10 observations from banging 100 girls

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Observations on Women

2013 has been an incredible year for me; I traveled a lot of countries across the world and smashed a lot of exotic girls.

In 2013 I banged well over 100 girls covering the entire spectrum of personalities: I met pure angels and I met some of the worst kind too; I smashed virgins and I smashed super sluts. From each interaction I got something.

In the past year I had some moments when I slowed it down and had a mini relationship, other times I maintained a group of regulars and sometimes I was smashing a few new girls a day (Full Month Cunt Hunt). I did exactly what I wanted to do and when I wanted to do it.

Having this kind of variety not only in types of girls but also in the metre of intensity is the key to long term traveling and adventuring.

Since January is the month of reflection and making resolutions, I’ll look back on some observations I made from banging a large variety of girls.

 

1) Don’t waste time on chicks that are not interested

not-interested

There’s a difference between a girl that’s not attracted to you yet versus a girl that is just not interested in you. You have to know what you are dealing with. Usually this will be clear from the very first interaction with her. If a girl is not interested in you don’t waste your time trying to convince her otherwise. For nearly all the girls I banged I had some sign of interest from the very start.

You are better off investing the time you spend trying to convince this one girl that’s not interested in you in finding 10 other girls that are. In fact the harder you try to convince that girl the worse you make it.

The few times I turned around a cold girl to being interested were actually by soft-nexting her. Sporadically keep in touch with her and only try to make a move again after a few months. Maybe her situation has changed and she’s now ready to meet you because you didn’t display any neediness at all during that time.

Don’t next a girl as soon as you reach an obstacle though; just be wise about your time investments and don’t prioritize the girls that are cold to you from the start.

 

2) It’s 100 times easier to find a new girl than to repair a fuck up

repair

A lot of newbie questions on game are about how to fix a specific situation with a specific girl. And that is normal; it is in our nature as men to want to fix and repair things that are broken. But if you fucked things up with a girl, you are really better off forgetting about the whole affair and moving on to the next girl, where you can start off with a clean slate. Just learn from your mistakes!

Over the past year I fucked up a few times and lost some really cool girls.

Examples of fuck ups:

  • Failing her shit tests
  • Misreading her signals
  • Going sexual too early
  • Not pushing for sex enough
  • Breaking your frame
  • Acting incongruently

Some fuck ups can be corrected, if they are not too big and not too often, but once you reach a threshold and she classifies you as undesirable or unsuited, it’s game over.  Trying to repair your mistakes will likely make you break your frame and come across as needy. Even if you manage to “repair” a situation you will have lost some of your power in the process and your relationship with her will never be the same again. Your weaker frame is now the new default.

The best repair when you fuck up with a girl is to move on.

 

3) You control whether you are put in a lover role or a provider role

lover-provider

You decide in which role you let yourself be put. You do not want to be put into the provider role even if you’re looking for a LTR (long term relationship). If she sees you as a provider, she will make you wait for sex and try to get you to spend on her and eventually she will find another man to fulfill the lover role.

You have to start out as being her lover, she will then start and try to convert you into a provider (the betaization process). But if you start out as her “provider”, you can no longer change into being her lover anymore.

Here are some of the mistakes that can get you labeled as a provider:

Providing for her

This holds up especially is she has means for herself but also if she doesn’t. I visited some really poor countries and sometimes it was tempting to just pay for things. You absolutely CAN help her out, some girls really couldn’t afford paying a taxi or public transport, but even in those situations you have to make sure she is not thinking of you as a way to get free stuff. You can help her but only after you have established a connection. E.g. if you meet a girl online it’s obviously a bad idea to buy her phone credits before you even met.

Trying to impress her with your means

Trying to impress a girl is a bad move anyway but trying to impress her with material things is even worse. The only thing you are achieving when you try to brag about your possessions or finances is getting her to think how much she can mooch off you.

Not being sexual enough

I made this mistake a few times and I always paid for it dearly. Like that last time, I had already banged a new girl and had a regular coming over later at night, so I was a little bit lazy with my current date. I got her to my room but during her LMR routine I got sick of it and thought: “Whatever, I’ll get her next time”. She interpreted this as me not being sufficiently sexual and sure enough next time I had a hard time getting her to meet up again.

