My Dominican Harem – A Different Girl Every Day of the Week

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My Dominican Harem: A Different Girl Every Day of the Week

I spent quite a bit of time in the Dominican Republic and one of the most carefree and sexually satisfying times of my life was when I built and maintained my harem. I had selected many different types of Dominican girls for my harem based on what I like most in girls… I wanted variety. Every day I had a different woman come straight to my apartment for work free sex.

This was an amazing system to have because I would have a nice rotation of pussy coming straight to my place with minimal effort. But this was not just a process of me showing up. To understand what I did, you have to read a previous article about me hooking up with 31 Dominican girls my first 25 days in the Dominican Republic. You can find that here:


Check out this video of me and other Swoop The World writers in Dominican Republic (sexy Dominican Republic girls included)



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The Process of Building A Harem

Work on game and value

I have spent a lot of time on my game and improving my value. Every single girl I went on a date with in the DR, was interested in something more with me. This is because I have spent time working on my game and upping my value. Most people understand what game is, but if you want to understand how to raise your overall value check this out.


Hook up with a lot of girls

If you read the article on my 31 girls in 25 days, then you know that I had hooked up with a lot of girls in a small amount of time. After that, I was a bit exhausted and ready to not have to work for sex. I had set myself up perfectly for the next step. I mostly met girls online in the DR. This is the best website for meeting girls online in the Dominican Republic.


Choose your favorite Dominican girls for the harem

I selected all of my favorite girls from the 31 girls I had hooked up with and started seeing them more and more. On top of that I kept meeting new girls (although not at the same rate) so I could add new members to my harem girls.

Because of how aloof I had been after sex and because 3 weeks isn’t enough time for most girls feelings for you to cool off, I had no problem seeing these girls I really liked again. And just like that I had a harem.


How I maintained my harem

Meeting new harem girls

It’s important to never completely stop meeting new girls. This keeps you sharp and gives you new girls to add into the rotation if a girl falls out.


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Telling them I was seeing other girls

Now, I could have lied to all these girls and told them that they were the only girl I was seeing, but not only does that require a lot of work every day hiding left behind items and picking up tons of hairs every day, it can make you worried all time. Then, there’s the chance that they see me with other girls (happened a bit).

The best way I found to go about this is to be up front about the fact that you are seeing other girls. When they asked me if I was seeing other girls (they always would), I would respond

“Tu me encantas, pero no estoy listo para algo seria. Debemos pasar mas tiempo juntos. – I like you a lot, but I’m not ready for anything serious. We must get to know eachother better.”

“Asi que estas viendo otras mujeres? – So you are seeing other women?” They would usually ask.

“Si.” I would respond.

Girls would accept this. I think the reason they accepted this was because of 6 reasons:


1. They enjoyed sex with me.

I am a selfish lover, but I am still a good lover. I have had a lot of practice and I know exactly what I want in the bedroom, women tend to like this.


2. They enjoyed being with me. 

I have decent game and fluent Spanish. When girls would come to see me, we would spend our time laughing and having fun. Girls genuinely had a good time outside of sex.


3. I was the highest value guy available to them.

Between my game, charm, foreigner status, appearance of money and overall value, I was usually the best prospect for most of these women. There is a rich Dominican class that can compete, but most of those guys have never needed game and the chances that I was in direct competition with one of them for a girl (not including one night) was slim. There are a ton of girls in DR and a very few amount of rich guys with decent game.

There are plenty of Dominicans with game, but these guys usually don’t have the other status assets.


4. The rewards if I would commit to them.

On top of this there were decent rewards if I would end up choosing them in the end for a more serious relationship. Americans are rich in compared to Dominicans, so there is the money part. Dominicans see lighter skin as beautiful and a lot of them want as light skinned kids as possible, so the possibility of a kid with a white guy is a nice bonus. There is the fact that a lot of girls would like to live or travel in USA or other 1st world countries. Then there is the fact that I will have more time for them. Because I had so many girls in my rotation, I didn’t have a ton of time and girls would always want to see me more than I wanted to see them.

These are rewards for most Dominican girls, but don’t think that all girls want to live in USA or care about the money you have. It is not so simple. There are different types of girls in the Dominican Republic and they each put different waits on different rewards.

The hope that they would be the girl that I committed to was something that kept them working and kept the relationship strong. This brings out a competitive side in women and they will work very hard to please you. I had told them that I would end up picking my favorite and eventually… I did.


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5. Dominican culture

Dominican culture is honestly, much more sexual than almost any other culture of any place I have ever been. The local dance “Dembow” is basically sex with clothes on. It’s not uncommon to see families where the girl has 6 brothers and sisters all from different fathers. This is because a lot of Dominican guys don’t want to take care of their kids or don’t have the money (in lower classes). All this comes together and makes it much easier for a Dominican girl to accept that you are seeing multiple girls.


