Japanese And Korean Girls Compared (by Quintus Curtius)

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This is a guest post by Quintus Curtius.

I’ve been fortunate to have had some great experiences with the girls of both Japan and Korea.  I’ve lived in Japan for three years, and in Korea for one.  I’ve traveled extensively in both nations, and have had experiences with a wide variety of girls in each.  I thought it might be useful to summarize my thoughts on the major differences between the girls of these two very different countries.  Some degree of generalization is involved in an article like this, but only by doing so can we hope to overcome the limitations inherent in an article of less than 1500 words.  I’ll start with Japan first.

 

Japan

Physical:  Short, nice faces, beautiful white skin, and hair color that ranges from black to very light brown.  Pubic hair is usually unshaven, for whatever reason.  They tend to be very shy about their genitalia, so remember this.  I had one girl once confess how terrified she was of a man performing oral sex on her, because of the “shame” of exposing herself in such an intimate way.  Hygiene is fantastic.  You will not find many of the long-legged, full-figured types common in Korea.

Japan

Attitude

The big advantage of Japanese women, and the trait in which they excel over all others, is politeness.  That may not sound like a big deal, but to me it is.  Poise and demeanor count for a lot in Japan.  Nowhere else have I seen sexiness expressed with such delicacy of movement.  The flash of the eyes, the twist of a hand…it all seems to play together in one harmonious package.  Even better, Japanese women are not close-minded about dating foreign men.  Unlike many countries, politeness here is not seen as weakness.  It is seen as an essential part of “getting along” with the group, and you will be rewarded for your good behavior.

sexy Japanese girl

Views Of Men

There is little of the overt racism here that a foreign man might encounter in other countries.  I never had any bad experiences in Japan with hostility or racism.  I’m not saying it doesn’t exist, but that I never experienced it.  Foreign men of all nationalities can do very well here, as long as you learn the rules of the game, have some language skill, and are sensitive to your environment.

Sexual Performance

Japanese girls tend to be vocal in bed.  While I enjoy this, some guys do not, or find it tiresome after a while.  Common is playing the “little girl” act, exaggerated moans and groans, and things like that.  Don’t expect a Japanese girl to take the initiative in the seduction process or in the bedroom.  The man is expected to lead, and you must guide the interaction with this in mind.

Good Places

In Tokyo, I always like the Tokyo Midtown area, which is good for day game. It’s like a small indoor city, with plenty of high-traffic stores and restaurants. And for night game, Roppongi and Roppongi Hills are great for people in town for a short time.

 

Korea

Physical:  It’s safe to say that, in the physical department, Korean girls have a decisive edge over Japanese girls.  Long legs, muscular asses, and nice facial beauty make for a great combination.  Pubic hair is (on average) much less than Japanese girls. Body hair overall seems to be lower, in fact.

Korea

Attitude

Here’s where things get a bit rough. The Korean temperament is very different from the Japanese.  Korean girls are more willing to speak their minds, let their intentions be known.  And this is a good thing.  But the bad news is that they live in a very rigidly hierarchical, status-oriented, racially conscious society.  There’s no escaping this fact. I’ve had people tell me that things have changed a lot in the past 15 years, but I’m skeptical. National traits take longer than that to change.

I always got the sense that being with Korean girls in public, especially at night, was viewed as some sort of a big deal. In Japan, nobody cares. In Korea, they do care.  And you’ll hear about it when random guys start drinking and talking to you. Koreans are very fixated on race, status, hierarchy, and things like that. Even stranger, they have all these odd requirements for what constitutes facial beauty. You can find girls who are amazingly beautiful but who are told that one imagined defect renders them less than desirable.

Considering this, it’s best in Korea to adapt yourself accordingly. Keep things on a very low profile. Social pressure for them is a big deal. Don’t flaunt your relationships, and don’t discuss them under any circumstances with Korean men. You will find Korean girls outside their native country to be far less inhibited than they are in Korea. They are the world’s worst cockblockers and seem to view your liaisons with their women as a personal insult.

sexy korean girl

Sexual Performance

Koreans are not as vocal as Japanese girls in bed, but have better bodies and less body hair, as noted above. Like anything else, a man’s taste in women will vary greatly from one to the other.  I didn’t notice any cultural inhibitions or preferences worth mentioning, except that anal sex is not widely popular in either culture (as it is, say, in Brazil).