She didn’t want to come to my place anymore: “I want to go to a dinner” / “I want you to take me to the movies”

You have to push for sex always and you have to get your LMR skills up to level.

Read some more thoughts on pushing for sex in my article on the Power Shift After Sex: http://swooptheworld.com/the-power-shift-after-sex/

 

4) You have to fuck her well on the first night

good-sex

This fits in with being a lover rather than a provider. You have to be congruent with your role as a lover and be able to please her passionately.

After you go through the whole game of seduction and she has classified you as a lover and decided to give it up for you, it’s your turn to deliver and fuck her really well. If you want to see her again you have continue your lover frame in the bedroom; leave the romantic love making for her boyfriend or for when you know each other better – now it’s time for fucking her brains out.

Dominate her and let her feel dominated, she wants to be taken. Make her cum and make her feel like a woman.

Even if you don’t care of seeing her again, you have to make this your default performance for the first time you smash a girl, it’s just part of your frame

Read Fisto’s article how to use sex for more information.

 

5) Women lie more than men

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We all know the beaten to death “opener” from the PUA-days of yore. The question is supposed to raise some controversy or polarized opinions, but to me this question is as debatable as “who menstruates more”? The more women you get to know and the more you learn about them, the more obvious this reality becomes.

Besides the normal lies everybody makes (men and women alike) women ADD two full categories of lies on top of these:

1) Justified lies that she doesn’t even register as lies

Women love to appear as innocent little angels and they will lie about anything that could damage this self view without giving it a second thought. Lies to protect this innocent identity are automatically justified and she doesn’t even consider them to be lies.

For example, it will be very rare for a woman to give you an honest answer on her number of previous sex partners (read Innocence is a weapon). Like that guy that banged her on her trip to Jamaica: “Didn’t count”, and that one time she was drunk: “That didn’t count either”, also that one time the guy just kept insisting: “Not her fault, so it doesn’t count”. These lies don’t even register as lies to her, because she made herself believe them.

2) Lies she doesn’t even realize she’s making

Another category of lies that women make are those they don’t even realize. Listen to every single description a woman gives about what her ideal man should be (sweet, caring, romantic, kind, a gentleman, etc.) or about what she wants (I don’t want sex on the first date, I only want a serious relationship, etc.). Only the fact is that the guy they get wet for doesn’t happen to portray these qualities. No, they are attracted to the guy that doesn’t fall for their bullshit, who’s not afraid to show his sexuality and who pushes for sex on the first date.

But can we really blame women for this? It’s just how they are programmed, right? Can we really blame the lion for eating a baby zebra?

We all have to accept our nature, but women are like lions prancing around the African savanna claiming they are vegetarian.

When you meet a lion you can trust on it’s not a vegetarian; the same way can trust that a woman is not as innocent as she would like to have you believe.

vegetarian

From all the girls I met, none of them were as innocent as they tried to appear. Read:

Don’t get fooled by her words or sweet appearance. Which brings us to the next point.

 

6) DON’T listen to a woman’s words, listen to her actions

dont-listen-to-words

As discussed in the previous point, women often have no clue that they are lying and some of their lies are not even registered as such; you can never take a woman’s words seriously.

In fact when you take a woman’s words literally or seriously, you will actually be losing attraction from her.

A perfect example of this is a girl’s ASD (anti slut defense) or LMR (last minute resistance). A woman will tell you “No, stop! I don’t want to have sex with you!” while she is helping you take of her pants in your bed. Should you actually listen to her, she will resent you for it. She will think “What a loser, how can he not understand the signals I’m sending him.”

Women EXPECT you not to listen to her words and instead read the signs that she’s sending you.

A great example was this girl I had met at a party, I ended up at her place but I forgot my condoms. She explained me in detail how to get to the 7-11 near her apartment to go and buy condoms; yet as I’m putting on my shoes to head out she tells me: “But we’re not going to have sex!!!” (full story here)

 

7) You can and should judge a woman by her past

judge-a-woman-by-her-past

The best predictor of future behavior is … past behavior

This maxim holds water especially when it comes to predicting a woman’s loyalty. The less men she has slept with before, the more likely she can be a loyal girl, with a huge drop in the curve between 0 and 1.