6. I made them invest in me

These girls would do a lot for me, essentially investing in the relationship. Time, cooking, favors, sexual things… these are all forms of investment. These investments made sure that small bumps in the road (panties of another girl found under the bed, A physical manifestation of the fact that I was seeing other girls) didn’t effect them enough to drop out of the rotation.


Avoid talking about other girls and the relationship

An important part of maintaining a harem is to avoid talking about other girls and what the relationship is.

When you talk about other girls, you are basically rubbing their face in the fact that you are seeing other girls. When you are with her, just forget about them. Don’t mention anything with them. In fact, don’t ever mention them. She will suspect that you are seeing other girls and eventually ask if you are.. You shouldn’t lie, but don’t brag or rub it in her face.

She may also want to define what the two of you are. You must be vague and say that you are not sure yet, but that she has potential. Vagueness is key here. I never said “You are part of my harem.” I believe that would be a mistake.


Their promises of fidelity

After learning that you are with other girls she will probably say something like.

“Well how would you feel if I were with other guys?” You know how I would respond?

“I don’t want you to be with other guys.” And it was true. I’m a man and I want all my girls to only be with me. I told them that I understood that it’s not fair, but that is how I feel.

They would think about this and then came the promises of fidelity. “Te voy a esperar – I will wait for you.” They would tell me that they will not be with anybody else. I only checked on two (key logger) to see if they really were faithful and they were, but to be honest, it wasn’t a huge deal if they followed through with it. I had everything I wanted.


My Dominican Harem

Now I will tell you a little bit more about my personal harem. You will notice that all my harem girls have their own personal strengths, physically and in their personalities. This made for a really balanced sex life where I was honestly…in sexual heaven.


My Dominican Girls:

The sweet personality

I had met her towards the end of my 31 girls. She was a tall, skinny girl with big boobs (proportionately). She had the sweetest personality I have ever encountered in Latin America. It was amazing just listening to her voice and the things she would say.


The beautiful face

This girl could have been a model. She was almost as white as me with a beautiful face. She also had a really balanced body with a nice ass and a nice rack. The only down side is that this girl wasn’t very sexually experienced and wasn’t great in bed. I taught her some things.


Amazing rack

As a boob man, I was a big fan of this girl. She had a thin waste and big natural boobs with great shape. She also had a really fun personality, so we would spend a lot of time after sex just talking and joking around.


Amazing ass

This girl did not have a great personality and only an OK face. However, sex with this girl was magical… I can’t explain it, but sometimes in this world you find a girl with who you just sexually click. Her vagina seems like it was sculpted by the hand of god, just to fit perfectly with your dick. She is always the right amount of wet and she looks amazing with her clothes off. The shape and size of this ass was always a focal point when I was with this girl… wow.


Big brown Dominican eyes

This girl was sweet and actually ended up leaving her boyfriend just to be in my harem. The best way I can describe this girl is “cute.” like an anime character almost.  She was also bisexual and wanted to make me happy with a threesome, which I never had time for (regrets…).


Haitian politicians daughter

This girl had an OK face and OK personality, but she was really rich and always dressed to the 9’s. She would also tell me tons of awesome stories about her family in Haiti. On top of all that, she was quite a freak in the bed.  One thing I always loved was when she would bring me food that her maid had prepared. It was so tasty.


The free when I called

This girl had a nice ass. She wasn’t as interesting as the other girls, but she would make herself free any time I wanted a booty call. If it was 4 am, 7 am or 3 pm, it didn’t matter. She would be on her way to my room whenever I would ask without so much as a complaint. Bonus points for her.


The others

There were a few other girls that went in and out of my rotation: a really tall girl that wanted me to get her pregnant, a black girl with the most toned body I have ever seen, a twin black girl, a black girl with a HUGE ass and more, but they never quite made the rotation. There are all sorts of attractive girls in the DR so making my decision on who would enter my rotation wasn’t made as much with logic as horniness (the who do I feel like banging test) and how I felt overall about the girl.


My harem

I genuinely liked every girl in my harem, I know it almost sounds crazy to say… but each girl brought something amazing and unique into my life. I don’t feel like I’m better than any of these girls, I just feel lucky to have been able to get to know all of them and quench my thirst for women.


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Build your own harem

I ended up having a different girl for every day of the week with very little work involved. It was an absolute sexual feast and it’s something I would recommend all men to experience at least once in their lives.

If you want to try to build your own Dominican harem, you can start out by meeting girls online even before arriving, I have tested a lot of dating websites and found this one to be the best for girls and reduced flakes (check out this website). If you want to improve your game and value read Swoop the World’s books on game.

