Do Women Rape Men?

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Do Women Rape Men? 

My name is Fisto, and I am a survivor of RAPE.

I’ve been raped many, many times.  I don’t remember the first time, but I do remember several times that it’s happened.

I didn’t know I had been raped, but when I found out, I realized that it wasn’t just me.

Most men have no idea that women rape men.

It’s probably one of the biggest human rights atrocities to have ever happened.

Men on a daily basis are being sexually assaulted and raped at rates much greater than the number of times women claim it is happening to them.

When I Realized

Before I go on, I should explain how I realized I had been raped, and how you have probably been raped too.

It all started when I saw that a feminist website had linked to my article How to Use Sex: Achieving Greater Alpha.

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Rape Accuser, Male Feminist

I clicked the link and saw that the male feminist blogger David Futrelle had made it sound like I was a misogynist and also took one or two useful sex moves I mentioned and claimed they were sexual assault and rape through legal criteria I will get to later.

 

Naturally I went over to the comments section where I was being attacked to try and clarify a few misconceptions that seemed to have most of the female commenters incensed.

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They seemed to be projecting this horrible nonconsensual scenario onto the sexual encounters I was describing and no matter how many times I tried to correct them by telling them everything was completely consensual and sexy, they insisted that I had done something illegal (curiously they simultaneously insisted that I never got laid and claimed I was addicted to porn).

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Once I realized there was no reasoning with this mob like mentality, I decided to explore the topic of rape for the purpose of this article.  What I found out was shocking.

Shocked!

Futrelle and others informed me that my definition of Rape and Sexual Assault was completely wrong.  *In his comments he uses an avatar of a child (“creepy” as the feminists like to say).

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Never mind that this advice flat out ignores the fact that I mentioned many times that everything was completely consensual,  because I am an openminded person, I decided to hear these women out (or their proxy manginas).  Who better than a woman would know what rape is?  It’s seems logical, after all, women are the ones that decide what they feel is offensive.

Now realize, right now, spitting in someone’s mouth is RAPE, just like forcing your penis inside a woman through physical coercion. 

Surprisingly, I learned that sexual chemistry and intercourse is not something that can take place organically where people communicate their wants or dislikes both verbally and non verbally through body language (like nods and moans of approval).

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As you can see from the above comment, if you do anything outside of the aforementioned agreement you are almost guaranteed to be a rapist. So if I talked about spitting on someones tits (A), and her stomach (B), and her toes (C) but then one time I spit on her hand, well my friends that is RAPE.

Also, intense sex is not called intense natural sex, that is your “Kink”.  So even devoid of spitting, smacking a girls ass is a “kink” that you discuss.

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EVERYTHING must be discussed beforehand, and there must always be a “safety word” in case one of the two partners don’t approve of something that is happening during sex. (if this sounds unnatural and awkward then you are just wrong and need to stop being so ignorant)

“No” is not good enough of a safety word (because women like to say “no” to fulfill rape fantasies) and just a simple “oh I don’t like that” on the fly will never work for reasons that have yet to be explained other than someone could get accidentally raped.

*a “safety word” is an agreed upon word used by BDSM participants to give the signal to stop immediately whatever is going on.  Remember, because you’re a man, you are a potential rapist.

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This is very very important because according to David Futrelle, if you don’t arrange a safety word beforehand and you do something the girl doesn’t like, then at the very least, it’s sexual assault, and if you continue having sex (even if the girl doesn’t say “no” and she’s cumming like old faithful, she could just be intimidated and afraid for her life!)

Now another key point here to understand what the very serious crime of rape is, is to understand that it’s not just the traditional idea that actual rape is rape. No my friends, rape is any sexual penetration or any sort that is unwanted, at any time!

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So you see?  You never actually have consent, even if you have it, you don’t have it.

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Unknown to most people, you can actually rape someone by accident.

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This brought up three very scary key issues about RAPE.

 

1st Very Scary Thing

The first thing that I realized was how David Futrelle basically gives a girl a legal disclaimer with very vague language that could mean almost anything after he lectures everyone else about being very specific about what will take place.
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This is obviously on purpose.  Let me explain.