There are good girls, sluts and everything in between and it’s an illusion that many men love to adapt to believe they can change the nature of a girl. This illusion is false. A slutty girl can shift upward on the good girl scale, but only a little bit and with a clear time constraint. The bigger the slut, the smaller this behavioral shift is and the shorter this time window will be.

Your best guarantee to finding a girl that can remain loyal to you is to find a virgin. From all the girls I’ve slept with in the past year the girls that have been most trustworthy and loyal are the girls that were virgins.

In contrast, take Kanya for example, one of my regular girls in Thailand. I knew from the start she was a party girl but I demanded loyalty from her. Even though she was completely in love with me at that time, I later found out that she had “cheated” on me while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. Some girls crave male attention and they need it like they need oxygen. You cannot change that, you can only control it for a specific time.

You can’t turn a slut into a good girl, even if they are in love

It is up to you to find out what you want from a girl, if loyalty is important to you make no illusions about changing her nature and just accept your girls as they are.

Fisto wrote a great article on The Nature of Sluts that will be republished soon.

 

8) Drama is predictable

drama

If you spend enough time with any girl drama is a guarantee. Do not believe that you can avoid it.  There is no such thing as a stable, status quo relationship with a woman. Relationships are a battlefield where the woman will not cease to claim power over her man.

She will keep testing his frame to find weaknesses. A woman’s weapon of choice to do so is drama.

A good prediction on when to expect drama is ironically after you have been too nice to her. If a woman senses she’s gaining ground with you, she will try to anchor her gains by eliciting an emotional reaction from you. She will test your boundaries by starting drama. She doesn’t need a direct reason, if she doesn’t find a specific trigger, she will CREATE one. With the drama she will start making demands, e.g. to see her more often, to spend more time with her, to be monogamous, etc.

She’s testing your reaction to her irrational behavior.

An example from one of my Dominican girls:

It was the first time I had let her sleep over at my place. She was so happy and telling me how great I am and how much she loved me. She had just acquired a new privilege so I knew drama was coming. The next day I didn’t reply immediately to one of her messages (this had never been a problem, sometimes I wouldn’t respond to her for days) this time however, she started sending followup messages: “Why don’t you reply?! You never have time for me! OK, I will never see you again”.

So very predictable. If you’re girl is giving you drama always remember what is going on and don’t fall in the trap of trying to solve it with logic. It isn’t about the logic for her!

Read some more on drama in  http://swooptheworld.com/the-secret-to-never-letting-a-girl-affect-your-frame/

There is no such thing as a drama free relationship with a woman: A red pill man can only rest in his grave.

 

9) Willingness to walk away & Calling her bluff

willingness-to-walk-away

One of the best weapons for a man to keep the upper hand in a relationship with a girl is the willingness to walk away.

A woman can never feel like you need her more than she needs you. There is no such thing as a healthy, perfectly balanced relationship. One person will always have the upper hand, one person will always want the other more. You have to make sure that’s it’s you who has the upper hand.

A girl having the upper hand in a relationship is a recipe for disaster; a girl can’t be given power over you, she will immediately use it to claim more but she won’t be happy when she gets it. She’ll lose respect for you not being able to control her.

As soon as you are in some way dependent on a girl, emotionally or by other means, she WILL exploit this to establish power over you.

Emotional investment will be exploited

That is why you should never give her full security or commitment and always display a willingness to walk away from her and the relationship. The best way to do this is to have options for yourself. Always have many girls in your life. Never make one girl the priority in your life.

A lot of times women will bluff (drama: “you will never see me again!”) to test your reaction. If you have other girls to fall back on, you are much more likely to be unaffected and call out her bluff by showing your willingness to walk away. She will see her drama didn’t work and come back to you with increased attraction and commitment and the power balance in the relationship will remain.

Occasionally you may lose a girl and it sucks to lose one of your favorite girls, but you are better off losing a girl then being controlled by her.

You are better off losing a girl then being controlled by her

 

10) Women do NOT understand themselves and you can’t explain it to them

woman-dont-understand-themselves

Women are unaware of all these messed up behaviors discussed above, they act impulsively on their emotions and then later try to rationalize their behavior trying to make sense of it all.

For science I have tried to explain the Red Pill theory and these observations to one of the most rational and logical (smart!) girls I have met so far; surprisingly she could relate to it. Less surprisingly this did not impact her behavior in the slightest way. I predicted her behavior to the letter and still with this information and the goal to proof me wrong she could not control her emotions and was ashamed to admit I was right. It’s a force stronger than rationality and logic.