Good Places

I always liked Myong-dong, Kangman, and Apgujeong-dong. They’re now expensive, but that’s how it goes. Money opens doors here. Day game is a better value, in my opinion. During the day, if you’re a student or in your 20s, the area around Yonsei University or Ihwa Women’s University are good places to find girls wanting to practice English.

sexy korean high school girl

 

guest-author-iconGuest post by Quintus Curtius

Quintus Curtius is a business owner who travels abroad regularly. Check out  more of his articles at Return of Kings.

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  • markysparks

    The only person more judgemental than a Korean woman is a Korean woman’s mother.

    • http://quintuscurtius.com/ Quintus Curtius

      I’d say that’s pretty accurate…!
      When I was there, “eye surgery” (nun susul) was a big deal. That is, turning “Asian” looking eyes in “Western” ones. How sad is that?
      Korean chicks were also obsessed with the usual body issues that girls have, but on top of that, Korean culture has all this weird shit that they fixate on.
      Women are judged harshly on their appearance there. You’ll see fine, fine girls that here would be considered 8s or 9s, but are convinced that because some eyebrow or ear is out of perfect alignment, they’re just average.
      For me, all in all, I’d say that Japanese are my preference. Koreans might have better bodies, but for all around merit, nothing beats a good Japanese girl. The loyalty, good attitude, and willingness to please just get better and better as you get older.
      The Yamato race, guys. They really are superior….!

  • TJ

    This post is pretty spot on and reflects my own experiences. I remember being out in Seoul with a local girl and older Korean men kept cussing her out for it. Japanese girls are much more open to foreigners but Korean girls just have amazing skin from those scrub treatments.

    • http://quintuscurtius.com/ Quintus Curtius

      I can’t tell you how many times I’ve experienced that scenario. Korean guys are dickheads,…no other word for it. Avoid them at all costs. Late at night is the worst, after everyone’s been drinking, then eating “dokk” in red pepper sauce (cochu jang) in stalls by the road. I’ve had altercations with drunk assholes that were–how can I say–distinctly unpleasant.
      You just got to operate under the radar in Korea…a bit more in stealth mode, but it’s doable if you have a tolerance for bullshit…

    • Elena Braun

      What…? And you’re not a dickhead for sleeping with tons of girls and then leaving them?

    • bk

      Did you not here him? Foreigners are beaten all the time for fun by roving gangs in that country. Social status and cash is everything. (And if this makes you care more, as it seems to be, Caucasians and non-Caucasians are beaten equally.) The Koreans do not recognize the singular effort in our creating and building up their country at great difficulty to our lives and economy, which continues to this day.

  • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

    Great post Quintus. “Long legs, muscular asses, and nice facial beauty make for a great combination.”

    Now I want to go to Korea asap: Yellow fever re-activated.

    • http://quintuscurtius.com/ Quintus Curtius

      Yeah, the Korean ass is pretty damn good. And the lack of pubic hair makes for a pleasant experience up close…

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      SOLD

    • Laguna Beach Fogey

      ‘Lack of pubic hair…”

      Ah, so you like the little girl look.

      Fucking weird.

    • Fisto

      Have you every seen a Japanese bush?

      It’s very telling that you can look at a grown woman’s shaven pussy and think about little girls.

      To me that’s fucking weird.

    • snbatman

      Munching on a pussy with a big bunch of hair is not ideal. Would you kiss someone on the lips with a big bunch of hair in your mouth? No, I didn’t think so.

    • QuantumPimpin

      I love hairy pussy.

    • bk

      oral sex doesn’t happen in Korea. It’s pretty conservative, though not as much as they proclaim when puffing up the “han race”.

    • Josh Bar

      Better take the next plane smoking before GODZILLA(fukushima) finishes wrecking shop in japan and heads over to korea!!!

  • Fisto

    I’ve seen some gorgeous Korean girls while roaming around Asia that were on holiday as well. Great first post.

  • Cedric3

    Quintus-
    Do the Japanense or Korean women mind big, stocky guys (I’m built like an offensive lineman and 6’3 or do they like smaller frame and shorter men)???