Consider how he systematically changed the meaning of my article from melding the Red Pill life outlook and the game and personal development of the Alpha Male to become the Greater Alpha to two very insignificant comments about spitting in a girls mouth during sex and whether or not your lower abs are in fact your lower abs.

He pretends to be 100% against rape, makes a big deal about discussing safety words and getting specifics of what can and can’t be done during sex so there’s no room for accidentally raping a girl….

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Rapist?

But then let’s it slip that what he ACTUALLY does, is ask a girl if she wants to “fool around”.

He get’s a girl to agree to this seemingly benign legal contract and then imposes his disgusting perversions on her.

“Fool around” could mean ANYTHING and probably DOES.

Then, in the most cold blooded and remorseless way I’ve ever seen, he says the following:

david-futrelle-time

“Yes is the answer I’ve always gotten”

 

“Yes is the answer I’ve always gotten”.

Look how he gloats about possibly sexually assaulting and raping women and having had one never leave.  As if the absence of being able to escape means they enjoyed whatever he did to them. He is rubbing it in these ladies faces and they’re too blind to even realize it.  He has taken all of these former victims and made them dependent on his blog!

It’s the perfect cover, not unlike the caring little league coach that molests his or her students.

He is hiding in plain sight.

2nd Very Scary Thing;

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When I started thinking about these new standards of what constitutes rape and sexual assault and what feminists themselves say “Men and Women are Equal”, I realized another thing.

I had been raped.

Not once, but many times.

I don’t want to even contemplate how many times I’ve been sexually assaulted.

If you’re a normal man, it’s happened to you too.

All those times when a girl scratched my back?  

Sexual Assault and a few times rape when their were visible marks (sexually charged penetration of my skin).  I didn’t give my consent to that, and I don’t like the way it feels.  There was not a safety word and she kept going.

All those times those girls put their tongue in my ear?

Also Sexual Assault and Rape.  I hate that because it’s a emotional “trigger” that brings up prior trauma from when my older stepbrother would give me wet willies.  Every time it’s happened I’ve just closed my eyes and prayed it would be over soon.  It’s an example of when you rape someone by accident. Or maybe not!

Those few times when girls have slapped MY ass instead of the other way around?

Full on sexual assault and intimidation.  I never consented to that, I hate it.  It makes me feel strange and vulnerable, in a bad way.

All those times a girl touched me in a way I didn’t invite, even if later I decided I liked it, it was Sexual Assault.

Patting my ass, rubbing my shoulders seductively, flat out grabbing my dick in a dance venue…

Remember, according to the women that define rape, you have to get consent first!

I noticed if I kept fucking a girl for a couple of weeks, they would without fail started wanting to get near my asshole in various ways.  

Some girls would just be going down on me and then slowly start licking my balls, in a deliberately sneaky way, before I even had time to say anything, they would start licking my ass and penetrating it slightly with their tongues!  I guess you can by now figure out what that constitutes.

The first girl that ever licked my ass sexually coerced me into letting her do it she started pouting when I said no and she said “But it’s an intimate place and I want to feel closer to you”.  That is horrible manipulation and coercion on her part.

Also, I had a few girls that wanted to stick their fingers in my ass while blowing me and I made it clear that I did not want that at all (which incidentally saved us from sexually assaulting each other since I’m sure the shit on her finger wouldn’t smell pleasant)

 

Look how one commenter at the exact same website, causally describes how she physically assaults and then rapes her boyfriend!

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3rd very scary thing

Almost anything can be claimed as rape, which is ironic considering this comment after I compared one physical attack to another.  Apparently that’s not ok to compare to rape because it didn’t involve sexual overtones and is therefore, not as traumatic.  You see, when you use the word rape in any sort of context besides what these women say, it trivializes it’s meaning.

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Asking Around

I was utterly surprised by my lack of trauma at these revelations, which according to the women on the board was a symptom of severe PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).  Often the victims of these kinds of rape and sexual assault bury their feelings so deep, they don’t even know they were attacked and need other like minded females to tell them them they had been raped.

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Such was the case with me.