More research data is required (working on it) – stay tuned for part two covering more observation.

Peace,

TravelHardcore (THC)

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I’m TravelHardcore, but people simply call me THC, although I don’t smoke. I speak several languages, train Muay Thai, and suffer from insomnia. I left a well paying job, stuck in a miserable office to go out and see the world. I simply live for adventure. Cheers.
  • SDJ

    Wow, incredible insight. Laying down some wisdom here. Do you have any
    recommended resources (books, blogs, porn?) on how to fuck a girl
    well? Sounds childish, but I’m sure every guy could improve.

    • Fisto

      Don’t worry. That post is coming tomorrow.

  • Josh Bar

    3) Not being sexual enough. Sometimes I feel like LMR is part of the (seduction) courtship, role playing. If you give up on the first sign of resistance shes gona think “you don’t want her bad enough” LMR is also an excuse to tell her friends and make her seem innocent ” I didn’t give it up easy I resisted but he was so charming I caved in”

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      She might think “You don’t want it bad enough” or “You don’t know how to to do it”, both are bad.
      Women definitely use it as excuse to keep their self view of being innocent little angel girls intact. She removes responsibility for sex to you “well, I said no, but he kept on insisting” so it’s no longer her fault the sex happened

    • pipeliner

      THC, i’ve been searching info about disarming-LMR (from u, fisto or 20nation) but I can’t find any, can u point me to the right direction?

  • Josh Bar

    4) You got to bring out the A+ GAME if your a minute man she probably won’t call you back lol
    8)How does the saying go? ” women understand women and they hate each other”
    9)”She’ll lose respect for you not being able to control her.”
    “You are better off losing a girl then being controlled by her” GREAT POINTS
    GREAT ARTICLE

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Thanks for the feedback Josh.

      “women understand women and they hate each other” – Women really are horrible friends to each other too. I always have to laugh at this clip on friendship between girls:

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypWaLxo32mE

  • DAP

    #10 is the most important observation of all. We can literally show these females the play book on Red Pill knowledge and they will still do the fucked-up shit that comes natural to them.
    That’s why it’s pointless trying to educate these chicks on game and just fuck them instead.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Exactly, accept women for how they are and learn learn “how to do the dance”.

    • All Points Bulletin

      Actually, I thought #7 was better. In this day and age of social activism and “You can’t judge me!” (which is quite laughably wrong), people have been brainwashed into thinking that everything is a grey zone and nothing can be defined as a concrete right or wrong.

      Rather than play their game, don’t be afraid to show them that their shit does stink and they aren’t “good enough” just by showing up for that participation ribbon.

      You’re better than that, so that’s nothing to sweat over.

  • Fisto

    Great article buddy. This is next level knowledge.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Thanks amigo

  • Smooth Operator

    Top notch insights in this well written article! Must read for all men.

  • Gfresh404

    #10 Reminded me of this: http://imgur.com/ihF13ie

  • Felipe Nuño

    Agree with all, I always try to get first date sex with a girl no matter if this will cost me the girl. If she walks away then she wasn’t really attracted in me. Good riddance I say “On to the next!”

    • Fisto

      I don’t think that is what is being said.

  • runsonmagic

    I’m thinkin of making the smartphone transition. What was the difference for you and how did the phone help your game?

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      I must have missed this comment, sorry buddy. You should 100% get a smart phone. If only to contact your girls / staying in contact with the free texting apps (What’s app, Viber, Skype, WeChat, Line, Facebook, et al.)

      Also it’s a must have tool to make digital memories of your conquests ;)

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  • Vincent Vinturi

    “If a woman senses she’s gaining ground with you, she will try to anchor her gains by eliciting an emotional reaction from you.”

    Well said.

  • Inside UoM

    This is absolutely golden. Agree with it all. Good tip: Keep this page bookmarked in case you’re ever slipping into beta mainstream fantasies.

  • Nomad

    If you fuck all the virgins then where will the rest of us find any?

    • All Points Bulletin

      I doubt dude found ANY virgins.