    What’s a reasonable budget/day for the game traveler Japan or Korea?

    PS-I see why you guys travel to Asia-the women are cute, age well, and aren’t brainwashed psychos like the white women in America. Makes alot of sense why you go to Asia Fisto.

    • http://quintuscurtius.com/ Quintus Curtius

      Sure. Don’t even think in terms of “Will they like…?” Always see yourself in a positive light. Don’t ever imagine yourself with negative qualities. It’s all about confidence, politeness, and respect. East Asia is not like America…forget all that cocky, arrogant, negging type of behavior.
      Be observant, well-behaved, polite, and make people feel good. And the world will turn.
      Budget? Christ, man, I don’t know. Number one rule on money and traveling: look for value. Small hotels or inns are good values.
      I’m not a believer in hostels, unless you’re a student and have little money. You need to have some privacy, and a place to bring girls.
      I also am not a believer in this Couchsurfing bullshit. Sorry, but that’s my opinion. I don’t want to have my style cramped or my schedule compromised by having to come and go at the whims of some stranger.

    • Fisto

      Agree 100%

    • Cedric3

      Thanks for the reply.
      As far as self-image-

      Inner game is the main thing isn’t it? Is there a product you or the Swoop The World Crew can recommend to build inner game????

      As far as money goes-

      Can you hang in Japan and hunt Asian treasures on $200/day????

      Your right hostels SUCK-I HATE them!!!! I also HATE American style game (the mentality is like “Oh I’m the most arrogant guy here!” which is dumb because if you have been in many fights like I have you know from experience that more often than not it’s the dog who doesn’t bark alot but the quiet one who just comes up and bites. You can probablly guess which camp I fall in. Thanks brother-enjoyed your article and all those girls pics are awesome-especially the Japanese girl in the pink.

    • snbatman

      Cedric, if you think “American” style game boils down to “I’m the most arrogant guy here”, then you have no idea what you’re talking about.

      That said, you don’t have to be quiet as physically and vocally dominant to game native Korean and Japanese girls that have not spent a lot of time abroad. Being polite and well behaved can get you in the door. You still have to show you are the leader and in charge, but in a softer way.

      The negging/asshole/arrogant vibe you get from game is based on how masculine American girls act. You have to out “masculine” them to an almost absurd degree at times. It’s all about calibrating.

      The women in Japan and to a lesser degree in Korea act much more feminine, so the man doesn’t have to be over the top to be more masculine in comparison.

    • Fisto

      Perfect insight.

  • 20Nation

    Great post Quintus. I’ve heard that Korean men are too shy to talk to girls for the most part. So the government made cafe’s that sit men and women together (the population is declining). Truth?
    I’d say we have to swoop these two countries in the not to distance future.

    • http://quintuscurtius.com/ Quintus Curtius

      Fuck yeah. Marriages are often arranged. Koreans are so focused on getting into good schools, playing a fucking instrument, and getting a good job that they have little social skills. They’re totally dominated by their families. You’ll see guys on the subway, total dorks, with black shoes and pants with white socks.
      Shortages of women is a big, big problem in China and Korea. Competition for females among Asian men is becoming fierce. This is partly due to a preference for male children, which has resulted in many abortions of female fetuses. Sick and sad. The society is totally fucked up, but your job is not to solve it. Just bang it.

  • Chaos

    Great post Quintus, I’ve also spent some time in these countries and this post nails it. In Seoul I saw some of the hottest asses and legs I’ve seen in my life. But like you wrote,their culture sucks.

  • thormoz

    This article needs more tips on meeting these girls in SEA or Europe. Bangkok has lots of them, but I had very limited success (banged one korean girl and one japanese out of many approaches) with them, they seem to get shocked by a stranger daygaming them. And I never to seem find clubs that they like.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Got my Korean flag in Bangkok as well. She was a party girl but I think that’s the exception.

      You can meet a lot of them in Borocay (Philippines) but as you say, many of them are extremely shy and they get uncomfortable with a direct approach.

    • snbatman

      Korean party girls are a dime a dozen. Plus, the ones who travel abroad are more promiscuous by nature.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      She was a traveling promiscuous party girl.