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Don’t I know it auggziliary, don’t I know it….

 

I went and spoke to the nearest guy I knew (THC) and he confirmed that all these things had happened to him also!  We both started asking around and virtually EVERY man that we knew had been sexually coerced, manipulated, assaulted, and raped.

What’s even worse is that there is no resource for the millions of men that have been victimized by these women.  

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Potential Rapist?

The situation get’s even more perilous, as a man, if you try to say no, you are SHAMED for it because a woman is both considered “equal” to men when it is convenient, but then they are also considered the “weaker” sex when it comes to physical attacks, and therefore seem to get zero restrictions on that sort of behavior.

In other words, men who have also been raped, because they don’t want to appear weak, don’t take the complaints of other men who  have been raped, seriously.

They are shamed in the workplace and even called homosexuals if they try and thwart unwanted advances. This is very troubling when you consider that most police officers are male and are also of the “macho” variety.

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Being accused of homosexuality can be shameful.

In a speculative study, it turns out that unreported sexual assaults and rapes by women on men violence happens 10 times the rate of men on women sexual assault or rape.

The reason?  Women are not held to the same standards as men, and so have begun exercising their female privilege.

Even the times they are prosecuted for the rapists they are, they are given sentences that are a fraction of what is on average, given to men.

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7/10 WB

Awareness

As men who no longer want to endure these inequalities we must spread the word of what these standards are and make sure women are just as accountable as men.  Until women decide to change the word rape back to actual rape, we must make sure everyone is equal, because that is the only way to live in a fair and just society.

To help spread the awareness, please hashtag #menrapedbywomen and help stop this ugly occurrence and help end rape as we know it.

 

 

 

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Fisto

I’m Fisto, I like to think of myself as a modern day adventurer. I have a roving foot, a desire to write, and a bit of a drinking problem, so having a blog seemed like a natural progression. Cheers.

  • runsonmagic
    • Fisto

      I could have guessed that buddy….I’m sorry.

  • As if David Futrelle knows anything at all about the subject matter he’s talking about. That is legitimately a man who looks like he “never gets laid”!

    • Fisto

      He does, but only through rape I think.

  • eddy

    Poor guy i cant imagine what you went trough. 🙁

    • Fisto

      It’s been a very trying time for me.

  • Vincent Vinturi

    All these male feminists have one thing in common: an utter lack of real world experience. They live in a world of theory and linguistics, you live in the real world full of young cuties just itching to fuc…ahem, rape you.

    That’s the difference that makes the difference.

  • Josh Bar

    My female friend let me borrow her favorite erotic novel. As we all know women LOVE erotic novels and fantasize about the men they read about hoping they would come to life to spice up there ho hum lives. I was SHOCKED on how the man would just TAKE the woman and with the definitions given above RAPE her. If anything this encouraged me to be more sexually aggressive than anything I ever heard or read. The thing is women love these types of books and to top it of it was written by a female author?!? HOW COME I DONT HEAR ANYBODY SCREAM RAPE????

    • splooge

      i know its confusing,women want that romance where you dont ask and just go for it otherwise it kills the mood and youll seem weak or shy for always asking. this “new consent defintion” just treats women as children that cant speak up or ve held accountable. women dont react to logic and blunt questions otherwise every guy could get laid. women are seduced by emotion which takes effort.

  • Josh Bar

    If I’m such a bad guy why does she keep calling me at 2 in the morning?

    • Fisto

      Exactly buddy. The thing is that these women are so far removed from a healthy mental outlook and are usually so physically inactive that the normal healthy hormones coursing through regular people’s bodies are absent. They can’t relate to the attracting that takes place and so project their own sad outlooks onto what they see, and try and recruit other jaded women towards their cause.

  • 20Nation

    I would like to come forward… I have been raped… more times than I can remember. I demand a government funded support group and the reputations of the rapists tarnished and put on a list so everybody will know that they raped me

    • You’re not alone. Me too, I’ve been raped by women. Even last night a girl bit me during sex… Sexual assault! Rape!