This is my experience on building harems and if you ever put any of this to the test for yourself I would always like to hear back from you guys. You can contact us at


Read how I went from DR to Haiti here:


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  • Evan

    awesome. one day… hopefully soon

    • 20Nation

      gl Evan. If you get it, let us know your story

  • Woosh

    Do you always wrap up with these girls? When I have a regular I generally raw dog, but with seeing so many girls I wouldn’t know..

    • 20Nation

      I didn’t wrap up if i really thought the girl was being faithful

    • DAMN 20 you be going in RAW lol.

    • 20Nation

      yeah I’m a bit too addicted to going raw i would say

    • Ready_when_you_are

      Aids is very very high in the Dr but it’s a huge risk no matter where you are in the world,i been going there back and fourth for 20 years used to live there for 10 years,my father and brother live there now,so i know the country and it’s people very well, many girls there only pretend to be faithful while their out of country guy is there, they almost always have Dominican boyfriends that they be with while your gone, so raw sex with women who fuck different men for fun is not smart at all or safe,and as a white man i have notice their are many girls there i have to pay more to be with me, but my young black friend they don’t charge him much and sometimes they let him fuck them for free,they really really like the younger black American guys there very much, they love their music the way they dance and dress my young black American friend gets all the attention when we are out but i just go with the video and get his left overs lol, that is not to bad for me cause i only wish to get that beautiful tan brown color he always has lol

  • Johnny

    Is this kind of set up doable in EE?

    • 20Nation

      it’s much harder in my opinion, but doable. I have had some semi things like this, but not to this level

  • YEAH 20 you experienced the life I want live. I would love to do this in D.R. and Colombia. I’m working on it lol

    • 20Nation

      nothing else like it, complete sexual satisfaction

  • Lacedric King

    Just caught your interview with the Roosh man. Very interesting discussion, it just upped my already high level of respect for your istyle and writing.

    In EE how many notches/month have you averaged?
    My guess for SEA is 25-40/month
    and for Latin America is 10-20/month
    My EE guess is 4-6/month

    • 20Nation

      Thanks lacedric. My first video interview ever.

      Well I think over all this time I have averaged about 6, but that’s with some oneitus with my Polish virgin. Without this 4 month relationship it would be a bit higher. EE is harder to get laid than LA and SEA though, for sure.

    • Johnny

      Which countries have the combo of high quality and high quantity?

    • 20Nation

      it’s not so simple, there is no ultimate country. It depends on what types of women you are looking for

  • Ao393

    Man 20, another solid article. The thing with me is I’m still in the gym working out to no longer be overweight. I’m also doing some CPA Marketing Campaigns to start building an income. SOOOO much work before I can even start learning game and spanish to start traveling, LOL

    • Yeah a lot to do, but you can do all those things at once. You can learn spanish and game by doing pipelining in a latin country. Gym only takes up an hour and a half of your day and yeah work should take up a lot of the rest.

  • Reaver

    Yo 20, awesome fucking blog/website you guys have here. Been following here for a few months now. This post really has me inspired. I’m 21 and I’ll be moving to Cebu in a few weeks, going to build up my first harem! Definitely the way I want to live. I also make money online by doing freelance writing, so writing is an interest of mine. Thought about starting my own blog but I might want to write here eventually. I’ve still got a lot to experience first though before I can start bringing my own ideas and wisdom of the quality that you guys share. I haven’t even left the US yet. But the lifestyle you guys live, I’m totally diving into it!

    And by the way… that thumbnail is PERFECT.

    • GL reaver, I hope you kill it.

  • Truth Seeker

    What I want to know is how long it took for a girl to fall from your harem and what happened with the aftermath – when she found out that a relationship wasn’t going to happen and got pissed off. When it happened with lots of girls at once then I imagine that’s when shit hit the fan for you; did you get a plane out of the DR at that point?

    Seeing as you’re still alive and posting, I assume that’s what you did, before
    their brothers fathers uncles and cousins could come after you and teach you a lesson for “leading their sister/daughter/nephew/cousin on”.

    I’m a young white guy too. I live in the Philippines and that’s a common reality here. It’s the wild fucking west here, even in the major cities. Murders of passion and even petty murder isn’t uncommon and usually goes unpunished. Witnesses don’t identify the murderer to police (the police here is a joke also) because they fear the murderer coming after them next…

    Maybe it’s different somehow in the DR.

    Here in the Philippines, more so than most other countries, women are motivated to have sex for 1 of 2 reasons: love or money. They are a very romantic (with some conservative catholic values like the huge value of
    virginity), drama filled, and impoverished culture. This makes the love or money drive even higher for the women here. That’s why here I only stick with paid girls motivated by money or agreed upon friends with benefits and nothing more. In other words, since I’m not looking for a relationship, I never even give any girl the false hope that a relationship could be a possibility. I do this for my own safety.