  • disqus_HuIcw3jUGX

    Mate, I have to tell you as this is the first time I’ve visited your site. I came straight to this article with a “Who does this guy think he is?” mindset. Looking for some reason to “prove you wrong”

    Thankfully for me, the more points I read and the more I compared what you were saying to my own life experience the more I realized you were and are the real deal and by the time I hit Point 10 that position was only solidified even more and for that I thank you.

    Whether or not guys realize it yet, what you write here will have a profound impact on their social and sexual lives if they choose to listen and again I thank you for that.

    Keep kicking ass bro.

    Much love from Australia.
    N

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Thanks mate!

  • NiceGuyGoneCad

    This article is PURE GOLD. So many Red Pill content in a few words. Gentlemen, spread it far and wide.

  • 20Nation

    Great article. All 10 observations are spot on

  • JJ Roberts

    > If you spend enough time with any girl drama is a guarantee.

    Depends on 3 things – the emotional maturity of the girl, the type of relationship and your level of emotional maturity.

    If it’s a conventional 2.0 relationship (i.e. dating) then there will be 2 central issues – fidelity and commitment. Commitment in this scenario means a promise or pledge designed to restrict ones freedom or choice.

    She will believe that getting you to do this is important.

    Commitment in 3.0 unfenced just means an autonomous choice to see each other again so this becomes a non-issue.

    As for fidelity. If you are honest from the beginning that you have zero interest in fenced relationships (sexually exclusive) and you know how to frame the conversation properly, again its a non-issue.

    As for the level of emotional maturity of the guy in the relationship – she is expecting you to lead. So lead. If done properly you will bring a level of maturity of her that matches your own.

    Demand high standards and make it clear you have zero tolerance for low maturity behaviour like jealousy and possessiveness.

    > Do not believe that you can avoid it.

    You can. I have had zero relationships drama from women in the last 12 years despite having many concurrent unfenced relationships.

    > There is no such thing as a stable, status quo relationship with a woman.

    I have a lot of them. Of my current unfenced relationships, the longest one has been going on for 12 years. Some for more than 10 years and some as recent as a couple of weeks.

    > Relationships are a battlefield where the woman will not cease to claim power over her man.

    Again you are describing 2.0 relationships. Of course if she believes that her chances of survival are wrapped up in getting you to restrict your freedoms and ideas of sexual exclusivity then this is the perfect recipe for a power struggle.

    > There is no such thing as a healthy, perfectly balanced relationship.

    That was my experience of 2.0 too.

    > As soon as you are in some way dependent on a girl, emotionally or by other means, she WILL exploit this to establish power over you.

    Yes she will if she believes that it is necessary. Again, setting the frame and type of relationship you are going to have is your job, not hers. You are the man.

    Don’t let her run on her default programming.

    > Women do NOT understand themselves

    True.

    > and you can’t explain it to them

    I can and routinely do.

    • Fisto

      Roberts, no one cares about your couchsurfing “relationships” where you shag some skank and tell her all this horse manure, then leave the next day and claim there was “no drama” in your “relationship”.

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      JJ, if a guy is not getting drama from a woman then it would seem to me that they don’t care enough about him or losing him, or they are getting paid by him and fear losing the income. In my experience it is incredibly rare not to get some type of drama for each and every girl, if you are around them long enough. Perhaps not being on the same page with this is due to your perception of what constitutes ‘drama’ and what is ‘normal’?

    • SDJ

      Idiot 3.0

  • QuantumPimpin

    Awesome

  • Tristan Hamish

    Sexist Bullshit. We are in the 21st century people, and you talk about shit like this?

    • Beenthere Doneit

      Tristan, are you sure your family name is not “Amish”? … Just think about how less trouble with Isolde you would have had if you had read these advices first …

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Amish know how to handle women pretty well, actually. Unlike Hamish. ;)

    • GetItGoing

      21st century and women still behave the same, and now even worse.

      Case closed.

    • All Points Bulletin

      I thought it was creative writing at its finest.

  • FX_Boston

    What’s so special about banging out skanks?

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  • Jose L Romero

    Great Post THC!

  • Gamma M

    Great post!

  • The Traveller

    Amazing article, I loved the read. Everything is so true, well explained and concise. It gave me back to the real world. Thanks man

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Thanks for your feedback!

