reason for this is that you want to seem like you really aren’t trying to impress her you are just doing something for your own amusement. If you are putting all sorts of time into a long or complex line, it will seem like you are working too hard and taking the fun out of it.


Tip #10: Do not use a popular pickup line

Part of the reason pickup lines can work is because they are funny. If she has heard the line many times before, all the humor has already been sucked dry and she can become annoyed easily.

“Are you tired?”

“I don’t want to be running through your mind.” The girl replies and walks away.

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Pickup lines that work

As stated earlier, you can make any pickup line work by having flawless body language, but here are some pickup lines that will make it so you won’t have to dig yourself out of a hole:

I was wondering if you had an extra heart mine seems to have been stolen.

If you were a booger I’d pick you first.

Excuse me, I think you have something in your eye. Oh wait, it’s just a sparkle.

Hello, I’m a thief, and I’m here to steal your heart.

Are you going to kiss me or do I have to lie to my diary?

I’m Mr. Right, someone said you were looking for me?

I’m sorry, were you talking to me? [No] Well then, please start.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.

Tus labios son como agua y tengo sed.


If you are interested not only interested in pickup lines that work, but in normal lines that work as well, check out:

 The Perfect Conversation: Win Any Girls With Words

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  • Jlaw

    My fave, used to pull a very hot 18yo half Chinese half Italian model in Shangai: “sorry I couldn’t help but notice you (long pause)… staring at me. You need to make your attraction to me less obvious”

    • 20Nation

      Yeah I think cocky funny is the way to go if you want to use a pickup line

  • Nikola Cvrtnjak

    “High five, you are cute!” Of course I raise a hand to hi5 her and the way you do it is important :D. That was one of my favorites few years back and they all thought it was sweet. Lately I just use “hey” or drop some situational comment about her to get a response. But my favorite last year or so is when I notice her looking at me, is to show her with my hand “come over here”. It works 9/10 times. It can’t get easier than this. Sometimes we “talk with hands” over the club for 30-60 sec, and even if she doesn’t come, I’m not a stranger anymore and I can approach her if she’s shy ;). Do everything with a smile and its a win :).

    • 20Nation

      High five you are cute, is kind of a pickup line, but the rest are just openers. Although I really think you know what’s up with the hand signals trying to get her over. THC does a hand signal call back if we walk past some girls and they happen to look back, it works pretty well.

  • Lacedric T

    When you run game abroad-whats the average cost per day for everything (food, drinks, transport, lodging, etc.)?
    HAve you guys done Eastern Europe-like Roosh V says-Moldova, ROmania, Poland, even Ukraine-all look very promising?

    • 20Nation

      It depends if you are staying by month or by day in an area. Hotels up the cost. On average I think I spend 1400$ a month if i’m in a hotel and 800$ a month if i get a monthly rental, but I’m a budget traveler. I spend probably 2$ on every date i go on with girls. It’s important because with how many dates I go on that would add up fast.
      Then I spend probably 300$ a month on food, 150$ on other things.

      Most of us haven’t been there but we are planning a trip this summer. We will spend a lot of time there because it sounds like a great area.

    • Mondevil

      can’t wait for the eastern european stories. White girls!

    • Lacedric T

      White girls!!!!!!!!!
      I want to tear up some Polish and Czech slits when I get my money right, Im gonna invade those bitches-for real! The Germans are coming through to conquer again just this time with big dicks and American passports.

      20Nation, Fsto, THC-
      You guys need to hit a big ass college town so go in October to Poland. Theyre out duting the Summer. I think Brno, Czech or Ostrava have alot of college girls too. I think more dudes need to hit the 2nsd tier in Czech. Czech girls are my favorite- was there anything more perfect than Daniel Pestova (Sports Illustrated model) in her prime? Screw those 8 feet tal vikings in Scandinavia and their $30 a meal restaurants-go Czech blondes cheap German quality beer and night life.

    • Your enthusiasm is infectious. I think hitting the 2nd tire cities is a great idea.

    • Lacedric T

      Its cool to hear a breakdown by the numbers on gaming abroad.

      What do you guys do to make $. The only reason I ask is bcuz I’d love to do this for a few months but I’m broke-between the cost of living and my present income there isn’t much left.
      Any quality ideas on how to make some $ online?

    • Mondevil

      There are a lot of ways. Marketing, freelance writing, programming, customer service jobs and graphic design to name a few

    • Lacedric T

      DO you have some links I could check out? I’m not that tech savvy but, I need to learn for real. Any help from a been there done that perspective would be great to know.

    • 20Nation


      Those are all good ways. The internet is so huge there are so many ways to do it, but you want to specialize in one of those areas

    • 20Nation

      I made my money working a few months for an oil company, then with my books, it’s helped me to be able.

  • Cristina

    Your pickup lines are very stupid. In Argentina we name them “frases matadoras” and women laugh at those stuff.

  • Jody Dayton Peace

    This one is pretty good, since it is funny: I’m sorry, were you talking to me? [No] Well then, please start. The rest, not so much. Honestly, I think pick-up lines are more trouble than they are worth. Unless you have flawless delivery and body language you risk looking silly.

    Better to make a funny comment on the situation around you and the girl. Or just make a friendly comment. The best pick-up line of all in any non-English speaking country is: ‘Do you speak English?’

    • 20Nation

      yeah that first one is good. The do you speak english line is more of a standard opener than a real pickup line, but i have used it to success more times than i can count.

  • Toan_H