    Women’s emotions and expectations don’t just go away – if they don’t get what
    they want, there’s a good chance they won’t let it go. They will be hurting, create drama, and their family WILL take notice. Others will also find out about who you’re seeing, which will create even more problems if you go the route of trying to maintain a large harem. The Philippines is incredibly interconnected. Especially if it’s the same island.

    My experience is that it doesn’t matter what you say to them – that you’re not sure what the relationship is yet; but in their mind, you are theirs if you’ve had sex with them a lot already (that is, if there was no money involved or agreed upon friends with benefits from the start).

    Would love to hear your thoughts on all of this. I’m not sure if your advice is just
    catering to sex tourists coming in for a short fun time to a third world country, or for those who plan to live in one place in a third world country long term. If it’s the former, then I highly recommend you distinguish those two purposes in this article, as for a guy following the advice in this article who plans to live in a third world country long term (2 months+), would very likely get him killed sooner than later.

    • Truth Seeker

      Still no reply yet.. but a new article up by 20nation. I think the silence here is pretty telling. Don’t take this article seriously guys who plan to live in a third world country long term.

    • Brianmark

      Truth Seeker, I have lived in the Philippines and what you said about the danger is true. Murder is nothing in the Philippines and the murderer will get off. Two of the males closest to my girlfriend had killed someone. An expat in the next town who had a hotel, his son was killed. You piss off the wrong “good” girl and watch out. There used to be this expat news letter, every month some expats ended up dead and no one was ever caught.

    • Ok. You want my thoughts? You are calling the Philippines the wild west. That’s why it’s hard to take you seriously. I can tell you haven’t done much traveling in Latin American or African nations or you would know what you are saying is ridiculous. I would maybe accept cambodia as an Asian wild west, but not the philippines. Maybe you ahve a case if you are living in either the ghetto of manila or western mindanao. Overall the philippines is a very safe country, especially for a 3rd world country.

      And you want to know why there is no backlash? I don’t lie. If you don’t ever tell a girl you are exclusive with her, she won’t ever have a reason to be really angry. It’s the guys who use “i love you” to get in her pants and promises of loyalty and saying she’s the only girl and then she finds out it was all a lie, those are the only guys that will get backlash. From hundreds and hundreds of girls i have gotten very little back lash because I won’t agree to be exclusive with a girl. It’s that simple.

    • Truth Seeker

      You’re slicing fine hairs. It’s one thing to say to a filipina, “don’t be ass-hurt, I never said I loved you so I’ve got immunity from you and your family” and reality.

      If you want to play those odds and run the risk, it’s your choice. You’re the only one they’ll come after, not me. It’s your hide, take whatever chances you want to take.

    • I’m not slicing hairs. I’m telling you the reality after being with hundreds of women and having almost no backlash. In fact, the only time I can think of having backlash was with me staying with one girl and the father not liking it because they were a particularly religious family. Or maybe a girl getting angry in the moment. But you think some girl who actually has feelings for you will have their brothers try to do something? No. If they do it’s because you never gamed them well enough and they were just with you for a visa. Then, they had to learned that they did all that acting for nothing and yeah… they might be pissed.

    • Truth Seeker

      Your reasoning is flawed. You’re speaking from the idea that SHE is going send the brothers/cousins after you. That’s NOT how it happens. She might very well be telling her relatives, “leave 20Nation alone”. But when they see the pain and embarrassment you’ve caused her.. they don’t give a shit. They want payback. Hell, if someone pulled that on my sister, I wouldn’t give a shit if she still loved him.. his ass would be mine. End of story.

      But you’re totally clueless on that count.

      And you’re still looking at this selfishly. While protecting your hide is a priority, the main reason you don’t take advantage of good girls is because it’s hurtful to them and wrong. It makes them bitter and resentful about any future relationship after having some dickweed lead them on and move on to the next girl, feeling like a used up rag doll.

      But like I said before.. it’s your hide, take whatever chances you want with it.

    • it’s not reasoning. It’s experience. I just don’t run into that problem (including in the philippine)

    • it’s not reasoning. It’s experience. I just don’t run into that problem (including in the philippine)

    • lee

      What good girls your talkin about? All women are bitches so use them and dump their trashy stupid ass. Also never forget to use condoms, you don’t know what kind of disease the bitch might have.

  • TommyTCG

    Why do you yanks call pussy ass. Ass is the shit hole in the English laguage.

  • Brianmark

    20Nation, what city did you make your base for your harem in DR?

  • Slaughtr

    That ol European bs again. The best prospect get off yourself white boy.

  • KC


    I just discovered this site so I’m a bit late on this topic. I’ve been browsing the site you used and it seems the majority of girls know that guys use it for hookups. Since this article is old I’m wondering how effective this technique still is.

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