  • Rayberto Lindsay

    Finally someone who get’s it.i have been giving my friends these same pointers and to no avail they just don’t listen.glad i see someone else who shares the same views and concepts.great article bro,peace from The Bahamas.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      Thanks Rayberto. It’s your friends’ loss. Some friends just seem to prefer learning the hard way

  • Noname

    You’re a sad disgusting twisted individual, you know? You seriously suggest that shagging a 100 women gives you an understanding of them at all? Hell, why do we have whole departments at universities and all this research into human psychology and behaviour? They should have just f***ked a 100 of each sex, publish their impressions and call them results. Please think seriously about getting sterilised. We wouldn’t like any more idiotisms like this spreading. Your fans should probably also consider this option.

    • Smooth Operator

      There is one valid point in your rant: researchers in human psychology and behaviour at universities should indeed get out of their ivory towers, put on their boots and get in the field. Then they will experience reality as THC got instead of publishing papers based on “double blind placebo controlled randomized clinical trails” and “surveys”. Reality over theory darling.

    • MadMen

      boom

    • Jody Dayton Peace

      Well said, Smooth.

      Why do the uni types do it like that? They make money from it, and can use it to push their establishment agendas, which are anti-nature and anti-man.

    • GetItGoing

      If being with/spending time with/observing behaviors of an enormous amount of women doesn’t give a man a much better understanding, then what does?

      Personally I’ll take advice from men who have paid their dues any day over textbook academia who live a sheltered life.

    • All Points Bulletin

      Oh, I dunno…hearing the same bullshit from other guys in your circle?

      Much of the advice from “men who have paid their dues” is common sense. I don’t need a degree in rocket science to know that three divorces happens when you marry three women you’ve met in bars.

    • All Points Bulletin

      You let trolling rustle you that badly? A guy who fucks 100 mostly decrepit women would have hung himself by now.

  • Oki

    Hi there Mr THC;) Well, I must admit, this is one of the most fascinating articles I have ever read. I am a woman by the way. I probably should not be reading this, but hey, your article is really good. And I will tell you why. Interestingly, just a few years ago when I was still pretty innocent and still with my ex who was my first ever man (in bed and all that), I would have considered you a complete ashole after reading your post. You probably know that. I was in love, loyal and faithful in a relationship which lasted over six years. Living in a beautiful bubble. Sometimes I wish it had never burst. Nevertheless, two years after we had split up, I have now been with ten more men. Please, you do not have to trouble yourself multiplying this number, I am being honest. To me some of these men were an exciting adventure, exploration of the unknown, most of them I probably hoped to be with long term. I might be wrong but from my limited, average or maybe extensive experience (?) (yep, whatever, go ahead and judge) I can conclude that some of the men I have met had been the Alpha Males in the making. I could write a book on this subject myself, but I think they failed on a few of the tips you mentioned. To be perfectly honest with you I actually like you. You know, a guy who puts so much effort into exploring women psychologically and physically to this extend, deserves a f**** Oscar. I am not kidding you. And I am not being sarcastic either. To be honest if you know things I didn’t know about my own body until now, and I am 27, this is fantastic. Why the hell would I want to be with anybody else if the guy of my dreams treats me gently like a 5 year old girl when I have my mood swings, tells me I look great even when I’m jealous, takes me seriously and with respect and then he gently dominates me in bed (please take a note, most women don’t like spitting in their mouths, the rest would definitely work for me) and gives me best orgasms ever? Why on Earth would I not want to be loyal to him? Well, I think you should literally open up a school and train guys to be just like you. Women do lie, it is true. You see, we are not only being scrutinized by Men, we have to face our biggest critics – other Women. And of course ourselves and our complicated nature. Yes, I would love to meet a man who is able to do all that, to understand the twisted logic I sometimes struggle to conquer myself. As a woman, I would like to find a man who would control me in a way but who would also be willing not only to leave when I try to be a nasty bitch, but who would also be prepared to stay with me for as long as we live. An Alpha Male who would be a human and not just an animal and a sex machine and have a heart and respect for himself. Someone who would demand loyalty, friendship and understanding from me, but who would be prepared to be a loyal partner in return. A friend that challenges you and whose company you really enjoy. A guy who is straight forward and can kill my moods by making me laugh is like a dream come true. You see, you have met so many girls, but if you
    never bothered to care you missed the ones that probably actually
    loved you. You said you lost some good ones… A shame. You do not stop
    and allow yourself to feel because you probably got hurt really badly in
    the past. I know how awful it feels. Loving someone does not mean you are dependent on them. It is accepting that with this One, you do not have to fear the failure. I know you probably know better, but I still hope (I am a stubborn one! :)) that this crazy dream is not just a beautiful illusion. I read a few articles on this page and have probably mixed up bits from the three of you guys, but I think you do in the end share the same story. Thanks anyway. Kind regards.