      Thanks to David Futrelle and his followers, now our eyes are open; we would have lived our lives not knowing how many times we had been sexually assaulted…

    • Jesse James

      I will join you, for I have indeed been violated hundreds, upon hundreds of times. Sometimes in groups, and the we smoked after. The matriarchy must have had me in a Stockholm syndrome paradox that I am just waking up from.

    • Fisto

      I forgot all about Stockholm syndrome! That is for sure another element!

  • Cedric3

    One answer to this Anglosphere Feminzai Insanity-

    Expat!

    A guy who explains how feminism and Western decline really work-

    http://www.savethemales.ca/180302.html

  • Nikola Cvrtnjak

    Ohh shit, I was a victim too 🙁

    ;). Good article bro!

    • Fisto

      The more you realize how much it occurs the more you realize, every woman is a potential rapist.

  • Jesse James

    Geeez. I don’t know what is worse rape, the fact that a woman wanted to tongue your ass….or that you had to painfully read what Dbag Futrelle and company think of their sex lives.

    Be it imaginary, most likely scenario, or be it with land whales that have an affinity for cats; either case is mortifying.

    Let’s quit joking, Dbag and company telling you about their love life, as non existent as it must be even in their imagination, is by far the worse rape you have ever experienced. I am far, far, far away from you; and II feel totally violated.

    • Fisto

      Yes, they raped my mind.

  • splooge

    would love to see this go viral. but you should link this article to a bigger platform like rok or on ememy territory like jizzbel

  • splooge

    would love to see this go viral. but you should link this article to a bigger platform like rok or on ememy territory like jizzbel

  • Amagi

    Damned! I was raped yesterday. I was peacefully watching hockey and drinking beer, when gf came and took my dick out of my pants and started sucking it. You guessed it, without consent. And that is not all, then she climbed on top of me, so that it became difficult, if not impossible to watch the match, a move I most certainly did not consent to. Wow, just wow!

    • Fisto

      The imagery is almost to much to bear….

  • Amagi

    I think I need counselling…

  • Freeman

    I’ve been raped until my dick grew scabs and neck pulsed red with bite marks, but I didn’t mind that much. Honestly though, I like the tone of this post. Perhaps it’s time to start prepping for an “equal gender norms” week, or “female privilege” week in the manosphere. Some topics for consideration:

    Birth gender privilege
    Bathroom sex discrimination is like Jim Crow Laws
    Workplace death gender privilege
    Epidemic of unreported drunk male rape victims
    Child custody gender privilege
    Alimony prosecution gender privilege
    etc…

  • Cedric3

    Fisto-
    With your combat sports knowledge, what kind of combat sports are good to prevent getting raped by either sex? Aren’t Wrestlers the Kings of combat (Bones Jones, Velasquez, Lesnar, Hughes, etc.)???

    What lifting routine do you use now (5×5,3×8,etc.) so you’ll never be seriously violated again?

  • Buddy Orion

    One time my dad came up to my mother one morning and spun her around and kissed her RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!! He literally RAPED my mother right in front of me that son of a bitch. I wish that we could reach out and stop the horrible crime of parents raping each other, especially with kids around who will think it’s okay to perform Public Demonstrations of Rape (PDR).

  • James Angus

    Some of my rapists even tormented me with photos and video of my violation. I’m filing for disability payments based on PTSD immediately.

    • Fisto

      I am so sorry to hear this. Stay strong.

  • Keanu

    I’m sorry to hear about your rape. I’m a survivor as well.

    I think David Futrelle just has no idea what it’s like to be fucking a girl so wildly that you start doing shit like spitting in her mouth. Who would want to fuck that guy? He’s disgusting.

    Opening her mouth during is sexual assault? That is literally insane. Sexual assault is the modern day witchhunt. Can you imagine the witness on the stand arguing this in a court of law?

    Girl “Well it was great sex, I told him ‘fuck me harder, harder,’ and I moaned a little bit. I told him to slap me on the ass hard and he did that and I liked it. But then he spat in my face and I was like ewwww gross, I didn’t agree to that.”

    Judge: “Aha! Guilty!’