    • snbatman

      The best kind

    • http://quintuscurtius.com/ Quintus Curtius

      Korean chicks are MUCH less uptight abroad than at home. Swooping them abroad is a good strategy. In Korea, as a foreigner, it’s best to keep everything on the sly. Sad, but true.
      Japanese girls are good to go at home OR abroad.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Got my Korean flag in Bangkok as well. She was a party girl but I think that’s the exception.

      You can meet a lot of them in Borocay (Philippines) but as you say, many of them are extremely shy and they get uncomfortable with a direct approach.

  • http://www.lifestylenomadic.com/ Myles

    Any of you have a good take on Taiwanese women? Just arrived here and so far all the ladies are gentle in nature and of course skinny, but I haven’t seen much curvature. The people in Taiwan compare themselves to the Japanese a lot.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      I didn’t make it to Taiwan last time, Definitely want to go there on my next trip to Asia

  • Nick

    So if you were to choose 1 country to live in for a year, any preference?

  • https://twitter.com/Teedub_5 Teedub

    Great stuff Quintus. I’ve always been fascinated by Japan. It’s just such a different place to anywhere I’ve ever been.

    • https://twitter.com/QuintusCurtius Quintus Curtius

      That’s right…it’s safe to say that it truly is a unique self-contained world. I may be going back this spring…an ex-GF wants me to visit Kyoto with her. Not too keen on the idea, but I’m a sentimental bastard, and history counts for something.

  • Daddy .

    Great post. I find that asian girls use their faces much more to seduce compared to other races. Their very expressive eyes and their forever young smooth cheeks make for a killer combination.

    • https://twitter.com/QuintusCurtius Quintus Curtius

      The Japanese language has a special word for “flowing eyes”. In old Japan, a hallmark of female sexuality was the ability to give a sideways glance, or to allow her eyes to dart furtively in different directions. Subtle, sophisticated, and sexy. God, how I do love it so….

  • “Furious” George Rockwell

    Just show up and don’t be Black and you’re bound to get some hotties.

    • https://twitter.com/QuintusCurtius Quintus Curtius

      Don’t think like that, man. You can easily find girls there that prefer dark skinned dudes.

    • “Furious” George Rockwell

      They tend to be the very fugly ones though. Getting one fugly chick while watching White dudes get a new girl every night and threesomes every weekend isn’t my idea of a good time. I can stay at home for less money and be celibate around women I’m not attracted to vs. wasting money in Asia being celibate around women I want. Blacks shouldn’t go to Asia.

    • J

      Both of you are correct. I thought this was some f’ed up yellow fever site but fer sure you’ve really spent time in Asia. Yes it’s true, normal looking white guys, even goofy looking ones can pretty much get three somes. Those girls that do it are pretty loose though so it’s not standard. As long as you’re not too cocky & can keep a light hearted conversation going..it’s just falls into something they want to try. I’m from Taiwan so I know. It’s true black guys arent the most desirable. A lot of that is rooted in Asia’s preference for light skin. Hence skin whiteners. Hang in there, you’ll find your asian doll cos it does happen. I do have to say, in Taipei clubs back in the 90s like Opium den, TN (or some other 2 letter name), American & European girls were hooking up with Taiwanese guys like crazy. I see ‘em pop in the club & leave within 2 hours. I know from personal experience.

    • hkk

      no one’s getting threesomes in korea. You also must undrstand, this isn’t the West. Our ideas of tolerance are not shared. African Americans will face discrimination.

  • woo

    So it’s okay for you to be sexist and treat Asian women like sex objects on your creepy little sex tours, but then you have the nerve to point out other countries’ racist attitude towards you? Okay then.

    • Fisto

      Yes, he has the nerve to make a note of the social dynamic taking place on the ground. That is the sort of information that is interesting to many travelers. What isn’t interesting is self righteous and indignant comments from the peanut gallery.

    • amenramuxik

      you forgot “gay” peanut gallery.

  • Jwc

    Been married to both. My korean ex was amazingly beautiful. I still think about her on occasion. She turned out to be a real pill though. Ultimately, I think it was her concern for what her parents thought that was the ultimate demise of our marriage.
    Shortly after our divorce, I met and married a Japanese woman. She and her family welcomed me openly. Very sexy and a very attentive and passionate woman. It’s a lot more comfortable being with her.