  • Oki

    Hi there Mr THC;) Well, I must admit, this is one of the most
    fascinating articles I have ever read. I am a woman by the way. I
    probably should not be reading this, but hey, your article is really
    good. And I will tell you why. Interestingly, just a few years ago when I
    was still pretty innocent and still with my ex who was my first ever
    man (in bed and all that), I would have considered you a complete ashole
    after reading your post. You probably know that. I was in love, loyal
    and faithful in a relationship which lasted over six years. Living in a
    beautiful bubble. Sometimes I wish it had never burst. Nevertheless, two
    years after we had split up, I have now been with ten more men. Please,
    you do not have to trouble yourself multiplying this number, I am being
    honest. To me some of these men were an exciting adventure, exploration
    of the unknown, most of them I probably hoped to be with long term. I
    might be wrong but from my limited, average or maybe extensive
    experience (?) (yep, whatever, go ahead and judge) I can conclude that
    some of the men I have met had been the Alpha Males in the making. I
    could write a book on this subject myself, but I think they failed on a
    few of the tips you mentioned. To be perfectly honest with you I
    actually like you. You know, a guy who puts so much effort into
    exploring women psychologically and physically to this extend, deserves a
    f**** Oscar. I am not kidding you. And I am not being sarcastic either.
    To be honest if you know things I didn’t know about my own body until
    now, and I am 27, this is fantastic. Why the hell would I want to be
    with anybody else if the guy of my dreams treats me gently like a 5 year
    old girl when I have my mood swings, tells me I look great even when
    I’m jealous, takes me seriously and with respect and then he gently
    dominates me in bed (please take a note, most women don’t like spitting
    in their mouths, the rest would definitely work for me) and gives me
    best orgasms ever? Why on Earth would I not want to be loyal to him?
    Well, I think you should literally open up a school and train guys to be
    just like you. Women do lie, it is true. You see, we are not only being
    scrutinized by Men, we have to face our biggest critics – other Women.
    And of course ourselves and our complicated nature. Yes, I would love to
    meet a man who is able to do all that, to understand the twisted logic I
    sometimes struggle to conquer myself. As a woman, I would like to find a
    man who would control me in a way but who would also be willing not
    only to leave when I try to be a nasty bitch, but who would also be
    prepared to stay with me for as long as we live. An Alpha Male who would
    be a human and not just an animal and a sex machine and have a heart
    and respect for himself. Someone who would demand loyalty, friendship
    and understanding from me, but who would be prepared to be a loyal
    partner in return. A friend that challenges you and whose company you
    really enjoy. A guy who is straight forward and can kill my moods by
    making me laugh is like a dream come true. You see, you have met so many
    girls, but if you
    never bothered to care you missed the ones that probably actually
    loved you. You said you lost some good ones… A shame. You do not stop
    and allow yourself to feel because you probably got hurt really badly in

    the past. I know how awful it feels. Loving someone does not mean you
    are dependent on them. It is accepting that with this One, you do not
    have to fear the failure. I know you probably know better, but I still
    hope (I am a stubborn one! :)) that this crazy dream is not just a
    beautiful illusion. I read a few articles on this page and have probably
    mixed up bits from the three of you guys, but I think you do in the end
    share the same story. Thanks anyway. Kind regards.

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  • MadMen

    Articles like these arent complete until you get the “Youre sexist. What do you know?” comments. Looks like youve accomplished that. Truth hurts

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      Exactly, music to my ears :)

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  • GU

    This was absolutely brilliant work. It’s sick how women really are but the truth is the truth.

    • http://swooptheworld.com/ TravelHardcore

      It truly is my friend. You can choose to look the other way and continue living in a fantasy world or you can open your eyes and accept their true nature and deal with the reality: It’s not pretty but at least you can arm yourself with insights and level the field.

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