    I was ‘raped’ to lose my virginity. Older girl, I was blackout drunk in high school on a college visit, she totally wanted some ass, and I literally don’t remember anything about the night except that she was on top of me and I somehow had a boner. I woke up the next day and thought, “damn, that was dumb, and not even that fun. I should be less drunk next time I have sex, and maybe do it with someone I actually know.”

    I didn’t think ‘Oh my god, I shall now ruin this girl’s life by reporting this drunken sex to the authorities as ‘rape’ or ‘sexual assault,’ thus taking no accountability for this mistake I have made.”

    That sy1verdrake comment is PRICELESS. Classic female projection of ‘I feel this way so EVERYONE MUST FEEL THIS WAY.’ On top of that the exact scenario she describes is RAPE.

    I’ve comforted girls who have made mistakes, mostly drunken, when they are in college. I feel bad for them. But it’s not rape. If you videotaped most of these instances they would be wildly into it, just like I probably was when that girl got on top of me. The issue begins when their feminist friends are like, ‘honey, if you didn’t like it when he spat in your mouth, you need to report that. It’s assault.’ Please. That is insulting to victims of actual assault who were held down against their will.

    For me, the problem starts on college campuses where feminists need something to do, but there is really nowhere else they can go with their movement, so they just work on being more entitled. I just visited my alma mater and Sexual Assault Support posters were plastered literally all over campus. The problem is, girls can just accuse guys of sexual assault willy nilly and the college administration steps in to handle it, not a court of law where you are actually innocent until proven guilty.

    ‘Stop rape’ really does turn guys into pussies while also making them feel guilty for just being male. They don’t want to escalate without a CLEAR VERBAL SIGNAL of ‘ok, yes you can do __x__.’ This is just not how a hookup works in reality. You just escalate and go at it, and if you do something that crosses someone’s line, you don’t do it again, but it’s not rape. Jesus. How retarded is Futrelle. He’ll say anything to gain the approval of his feminist blogger groupies.

    This turned into an epic rant of a comment lol. I hate arguing with feminists in general..I prefer to ignore them. But sometimes they need to be called on their rampant bullshit. Well done sir.

    • Excellent rant Keanu, great comment.

      “That is insulting to victims of actual assault who were held down against their will.”

      Exactly, all what this rape tourette and claiming “sexual assualt” does is take away from the severity of actual rape.

    • Fisto

      Great post buddy.

  • Miss.Lt

    I think raping a man and raping a woman depends on how they feel. Some women wake up from a drunken mistake and think “what did I do” and others drag you through court because ‘a drunken no is still a no’. Never met one but I’m sure there’s men who have said no to someone plenty and wake up in the morning feeling set up and used. I think it comes down to how people behave and not one gender or the other. Using proper terminology is also key. We can’t call everything rape come on now.

    • Fisto

      I’m not sure I follow you. You are saying that if a woman “feels” raped, then she was raped? That could happen theoretically without even having sex.

      Further, what if the guy “feels” he didn’t rape the girl? Are his feelings just completely tossed out the window?

      I’ve had girls say “no” while they’re putting my dick inside them. Was that rape?

      And that’s an excellent point you bring up, “everything” shouldn’t be called rape, but women are doing it.

  • Jody Dayton Peace

    The only thing that tub of lard knows about rape (apart from his S&M fantasies – Note: which is how he knows about safe words) is what his left hand does to himself each night as he views the comments and profile photos of the dike brigade he panders to.

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      You should photoshop the guys head onto a Jabba the Hutt photo… with one of his dike’s heads on princess Leia’s chained body… lol…

    • I appreciate your creative input haha

  • PAUL BAKER

    Some years ago a women i knew as carol invited me back to hers for dinner when we were in she said i have got something better she grabbed me tied me up and gagged me and had sex with me for hours she was a big strong woman she then trussed me up and tightened my gag and went out i just lay there helpless unable to move or make a sound for 12 hours until she came back she then removed my gag and made me have oral sex with her for hours and untied me and let me go i met her some weeks later and she said are you alright and i said yes and forgave her it is not as bad for a man and we had a good relationship a woman can get away with it i can accept that